Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

BIG FAT PEOPLE!



Recommended Posts

I think addictions often begin as a pursuit of pleasure to numb the discomfort of painful losses. But addictions multiply the pain. In time, it becomes worse than the pain we were trying to relieve.

food.

The more we eat to feel better, the more our bodies work with our emotions to increase the demand. The cycle is addictive.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I think I matched all 7 leading indicators 11 months ago so means I am still a raving food addict. Gotta make it 1 more month...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I just posted this in another thread about Easter...

One week after Easter!!! I thought I made it through scot free. No such luck! I just got back from my mother in laws house I had to go drop off the dog because we are going camping tomorrow... Well right before I leave she hands two Easter "bags" full of candy for the kids AND

Another bag for my husband and I "if I wish to partake" she said. Lord above help me Cadbury eggs and chocolate Bordeaux Eggs!!!

The agony! The temptation! I need to be strong but being strong has always been my weak point.

: /

Oh and did I mention I'm PMSing (and going camping great combo)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I just posted this in another thread about Easter...

One week after Easter!!! I thought I made it through scot free. No such luck! I just got back from my mother in laws house I had to go drop off the dog because we are going camping tomorrow... Well right before I leave she hands two Easter "bags" full of candy for the kids AND

Another bag for my husband and I "if I wish to partake" she said. Lord above help me Cadbury eggs and chocolate Bordeaux Eggs!!!

The agony! The temptation! I need to be strong but being strong has always been my weak point.

: /

Oh and did I mention I'm PMSing (and going camping great combo)

What the heck? Why on earth would she tempt you in that way when she should know better. Frustrates me reading that. Grrr. I would get them out of sight as not to be tempting. Some people just do not understand...and she is family no less. I am going to give Fyre permission to go after her. Lol.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

..... but being strong has always been my weak point.

Somehow I really doubt this..... :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

What the heck? Why on earth would she tempt you in that way when she should know better. Frustrates me reading that. Grrr. I would get them out of sight as not to be tempting. Some people just do not understand...and she is family no less. I am going to give Fyre permission to go after her. Lol.

Haha.. Fiddle I think it's my week to be tested! Yesterday with "psycho donuts" today with chocolate eggs! I feel nervous about this camping trip I will be out of my "routine" and there will be many temptations (s'mores anyone)

On a side note. Some people after this surgery can't stand sweets now, not me.

And some people throw up after eating to much, I read it everyday here. I've never thrown up, I feel defective in that way! I want the automatic emergency evacuation method that others have if they f**k up! :P

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

On a side note. Some people after this surgery can't stand sweets now' date=' not me.

And some people throw up after eating to much, I read it everyday here. I've never thrown up, I feel defective in that way! I want the automatic emergency evacuation method that others have if they f**k up! :P[/quote']

Me too!! Lol!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Me too!! Lol!

Ok this is between me and MrsG so advert your eyes!! :P

Have you ever wondered if you ate enough maybe you could slime or throw up?? I mean maybe we are not doing it right! :P

I do get full if I eat at bite or two to much I get miserably full, but that's it!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

On a side note. Some people after this surgery can't stand sweets now, not me.

And some people throw up after eating to much, I read it everyday here. I've never thrown up, I feel defective in that way! I want the automatic emergency evacuation method that others have if they f**k up! :P

Yeah, got the same problem. Never have gotten the slimes and can eat what ever, including chocolate. The kids got candy for Easter from their mom, but they have been good about keeping it out of sight when they are at my house. My little one gave me 2 m&ms because here daddy needed some Easter candy too...she's awesome and they were yummy....

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Ok this is between me and MrsG so advert your eyes!! :P

Have you ever wondered if you ate enough maybe you could slime or throw up?? I mean maybe we are not doing it right! :P

I do get full if I eat at bite or two to much I get miserably full' date=' but that's it![/quote']

Omg me too!! I had one of the newbie thoughts "omg they didn't take out enuf of my stomach! I should be "sliming"" :P

I've had my tummy feel full, like gross full from one too many bites also but never felt like throwing up! Weird.....

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Sounds like you, John and I are a few of the "lucky" ones that never had these issues!!

Oh and "dumping" no dumping here! :P

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Eve411

      April Surgery
      Am I the only struggling to get weight down. I started with weight of 297 and now im 280 but seem to not lose more weight. My nutrtionist told me not to worry about the pounds because I might still be losing inches. However, I do not really see much of a difference is this happen to any of you, if so any tips?
      Thanks
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Clueless_girl

      Well recovering from gallbladder removal was a lot like recovering from the modified duodenal switch surgery, twice in 4 months yay 🥳😭. I'm having to battle cravings for everything i shouldn't have, on top of trying to figure out what happens after i eat something. Sigh, let me fast forward a couple of months when everyday isn't a constant battle and i can function like a normal person again! 😞
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • KeeWee

      It's been 10 long years! Here is my VSG weight loss surgiversary update..
      https://www.ae1bmerchme.com/post/10-year-surgiversary-update-for-2024 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Aunty Mamo

      Iʻm roughly 6 weeks post-op this morning and have begun to feel like a normal human, with a normal human body again. I started introducing solid foods and pill forms of medications/supplements a couple of weeks ago and it's really amazing to eat meals with my family again, despite the fact that my portions are so much smaller than theirs. 
      I live on the island of Oʻahu and spend a lot of time in the water- for exercise, for play,  and for spiritual & mental health. The day I had my month out appointment with my surgeon, I packed all my gear in my truck, anticipating his permission to get back in the ocean. The minute I walked out of that hospital I drove straight to the shore and got in that water. Hallelujah! My appointment was at 10 am. I didn't get home until after 5 pm. 
      I'm down 31 pounds since the day of surgery and 47 since my pre-op diet began, with that typical week long stall occurring at three weeks. I'm really starting to see some changes lately- some of my clothing is too big, some fits again. The most drastic changes I notice however are in my face. I've also noticed my endurance and flexibility increasing. I was really starting to be held up physically, and I'm so grateful that I'm seeing that turn around in such short order. 
      My general disposition lately is hopeful and motivated. The only thing that bugs me on a daily basis still is the way those supplements make my house smell. So stink! But I just bought a smell proof bag online that other people use to put their pot in. My house doesn't stink anymore. 
       
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Oh yeah, something I wanted to rant about, a billing dispute that cropped up 3 months ago.
      Surgery was in August of 2023. A bill shows up for over $7,000 in January. WTF? I asks myself. I know that I jumped through all of the insurance hoops and verified this and triple checked that, as did the surgeon's office. All was set, and I paid all of the known costs before surgery.
      A looong story short, is that an assistant surgeon that was in the process of accepting money from my insurance company touched me while I was under anesthesia. That is what the bill was for. But hey, guess what? Some federal legislation was enacted last year to help patients out when they cannot consent to being touched by someone out of their insurance network. These types of bills fall under something called, "surprise billing," and you don't have to put up with it.
      https://www.cms.gov/nosurprises
      I had to make a lot of phone calls to both the surgeon's office and the insurance company and explain my rights and what the maximum out of pocket costs were that I could be liable for. Also had to remind them that it isn't my place to be taking care of all of this and that I was going to escalate things if they could not play nice with one another.
      Quick ending is that I don't have to pay that $7,000+. Advocate, advocate, advocate for yourself no matter how long it takes and learn more about this law if you are ever hit with a surprise bill.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×