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Well, my surgery is tomorrow! I am so excited and am getting really nervous now too. I had been planning on getting VSG for the past 6 months. At my preop appt. 2 weeks ago, my surgeon highly suggested that I consider RNY based on some medical issues and some social issues as well. My head has been spinning for the past 2 weeks trying to figure out exactly which surgery to get. And being on a liquid diet during this time hasn't helped one bit... lol ;) I have researched and read as much as I could. I have talked to everyone I know that has had bariatric surgeries. I wish I had a crystal ball to tell me what is best.

Has anyone else been in this position? Any words of wisdom?

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I know that through research you can't "cheat " with the rny like you can with the sleeve and lap band

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Im this moment 15 minutes away from my hospital to do the op. im having the gastric bypass because for me, the years of success with this WLS makes me feel secure of losing and the fact that is not just restriction too

Im doing a revision from a lapband .. Which didnt help lose, it just made me unable to eat ( and sometimes drink and breath) while leaving me hungry. But amazing all the bad food would easily slip in. I do Not want that option again

I feel that i will have a great tool for eating healthy after this op.

Why did u want the sleeve and not the Rny? How strongly does your doctor recommend it? Do u trust his experince/ knowledge / him?

It must be very hard to have to choose suddenly after having your mind set on the sleeve . Good luck and i hope that u choose the best option for you and your health

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Good luck Juditha will be thinking of you. Update as soon as your able

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Best of luck to you and a quick recovery, you will make the best choice for you, try to relax:-)

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I had the same dilemma I was set on getting a sleeve. After talking to my dr he also suggested the Rny based on my eating habits and my age. In the end I just paired my knowledge with my drs and made the most educated decision I could I am having my Rny next Tuesday the 11th

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Wow Jane didn't know you were so close

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Wow Jane didn't know you were so close

I know I got bumped from the 18th to the 11th I have my final weigh in Thursday

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I was having this discussion with Dr and then dietician (She played devils advocate). This after my own studies on them. I am sticking with RNY. It's best for me, partly for the strictness withknowing myself, it's best.

You can only make that decision for you. I also looked at the # of patients having RNY done after other surgeries didn't 'do it' for them..

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I wanted the Lap Band but the two dr I talked to said the rny is a beter opition they both would rather do rny and they saay rny has vetter results. Plus my BMI was not n rage for the lap band. I kno this may sound vain of me but I only wanted the lap band bcuz I thought they still gave you the big cut, I sidnt want to b left with that huge scar.

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Last year I wanted the band but then realized it was not going to be enough for me. I need the dumping and the fear of stretching the pouch out. Also not a fan of the whole port thing with the band. But this is me and everyone is different. I have a book called Skinny Jeans. I says that you can have great success with the band if you are a person that will follow the rules with no questions. Good luck in your decision.

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Last year I wanted the band but then realized it was not going to be enough for me. I need the dumping and the fear of stretching the pouch out. Also not a fan of the whole port thing with the band. But this is me and everyone is different. I have a book called Skinny Jeans. I says that you can have great success with the band if you are a person that will follow the rules with no questions. Good luck in your decision.

Yeah I wasnt a big fan of the port either but im getting the RNY I hope you can figure out which one is best for you, it is a hard decision to make.

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I'm getting the lap band and thats because i've had some friends that had it done and they're doing really well.

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Well, I came home from the hospital last night. I decided to trust what my Doctor suggested and went through with the RNY. They say I am doing well. I am feeling a bit overwhelmed with everything ( which they told me I would) and I am trying to get in my liquids. I really am struggling with this today. I had IV fluids in the hospital that helped me a lot. I am trying my best at getting in some Jello right now. Thanks for all of the supportive words!

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Glad you're home newbeginning2012. It gets easier...take it slow and follow your docs plan and you'll do great!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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