Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

When Does The 2Nd Stall Hit?



Recommended Posts

I did the whole 3 week stall thing (fun).. not! And I was wondering if there was another stall that was as predictable? I'm on a decent roll right now but I can't stop wondering when it's going to stop. Thanks

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Seela

It will come! Mine happened at 3 months out for four weeks and that was a real grit-my-teeth and hope-for-the- best period. I just ignored the scale and kept doing what I was doing and suddenly the scale plummeted. Boy was I relieved...

But my weight loss wasn't really a smooth downward line - sort of came down like steps and stairs, so I had lots of little mini stalls on the way.

Just keep breathing when the scale doesn't move, you usually see inches come off during a stall :-)))

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm four months out and I have had four stalls of 11,12,15, and 14 days or something like that. So in 120 days, I've been stalled for about 60 or half that time. I don't know if I'm "special" or if this is normal, but it happens.

The first one was soooo frustrating. The second one was worrying. The third and the fourth? meh. irritating but kinda like...whatever. I mean, what would I change anyway? I'm already eating all my Protein, drinking my Water, blah blah. So there's nothing I can do differently, you know?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I understand your frustration. I was sleeved on nov 18 and lost 10 pounds the 1st week which I know was just Water mostly. So now here I am 2 weeks and 2 days into my "3 week stall." If actually really lasts 3 weeks I'm going to lose my s**t. I even gained 2 pounds. I get that fact my body is adjusting to the trauma of surgery and also trying to hold on to everything I put in it because it thinks I'm starving it. My understanding has turned into complete frustration. I decided to up my calories thinking that would help. I went from about 500 to about 800. 200 calories was just from my Protein shake which I hate but i suck it down anyway. I know everyone that says this is normal but it doesn't feel like it. I just makes me feel like I'm failing. It makes me feel like I wasted $12,000 of my hard earned money. I could have gained 2 pounds on my own...ugh

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I thought the stall was just a joke. But nope its true. I had my surgery Oct 22nd and I stalled around 3 weeks out for about 10 days then lost 5 lbs in 3 days then another mini stall and just lost another pound yesterday. I told my fiancee to hide the scale from me for a week. And no matter what don't give it back until next monday. The scale was really messing with me because I can feel I'm losing or changing in terms of my body, but the Damn scale wouldn't move. Every morning I would start out feeling like shit because I weighed the same for days and days. It would throw off my whole day. I feel very angry a lot and I'm almost not interested in eat in or drinking at all. I love protien shakes and would just drink those all day but they are 200 calories each! How do I fit in any other calories if they are so many? Anyone know how many calories I'm supposed to have a day at 7 weeks out?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

True story, I got so mad I thought it was the batteries, so I changed them! Nope not the batteries! Good thing I bought new ones!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Sifford1.... lol. I thought the same thing!!!! Also we are having a total freeze here in California so my supportive fiancee says to me, totally serious "honey its so cold the scale needs to warm up" ahh no. Lol

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I understand your frustration. I was sleeved on nov 18 and lost 10 pounds the 1st week which I know was just Water mostly. So now here I am 2 weeks and 2 days into my "3 week stall." If actually really lasts 3 weeks I'm going to lose my s**t. I even gained 2 pounds. I get that fact my body is adjusting to the trauma of surgery and also trying to hold on to everything I put in it because it thinks I'm starving it. My understanding has turned into complete frustration. I decided to up my calories thinking that would help. I went from about 500 to about 800. 200 calories was just from my Protein shake which I hate but i suck it down anyway. I know everyone that says this is normal but it doesn't feel like it. I just makes me feel like I'm failing. It makes me feel like I wasted $12,000 of my hard earned money. I could have gained 2 pounds on my own...ugh

Ahhh.. I promise it will get better. . You are still very early out. At my three week stall I felt the same way but now I can almost watch it fall off... now just waiting for the next inevitable stall

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I thought the stall was just a joke. But nope its true. I had my surgery Oct 22nd and I stalled around 3 weeks out for about 10 days then lost 5 lbs in 3 days then another mini stall and just lost another pound yesterday. I told my fiancee to hide the scale from me for a week. And no matter what don't give it back until next monday. The scale was really messing with me because I can feel I'm losing or changing in terms of my body, but the Damn scale wouldn't move. Every morning I would start out feeling like **** because I weighed the same for days and days. It would throw off my whole day. I feel very angry a lot and I'm almost not interested in eat in or drinking at all. I love protien shakes and would just drink those all day but they are 200 calories each! How do I fit in any other calories if they are so many? Anyone know how many calories I'm supposed to have a day at 7 weeks out?

I'm getting between 500-800 daily... usually 700-800

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm getting between 500-800 daily... usually 700-800

Oh yeah sleeved 10/21

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I seem to not lose for a week then lose like 3 or 4 the next week. So I will call it the every other week stall. :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I haven't counted calories - I stuck with the amount of Protein my dietician told me to eat and have aimed for that every day. It's worked for me because if I eat the right amount, I take in what I need calorie wise....

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I haven't counted calories - I stuck with the amount of Protein my dietician told me to eat and have aimed for that every day. It's worked for me because if I eat the right amount, I take in what I need calorie wise....

I am waaaay to obsessed for that!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Some lose fast some slow. Some lose more of their excess weight, some less. But when watching these boards EVERYONE has stalls.

My BIG one was the 5th month out...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×