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I... I will admit I am scared. This is my first ever surgery and I don't know how I will bounce back. I have had a bad back for years so I know that pain. Bad period cramps so I know that pain but I am worried about the pain afterword. Reading some of the posts on here with people talking about how painful it is really does scare me. Any advise? Anyone out that that this was your first surgery? I'm 42... Thx

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I am 45 and I found this to be fairly easy recovery from surgery. I think child birth was harder for me. I took very few pain meds once home. The hard part is learning how to eat.

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i've only had two surgeries, the sleeve and i had a radial shortening on my radius bone in my right arm (they cut out a part of my bone and put a metal plate and seven screws in it to hold it together!). between the two, my arm surgery was WAY more painful than the sleeve. the worst pain, honestly, was the gas pains. and for me there was some nausea right after surgery. but the best way to get rid of the gas pain is to walk, walk, walk! your abdomen will be sore for probably a week or two and the first couple of days i would compare to really bad period cramps or a stomach ache. but it really wasn't that terrible.

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This is my first ever as well. Hate not knowing how my body will react to things. :(

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I'm 59, and unbelievably this was my first ever surgery. I expected to have every complication. As an out of control diabetic, I figured I would have all kinds of problems with bleeding and healing.

Didn't happen. The only pain I had was the first evening in the hospital when it hurt to cough or laugh. I went home after 1 night. Never took the pain meds they gave me. I've had no pain, no nausea, no vomiting, no complications at all! I told my surgeon that if I didn't have 5 funny little marks on my tummy and an inability to eat very much, I might think the surgery never happened.

Despite some of the dramatic stories by others on this site, most sleevers don't actually have any complications or much pain. We just don't post as often.

Good luck on your journey. It's going to be amazing!

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I'm 59' date=' and unbelievably this was my first ever surgery. I expected to have every complication. As an out of control diabetic, I figured I would have all kinds of problems with bleeding and healing. Didn't happen. The only pain I had was the first evening in the hospital when it hurt to cough or laugh. I went home after 1 night. Never took the pain meds they gave me. I've had no pain, no nausea, no vomiting, no complications at all! I told my surgeon that if I didn't have 5 funny little marks on my tummy and an inability to eat very much, I might think the surgery never happened. Despite some of the dramatic stories by others on this site, most sleevers don't actually have any complications or much pain. We just don't post as often. Good luck on your journey. It's going to be amazing![/quote']

Thank you for making me feel better!! I think you all should post more positive things then all the people with the horrible stories!! Xoxo

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When is your date?

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When is your date?
im in pre op still. I would like feb of 2014. I have a bunch of commitments. So feb works out best. But with my weight loss in pre op it might be sooner. Not sure. I have my sleep study next Friday. All my other test r done.

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Good luck!

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Good luck!

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..... Despite some of the dramatic stories by others on this site' date=' most sleevers don't actually have any complications or much pain. We just don't post as often. Good luck on your journey. It's going to be amazing![/quote']

Agreed. We have had threads in the past about "who didn't have pain or difficulties" and they were overwhelming. Most sail through it like nothing. The first 2-3 days you may feel run down just from the anesthesia. After that things tend to start improving noticeably each day.

I've had hangovers that were worse.

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..... Despite some of the dramatic stories by others on this site' date=' most sleevers don't actually have any complications or much pain. We just don't post as often. Good luck on your journey. It's going to be amazing![/quote']

Agreed. We have had threads in the past about "who didn't have pain or difficulties" and they were overwhelming. Most sail through it like nothing. The first 2-3 days you may feel run down just from the anesthesia. After that things tend to start improving noticeably each day.

I've had hangovers that were worse.

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Agreed. We have had threads in the past about "who didn't have pain or difficulties" and they were overwhelming. Most sail through it like nothing. The first 2-3 days you may feel run down just from the anesthesia. After that things tend to start improving noticeably each day. I've had hangovers that were worse.

It's been a long time since a hangover. Lol. My dad has had 4 abdominal surgery so he has told me what it was like for him. It's just nice to hear from others!! Thank you all!!

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This is my first surgery also..not nervous yet..just trying to get everything together & remember what to drink the day before surgery

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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