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I would think that sex is different after you lose weight, mostly because it changes when you gain. I am so insecure with my body after gaining this weight that I can't fully let go and enjoy. My husband has also gained some weight (from predinsone) and now we both have a gut, and positions aren't as easy as they used to be. That being said....I really think losing weight brings out the best in all of us. Good luck!

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No wonder Fishy was banned, he's an ignorant idiot.

tragic. I was hoping that admins would pay attention to the "reported" complaints. Will be nice not to see that negativity and rudeness around here. :) Merry Christmas everyone !

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Losing weight definitely changes sex. My fiance is thin and muscular so when I was 270lbs I felt extremely insecure being naked and didn't let myself enjoy it. I was always afraid that I was going to crush him if I was on top so I never was, and the thought of all my fat jiggling during sex made my drive go way down. Once I lost 80lbs I felt much more sexier and confident even though my skin was looser. And I don't feel like I'm crushing him either, we both enjoy it MUCH more.

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tragic. I was hoping that admins would pay attention to the "reported" complaints. Will be nice not to see that negativity and rudeness around here. :) Merry Christmas everyone !

I'm glad I wasn't the only one who noticed. It's Christmas time for pete's sake, behave!

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Yes, it is very different as you lose weight. 340 to 230 is OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!! wowzer!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :wub:

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No wonder Fishy was banned' date=' he's an ignorant idiot.[/quote']

Well I wouldn't say he was ignorant nor was he an idiot, rude, crass, tactless, yes yes yes.

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I think everyone is.

I'm actually really bummed...

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