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Today I am feeling blessed for this oppurtunity to restart my life and get healthy. My grandmother passed away in November and her weight had a ton to do with it and she was only 69. I feel like she would be proud of me taking control of my life the way she couldn't. I'm proud that I am finally putting my foot down and admitting I had a problem and my weight was not normal. And now that all my pre op doctor appointments are scheduled the surgery is starting to feel real to me now and I am so happy. I want to thank all of you for posting so many different issues and also for the support. You guys are truly amazing! :)

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Today I am feeling blessed for this oppurtunity to restart my life and get healthy. My grandmother passed away in November and her weight had a ton to do with it and she was only 69. I feel like she would be proud of me taking control of my life the way she couldn't. I'm proud that I am finally putting my foot down and admitting I had a problem and my weight was not normal. And now that all my pre op doctor appointments are scheduled the surgery is starting to feel real to me now and I am so happy. I want to thank all of you for posting so many different issues and also for the support. You guys are truly amazing! :)

This is the best thing I have ever done, good luck on your journey.

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Yes... Good luck to you. My dad passed last Jan. at 61. I know his weight had a strain on his heart. I know I will have to have counseling to get through this but, like you, I have put my foot down. :rolleyes:

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I'm glad you are happy being with us

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It's nice to get advice and insight on topics I wouldn't know where else to go. I can't wrap my head around this still. I haven't been thin since I was a little girl, I can't imagine it actually happening to me. It's still surreal

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It's nice to get advice and insight on topics I wouldn't know where else to go. I can't wrap my head around this still. I haven't been thin since I was a little girl' date=' I can't imagine it actually happening to me. It's still surreal[/quote']

I'm getting that feeling back now as I slim. It feels so good except the saggy arms. Lolz

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Lol yeah I'm pretty terrified of the saggy arms aspect of this but I'd rather have that over being big and unhealthy. I'm also hoping age and skin elasticity is on my side and will decide to just go back to how it should have been lol. Even if it doesn't the first couple years at least if it happens I will be thrilled lol. I want to be able to fit Ina decent wedding dress and walk down that aisle feeling beautiful and not hating my body. One of those many goals I have :)

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Hello! How do you start a new thread it seems I can only reply on my cell phone. You are all amazingly fantastic!!!! I go for surgery September 17th. Any advice I'm having RNY gastric bypass? So many people try to talk me out of it saying is so final. I say yes, yes it is bring it on!

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Lol yeah I'm pretty terrified of the saggy arms aspect of this but I'd rather have that over being big and unhealthy. I'm also hoping age and skin elasticity is on my side and will decide to just go back to how it should have been lol. Even if it doesn't the first couple years at least if it happens I will be thrilled lol. I want to be able to fit Ina decent wedding dress and walk down that aisle feeling beautiful and not hating my body. One of those many goals I have :)

I always wanted to renew my weding this time by church but I can only dream. Wishing on things to get better.

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Hopefully they do mami, things were bad here too with my relationship but I think hes starting to come around. They say the surgery can help or destroy marriages and I'm kind of scared about that. I don't want there to be bad changes but I can see him getting insanely jealous that I got looks idk

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Hopefully they do mami' date=' things were bad here too with my relationship but I think hes starting to come around. They say the surgery can help or destroy marriages and I'm kind of scared about that. I don't want there to be bad changes but I can see him getting insanely jealous that I got looks idk[/quote']

Men don't check us out when we are fat but as soon as we start shaping up & sliming down the jealous starts or gets worst.

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I lost my marriage to my husbands rny. I'm grateful to be single!

After he lost weight the marriage ended.

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I'm loving all of this foot putting down!! Lol! You're gonna love the new you!!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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