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I can't wait to not hear "ur so pretty' date=' if u just lost some weight u would be perfect " from a guy. Tired of being the fat friend. Tired of going to the club and being the fat girl at the club and feel like everyone is wondering why I'm there. To have my husband's shirt b way to big on me instead of fitting just right. To having a smaller pant size than my husband. Ect[/quote']

To the " your so pretty" comment I am always itching to say ... You would be perfect if I duct tape your mouth shut lol....but I usually keep it nice:)

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•Shop on the plus side of the store.

•wear frumpy clothes because that's what it's my short fat body.

•shop out of town for clothes.

• cry in the dressing room.

That's it for now

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Eeeek Liz!!! I want to punch your *friend* in the face :(

Yea I second that. and her significant other too!

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Fit into the gown when I go from a mammography!!!!

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I can't wait to have more then four pairs of Jeans that fit.

I can't wait to get looks because i'm smiling, not for being fat.

I can't wait to never hear your so unhealthy, even though i'm healthy.

I can't wait to be able to play sports and not hurry for days. My husband said.

I can wait too not have fat tax on my close because of size.

Can't wait to look like I feel inside.

Can't edit to be the confident me I use to be..

Sleeved 11/15

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I can't wait to...

NOT stand in front if my closet for half an hour trying to magically manifest a cute outfit

NOT decline invites

NOT hide behind hoodies, hats or averted glances instead of making eye contact because in my damaged brain, I'm convinced that people are just trying to justify judging me.

NOT avoid family trips. I SO want to take my kids to Darien Lake next summer. I avoided it this summer bc I LOVE roller coasters & waterslides, but I can't do those anymore...for now!

NOT feel awkward in my body in EVERY moment/experience of my day!

NOT be a slave to whatever crazy diet change I'm in the grips of "today". To not have to think about stupid foooooood so much. Grrrrrrz.

NOT hear the applause when I try to jog &/or just walk too fast (or during certain adult activity positions lol)

NOT hurt/ache so much. I know there's a possibilty that it won't necessarily improve w/wt loss, but I'm STILL HOPING! :}

347*294/284/135 (*347HW/294SSW) | (twitter) @Mwrarr | mwrarr.wordpress.com

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Hi everyone! I just started a January sleevers page on Facebook. Its very much secret and no one outside the group can see ur a member or see any activity. Just request me and ill add u. Kay Kay Benson (wessendorf)

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not have to clean my house and can't catch my breath afterwards

not have to Shop in the plus size section.

not have to lift my belly to dry underneath it after a shower.

not have to wear a skirt with my bathing suit to hide the fat

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... hear my wii fit groan on screen when I step on and then calculate my bmi and yell " thats obese"!!

Ha!! I totally forgot it did that! Stupid Wii fit...I used to never get on it until no one was around...

++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ 347*294/284/135 (*347HW/294SSW) | (twitter) @Mwrarr | mwrarr.wordpress.com

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Jusstice' date=' I know what you mean!! I want a purse that crosses over my body. My daughter has the cutest black coach purse that she wears across her body and leaves her hands free. I WANT that!!

I think that will be a lil gift to myself when I'm at goal. <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' />[/quote']

That's on my Christmas list!!!! :-)

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I can't wait to not have little kids ask me if I am pregnant and have to reply "No, honey. I am just fat."

I can't wait to actually have a lap for my kids to sit on.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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