Been with someone for 8 years. We've had our ups and downs but all paths seem to lead back to each other. But he didn't even send flowers to me in hospital. He didn't msg to find out where I was at. He did not visit. I finally gave in (stupid me) and called him and said what is going on? How come you are being like this? No response really from him, said he had to go. Well today is fathers day so he is with his girls but I want answers! I hate covert crap. I should be strong enough to not need closure but I'm not, I'm a few days since surgery and the person who was there for me every day before it is gone!!!

You deserve better. He's a fool.You look to YOUR future!!! You will do so much better without him. Think of it as you have lost 250 pounds already!!!!!

Hehe you're both hilarious! I feel lighter already having lost his weight lol. One less person to have to carry burdens of...I like it!

good for you kid!!!!!

Gotta stick with the positive!

I just joined. Im 3years in and Ive gained 50lbs back. I know my eating habits are crap how can I get this off

Hi there...this is actually a thread about my boyfriend leaving after 8 years a couple of days after surgery. Try one of the others and there will be lots more people able to help you...I'm only at the start so not much use

Sounds like he did you a favor...may not feel like now...but it will get better with time.. And remember ..you aren't alone in your journey..we are all here to help!

I wonder how it all turned out? healed or split up?