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Aussie, I am 33 and am single. Was sleeved 2 weeks ago. I'm in your boat, sister! Cant wait to see what the future brings!! Bring it on, right?!

But yeah, I mean I'll admit it scares me. I did this for ME and my son.. but you KNOW in the back of my mind I'll always think the chances after surgery to meet a decent guy should be better! Ya know? And what if they're not? A total disappointment. We shall see....

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Aussie, I am 33 and am single. Was sleeved 2 weeks ago. I'm in your boat, sister! Cant wait to see what the future brings!! Bring it on, right?!

But yeah, I mean I'll admit it scares me. I did this for ME and my son.. but you KNOW in the back of my mind I'll always think the chances after surgery to meet a decent guy should be better! Ya know? And what if they're not? A total disappointment. We shall see....

Pinkbetty, I hear ya. I do hope the quality of guys does get better. I will let ya know how it goes. ..

Good luck with your journey, keep us posted!

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Congratulations on your new man!

I too hope to have as much fun. Not sure I am that young, wish I had done it a few years ago now (but I chickened out then, this time I am very sure)

But I guess you are never too old to fall in love.

hey you are more than 20 years younger than me. you have plenty of time to find a wonderful man. Losing weight opens up a whole new world, so be picky!

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just became single a week ago. glad i got it over with and did it. was in a relationship for 2.5 years with someone i feel i settled with. weight has been lifted off my shoulders

dunno if i wanna meet someone this soon yet, but gonna stay in here and read through some things.

but i do want to get back into the dating scene, so i'm excited about that. would be nice if there were a site for WLS patients to date etc.

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I will be sleeved on 10/29 and I am also single. In the past my self esteem has been non-existant and dated all the wrong guys. Im hoping one day I will have confidence and a nice guy.

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I'm newly sleeved (2 weeks today). I'm 30, live in Sydney and single and am really looking forward to the next 5 years of my life. I'm hoping this sleeve will be the beginning of my new life :) good luck all.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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