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Maybe it's just me...but I have always insisted on wearing great bras and panties. I haven't had surgery yet. But it's such an edge for me to be wearing some hot underwear under my suit while at work. Maybe it's my equivalent to men having the 'mine is bigger' ego contest at the office. It's always been something I won't comprise on.

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I agree Brighteyes. Plus my hubby (when we were dating) used to ask me what color I had on when we emailed each other. He'd ask in Spanish (so as to not alert my spam filter).

Now, I love that when I get dressed he is often not in the room or asleep. So when we see each other during the day, I usually flash him. It is such a turn on for him. I refuse to have sloppy, horrible looking under garments. Just so not me!

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Haha - besides, panties that are too big cause panty lines and wrinkles under your nice fitting clothes!

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Well' date=' to butt in (pun intended) where I do not belong. Here is a man's perspective. First off, know that I was thin for years and then blew up like a blimp. My wife married and lived for 15 years with a thin and fit Guy. Then I got big with a weight gain of well over 100 pounds.

When I had my surgery and lost the weight (I am down to 205, with 10 -15 to go). I bought new underwear. Not tightie whities either. Colors - I call them my new look.

Here is the deal. I am a weight loss Guy. I know how awesome it was to buy medium and not XL2. But with men it is just hardware.

Trust me on this. If you have lost that weight and look good -- that sexy new underwear will be an awesome inticement. It's the girl we love, looking better than ever and in a sexy package. And trust me girls the package is important.

Which brings me to my point (sorry a bit long winded). I don't care about your size. The joy of buying sexy when you hit goal is great. But for all the rest: thinking about surgery, just had it and a long way from goal, maybe just now looking into it --- regardless you are still beautiful. Please take the extra time to dress up for us. We love you. We want to feel good about our spouse or girlfriend. You may feel terrible about your appearance and not want to make the effort. But trust me it is appreciated. No matter how you look, no matter Where you are on your journey, no matter how you feel about your appearance : remember this - you are still beautiful and if you have some one in your life, they want to feel good about you. They want to be attracted to you. That is part of why they love you.

So as I shut up and head back to the boring men's room, let me close with this.

Get rid of the "holey" panties. Be beautiful. Look beautiful. All the time. Don't wait to hit goal. Do it now. And hey, is that lace ..... sorry, gotta run.[/quote']

Well said Special K

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