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WTF do I wear to this wedding?!

So, I have to go to DH's cousins wedding at the end of the month. I thought that I had a dress that was too small last year that I could wear. I tried to put it on, but apparently I no longer have the boobs to hold the thing up, and it can't be taken in without compromising the dress :(. Makes me sad, because it's a $200 dress I never got to wear.

ANYWAYS....I went shopping, but there is literally NOTHING on the racks that is appealing to me within a 40 mile radius of my house. I'm still a plus size (18 right now I believe, probably a 16 by the end of the month), but everything is just so....matronly I guess. I'm only 22, and I have to find something that looks good on me. I'm getting really concerned about this wedding, and a part of me doesn't even want to go at this point. DH's family has always made me feel inferior, and some of them have made some pretty nasty comments about my ever changing weight. The goal is to look as small as possible, but I'm not finding anything to help me accomplish that.

There has to be a shopaholic somewhere on this site that can point me in the right direction! I love shopping, but to be honest with you, I've never felt so lost inside of the mall in my life!

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  • SouthernSleever
    SouthernSleever

    Check out Torrid. Expensive but seriously up to date fashions for plus sized young ppl.

  • dlflightgirl
    dlflightgirl

    I found a great sping dress at lane Bryant the other day. good luck. I would shop online for a wrap dress, that way it's adjustable as u lose weight.

  • samantha209
    samantha209

    i swear by torrid, igigi, and kiyonna

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  • 3 weeks later...

I'm so late on this topic but I love torrid, I also shop at forever 21 in their plus size section. Those are my two places that I swear by!!! I'm actually wearing something from torrid and something from forever 21 plus size right now. On forever 21's website you can get alot of the plus size items for REALLY cheap! I just ordered like 8 items the other day and it was less than 45 bucks.

I had no idea that forever 21 even had a plus size section... i stopped shopping there right after HS because I was in an XL there and normal sizes everywhere else... depressing! lol

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