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Why Won't My Brain Let Me See The Loss?

(I'VE ADDED PHOTOS IN A LATER POST....scroll down)

Ok old timer pro sleevers or anyone else, really... did this ever happen to you?? I've lost 70 pounds, I've gone from a 30 to an 18/20 (tight, but i got them ON! ;) ), I now fit in bathrooms stalls, airplane bathrooms, airplane seat belts, chairs at places I avoided because of...small chairs, I can reach my feet, feel my hip bones and rib bones, see my chin, cross my legs, reach stuff on the floor from a sitting position, walk up the stairs without getting winded, workout for an hour like it's nothing, get up from the floor without the aid of chairs or 8 strong sailors and a winch--and a plethora of other NSVs... BUT--(we all have a big BUT, don't we??)

I CAN'T SEE IT IN THE MIRROR!!!! I see the same 349 lbs staring back at me. WHY oh WHY is my brain doing this to me??? Is this a normal part of the process?? Will it get better? I don't even think my before and after pics look drastically different. That has to be some sort of sickness.... lol

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  • I'm just the opposite. I never saw myself as being overweight. Which was part of my issues. Call it denial, I'm sure. So, when I look at myself now, it is the person who I always thought I was.

  • june13sleever
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    In my pics I seem almost tiny, but I don't see it in the mirror - just in pics. I feel like I could lose more, but I am somewhere between 168 and 174 and 5'11". Something like 70% of the population

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You look great! I feel the same way. I just don't feel 50lbs lighter. I think for me, part of it is because I have never lost this amount of weight in such a short amount of time.

Dooter .... Yea!!!! Great job.. you look fantastic ... I can't wait!

OK PEEPS- I stopped at AVENUE and tried on some clothes to see where I am. I am fitting into 18/20 in the second pic here. The straight 18s aren't quite fitting yet. NOW I can see it in the mirror....

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Girl you are looking good. The size you are now is where I would love to be and STAY! But if I get a little smaller than you, I will still be great. I don't want to get smaller than a size 16. I want to keep my curves...but just tone them and make them more defined and beautiful.

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