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hey guys. just curious here. i am almost 4 weeks out. i've lost 25lbs preop and an additional 25lbs postop so far. my question relates to the bedroom. does anyone else having a problem with finishing prematurely?? like i mean a little too soon. faster than normal??? never ever had a problem before even at my biggest at 370lbs. and honestly before surgery i could last 30-40 minutes straight. i am so confused/worried. please help. is this normal? anyone else experience this ??

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Congrats on the 50 off! Rock on.

I haven't had that experience, sorry! Actually, it's just the opposite. I have a lot more stamina, it's harder, and it's bigger. Sorry, dude...may just have been a fluke! Maybe you were just too excited about getting it! I know that feeling, believe me. Maybe try rubbing one out prior...

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How many times has this happened? If it's just once or twice, I'd give it some time man, you could be stressed, rubbed something a certain way, hit a nerve, anything really. Your body is undergoing so many changes right now, rest easy bud, if it's a reoccurring problem, you may want to talk to your surgeons office or doctor about it, but if it's just a few times...I'd ride it out (literally) and see how it plays out.

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Well truth be told. Ive tried it those times by myself. You know what i mean. Privately. Because I'm new out of post op i haven't tried anything yet with my wife. So i was eager to check out my new stamina and what not and i noticed i was done in a couple of minutes. Got me really worried. Tried it like 3-4 times i think. Wtf smh weight loss is great but this sucks bad!!!!

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Your whole hormonal balance is thrown off for awhile post-op. There are a lot of hormones stored in fat and they are released when your body begins utilizing your fat stores for energy. I wouldn't worry about anything in this department for awhile. It would be just too dificult to pinpoint anything at this stage in the game. Too much going on with your body.

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I dont know about you but I never last long when doing it to myself. I guess I know what I like!!! I would not worry about until you try it with your wife. Practice is just that. Practice. I was always more of a game player myself.

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I was fairly lucky.....I never missed a beat. :D :D

Yeah, I would just give it time. I've heard it can mess with hormones and stuff.

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Haven't had any issues except a pulled muscle in my side....

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Did you really think none of the girls would look?

:P

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Did you really think none of the girls would look?

:P

Your gender's curiosity knows no bounds! :P

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Your gender's curiosity knows no bounds! :P

Hey- the post went 5 days before any woman commented on it. That's amazing- especially since we've all read it ;)

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Hey- the post went 5 days before any woman commented on it. That's amazing- especially since we've all read it ;)

That wasn't so much a comment as it was an observation. Do you have any insight from the female perspective?

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Original poster clearly did not ask for the female perspective. :)

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Original poster clearly did not ask for the female perspective. :)

I agree. PDXman, since I don't have a penis- I don't really have an answer :)

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