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So nice to have others that have as much weight to lose as me. I'm getting sleeved this Friday by Dr. Aceves and even now, I keep thinking that this will work for everyone...but me. I will be the ONLY person in the history of sleeve-dom that GAINS weight. lol
I'm sure it's because nothing has worked for me in the past seven years. Weight Watchers helped me lose about 35 lbs...once. But that's when I weighed 210 and went down to 175. Looking back, I can't even begin to guess how I allowed all this additional weight on my body. I feel crummy.
I'm doing this for me, then my kids. I am 42 years old. I'm not the same person anymore. I look way different, I don't like to go out in public or to public events. School and grocery store, necessity stuff, it's okay. But go to fun Christmas party with my spouse for his work - no way in hell.
My dad had his first heart attack at 43, so two years ago I took more aggressive steps in taking control of my health. I went to a cardiologist for the first time, had a stress test, ended up having a catherization. No problems, but good to know. I went to my PCP every other month in an attempt to get my weight under control. Sent me to a specialist. Found out I have Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome. I don't have a beard or anything, just can't lose weight for anything. I even joined WW again another three times this past two years. Fail.
NOTHING was working. Finally one day, my six year old daughter - who loves me dearly - said very matter of factly: I don't want to look like you went I grow up. I was sick. I tried to keep an understanding mom face on but it crushed me. Later, in private, I bawled. Decided that I was going to have WLS with or with my insurance's consent. Screw 'em. WLS was nothing new. I had been researching it for years, even attending a 'mandatory' information session for the Wisconsin Bariatric Center hospital over here. My insurance has a specific exclusion by the employer for any weight loss surgery.
I wasn't going to wait anymore. Was adement about the band, until I came across this forum, actually. When I met with a bariatric surgeon locally, I told him that I was considering the sleeve. He thought it was a good idea. We went over some charts. He asked if I wanted to schedule, told him I was shopping doctors. lol Felt good to be in control. Chose Dr. Aceves after many, many referrals and checked references. I am happy with my decision and am looking forward to being in the ONEderland club soon. :mad:
So here I am. Counting down the days. I leave in two, get sleeved in three. I would like to get to know other people here in this forum. Nearly everyone I know struggles with their weight, but something's missing. You have to have a LOT of weight to lose in order to know what that feels like.