Ok so I am in the process of getting a band. There is this one thing that came to mind and it's regarding performing oral sex on a man.

I hope this doesn't come across as slutty but I am worried that when I do this I might gag and that can hurt my band. Is that possible?

I happen to like doing this specific act of love and been known to gag in the past. I dont mind the gagging itself because it never hurts and I don't throw up, but if I have the band and gag, can it slip or somethin?

If I'm crossing the line please feel free to lock/delete this thread!

Hi everyone, I really enjoyed reading all the posts.

I've got to say that I've never been soooooo curious to see what all of you "full of life" people have to post. This thread breaks up the routine, very interesting topic.

You should refrain from lovemaking until you are healed. But I don't think you will have any problems. You are still going to be able to gag and throw up if needed.

Ok i have heard this sooooooo many times in this thread and no man has had the balls to say anything... I love the fact that there are women who like to go down on their man... i swear i was shocked at the number of women u like it considering my community but before i start to digress here is what i want to inform the women in this room... Men like getting head (period) Hell until i knew better my motto was there is no such thing as bad head... Well this is not true there is bad head there is worst head and there is Horrendous head.... the problem lies in the fact that men feel so happy that a woman is doing the act that it can be bad and they will never say anything... most men with not tell you if you are bad at it... in fact if you have to ask the question to get the answer theres a chance it doesnt work for him... another thing to note is that just like women, what works for one man won't work for all men...

This information i am relaying i had to learn the Hard way...(i can still remember the bruises) so my advice to the women who enjoy it and want to be the greatest you man ever had... treat it like a class in college. go to borders pick up an couple of text book.... Study your text to understand the theory. once you have a general understanding of the theory take that knowledge to the lag and run some test and experiments... This way whether its the guy u have now or the a guy in the future u will have enough talent/skill/knowledge to drive any man crazy. when u really get it down you will get questions like how did you get so good at this? and such questions ... and you know your doing it right if the guy looks at you with fascinated eyes wondering how the hell and who the hell taught her that.

Thus is how i learned and perfected cunnilingus thus its possible for you ti master fellatio.

but then thats just one mans experience and opinion....

somebody back me up

you must be a pro!

I'm a student granted at this point its more of a Scholar. But a student none the less.

Why not just ask your man???

I have no issues with checking into a book or 2, or grabbing ideas from just about anywhere, but no one will know what feels best to him, but him.

Goes for anything, not just oral sex.....show them what YOU like, let them show you what they like....

Never quit learning....

Kat

I agree.. I say what I like or don't like, and he does the same for me.

If we weren't comfortable enough to say "Hey don't use your teeth there", we shouldn't be playin with each other's naughty bits! :confused:

thats great but you would be supprised to find out how many people have not had that revelation.

I was in a pool with 5 rather sexy girls yesterday and I didn't have sex with any of them. I fail as a man :think

Let's keep this thread going.

Chris

*raises hand* I'm a BIG (pun intended) fan of performing oral sex and I've been known to gag.

Like diedre said, the gagging is not related to your stomach but rather your throat. No problems here!

I am rolling on the floor with my fiance laughing at your "little people" HAHAHA

Wow, I can't believe this thread is still going! This is fun to read!

I just came across this thread as i have been gone for sometime now but holy smokes how come i have never met women like you earlier in life.

One post here mentioned a true fact about head - not all of it is good. for me at least when i get it - i want a mixture of things but it definitely has to be wet. i like it to be teased and licked as well as the whole thing going in. anyway hope i am not being too forward with this.... but I don't just like to be on the receiving end - I like to reciprocate.

I personally love to go down on a woman just as much as I like to receive it. To quote a friend sorry if it is a little crass but... " i don't come up until my face is glazed over like a krispy kreme donut" there is something totally hot about making a woman orgasm by going down on her.

Well I can say this- everytime you gag your stomache squeezes in and thats what causes the slippage,you might be able to get by with it for awhile but each time you are taking the chance of slippage. It's really up to you, what do you like more, being smaller or the sex thing!!