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FELLOW SLEEVERS SINCE BEING SLEEV'D HOW HAS UR SEX LIFE BEEN..BE HONEST!!!

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FELLOW SLEEVERS SINCE BEING SLEEV'D HOW HAS UR SEX LIFE BEEN..BE HONEST!!!

Got sleeved aug 27th and sex has been the last thought on my mind. Sorry

I am only on my pre op diet and sex is something I want on the daily haha I woke my fiance up at 3am last night but we really don't have it that much. We have been together since we were 15 had sex when we were 18 then around 22 it kinda stopped lol hopefully it will get better after I loose some weight so I can twist and turn and have some fun. Best of luck to all...

I'm pre op 18 days and get it just as much now as I did before. On #4 since Friday. I'm not sure it could get any more frequent, but hopefully the stamina and that extra inch or two these guys are talking about heads my way soon!

Has sagging skin been an issue for anyone? Like made you more self conscious?

I have saggy skin now lol and ya we have sex with the lights off and I have to have clothes on like a dress or a long shirt and we have been together for nine years and I have been huge for 7 of those years... I hope it gets easier for me haha he loves everything about (crazy) Good luck hun
I have saggy skin now lol and ya we have sex with the lights off and I have to have clothes on like a dress or a long shirt and we have been together for nine years and I have been huge for 7 of those years... I hope it gets easier for me haha he loves everything about (crazy) Good luck hun

That's what I was afraid of! I'm 7 days post op so the skin isn't an issue yet. But I was looking forward to not being as self conscious because of the weight loss but I know if I have gross skin hanging I'll be just as self conscious! Oh well! At least I'll look great with clothes on! Lol

Hey just get really sexy sleepwear hahaha im sure everything will be fine your gorgeous

Hey just get really sexy sleepwear hahaha im sure everything will be fine your gorgeous

Good idea! And thanks so much!

Has sagging skin been an issue for anyone? Like made you more self conscious?

I have enough saggy belly that I'm getting a TT at the end of this month. Still....it hasn't stopped me. Yes I can't wait for it to not be there, but after losing the weight I feel so much better and much "capable"...I just think the saggy skin doesn't look half as bad as rolls of fat, which is what I had before.

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at smalltalk... how much are u hoping to lose...it really depends on alot of factors..

Slapping body parts sound better when it's not your own body parts slapping!!!

Slapping body parts sound better when it's not your own body parts slapping!!!

It's just like a waterbed....you've just got to get in sink with the rhythm.

I have enough saggy belly that I'm getting a TT at the end of this month. Still....it hasn't stopped me. Yes I can't wait for it to not be there' date=' but after losing the weight I feel so much better and much "capable"...I just think the saggy skin doesn't look half as bad as rolls of fat, which is what I had before.[/quote']

I'm anticipating needing a TT at some point in my life. And I'm sure I'll get used to my saggy skin! Thanks!

at smalltalk... how much are u hoping to lose...it really depends on alot of factors..

Idk yet. I would like to see what weight I think looks best on me. I've been overweight since I was a child so I'm sure this skin has been stretched for too long to ever look good lol. At surgery I was 263 (8/26), when I got home from the hospital I was 265, and now I'm 256.

Saggy skin gets in the way a LOT less than solid rolls! I'm not lovin my extra skin, but I'm not gonna let it ruin a good time, either!

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