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I Feel As Though I Am Going To Fail At This Like All The Other Times... Any Encouraging Words?!?



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Thank you for your post ez, you have given me hope that I will begin to lose as it has been almost 2 weeks since the scales have moved:(

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Thank you so much for the pep talk. I really appreciate it. I plan to work hard and make this dream a reality. I want to be healthy, look and feel great, be more energetic, have a wonderful life without meds or atleast drastically minimize what I am taking now. I can't help genes but I plan to do whatever it takes to fight for a healthy, new me!

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I also have to add since looking back at my original post' date=' I don't advocate that you cheat like I did. I was anxious to get back to work quickly, so I progressed through my diet much quicker than I should have. But once again, I didn't do it right in the beginning, but that also didn't cause me to fail either.[/quote']

Thanks for this paragraph. I am 5 weeks now.

I too went back to work and was anxious to be "normal" -- now I'm in a stall (which I know is normal!) but I'm afraid I didn't do just liquids long enough, I'm afraid I've killed the honeymoon, I'm afraid I'm eating too much compared to the people who are never hungry.

I work and have 2 little kids, carting one of them to/from school in the AM/PM, then dinner... It's not so easy to find time workout, but I know I need to.

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Don't worry about it, you Got this!!

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