Getting banded next month. Looking for other newbies.

I think so. I just am one of those people who usually doesn't like to air all of my business' date=' I like to keep my personal issues personal unless people ask, but I don't hide it. I have told a few people post surgery and they have been VERY encouraging and supportive! I know this was one of the hardest decisions that I have made in life, but I needed to do it. One thing a lot of people do not understand is that choosing to do lap band is not an easy path and I hope to educate them that this is not an "easy weight loss fix" for me. This is a tool that will help me in this lifelong battle that I have had. I will still have to work very hard at weight loss. I think unless you have gone through it, you will never truly understand. That is why I am so thankful for all of you my fellow bandsters!![/quote']

I'm also very thankful for all you fellow bandsters too ; ) I have only told 4 people. I'm going to try & keep in that way. I'm a very outgoing person, however; I am private when it comes to my personal business. However; I may change my mind, once the weight starts coming off. Time will tell.

I agree that this was a big decision and one that none of us took lightly. I think it is hard to judge people when they haven't walked in our shoes. Having been called a cheater and then knowing what I have been through physically and emotionally I think alot of the criticism stems from people not wanting us to succeed. Where my bmi was 33 to begin with people often told me that I didnt need the band. However the weight still has caused me health problems. I too am thankful for everyone on this site.

Amen! I feel exactly the same! That is why, I have not told many people. Especially my co-workers.

For some reason it's a no-no on my pre op diet!

Bananas are listed on my post op acceptable foods for week 3 &4.

Amen! I feel exactly the same! That is why' date=' I have not told many people. Especially my co-workers.[/quote']

Jama

I don't feel the same. I feel if people know at least in my circle...theywill become more aware of the procedure. I explain what it does that basically it's for my health.losing weight is a joyful side effect. I've told a few people at church friends and some strangers well the pharmacy people. I really think the word needs to get out to the average joe to help dispel the stigma.

One more day. Looking forward excitedly.

Thanks I totally agree. Extra weight is extra weight regardless if it is 60 lbs or 100 lbs. I am excited to have energy when the weight is off. How is everyone's energy so far? I am 2 weeks out and get tired easily. I had 2 other surgeries at the same time. My overall goal is to feel better and live better.

I do have energy but this is my first week back to work and I am tired. So trying to do that and take care of me I'm just pooped.

I will say this its been three weeks yesterday I've lost 25 lbs and its amazing about how much more I can do. This time last year if I would've went to the fair I would've died walking the other night I was able to walk the whole time except maybe to sit while my mom and aunt looked at something I didn't want to. Also I'm happy bc normally before WLS it was so hard for me to shave my legs in the shower but the other day I did that and it made me happy...it's the small things lol

I do have energy but this is my first week back to work and I am tired. So trying to do that and take care of me I'm just pooped.

I will say this its been three weeks yesterday I've lost 25 lbs and its amazing about how much more I can do. This time last year if I would've went to the fair I would've died walking the other night I was able to walk the whole time except maybe to sit while my mom and aunt looked at something I didn't want to. Also I'm happy bc normally before WLS it was so hard for me to shave my legs in the shower but the other day I did that and it made me happy...it's the small things lol

The little things are sometimes the sweetest NSV's!!! Today I painted my toenails and it was sooo much easier to reach and bend. I had been struggling with back pain as well, and found it hard to walk a long way. But my back is great now!!

I think so. I just am one of those people who usually doesn't like to air all of my business' date=' I like to keep my personal issues personal unless people ask, but I don't hide it. I have told a few people post surgery and they have been VERY encouraging and supportive! I know this was one of the hardest decisions that I have made in life, but I needed to do it. One thing a lot of people do not understand is that choosing to do lap band is not an easy path and I hope to educate them that this is not an "easy weight loss fix" for me. This is a tool that will help me in this lifelong battle that I have had. I will still have to work very hard at weight loss. I think unless you have gone through it, you will never truly understand. That is why I am so thankful for all of you my fellow bandsters!![/quote']

Musica there is definitely a perception out there that lap band surgery is an easy fix and guaranteed weight loss. People don't understand that you can fail the lap band. They also think the band does all the work and don't understand that it is just a tool and we still have to work hard to lose weight. I have only told my closest friends and family but plan on telling people when they notice the loss and ask how I did it. But I will also be honest with them about how hard it is and how everyday is a struggle

Thanks I totally agree. Extra weight is extra weight regardless if it is 60 lbs or 100 lbs. I am excited to have energy when the weight is off. How is everyone's energy so far? I am 2 weeks out and get tired easily. I had 2 other surgeries at the same time. My overall goal is to feel better and live better.

My energy levels have been horrible the last two days.. But I have also been lazy with my vitamins and suspect that's why??

My energy levels have been horrible the last two days.. But I have also been lazy with my vitamins and suspect that's why??

Could be. I take my vitamins but I'm just really tired. I am praying that it gets better before I go back to work.

My energy levels have been horrible the last two days.. But I have also been lazy with my vitamins and suspect that's why??

Could be. I take my vitamins but I'm just really tired. I am praying that it gets better before I go back to work.

My energy levels have been horrible the last two days.. But I have also been lazy with my vitamins and suspect that's why??

You have to keep up meds. Idk what ur taking but I have flintstone chewables complete...just pop and chew. I take all vit at night so to rest while they get in my system and the next morning feel great. Now tomorrow I get banded so taking everything might be off kilter but I've been taking at least 20-30 pills a day for 30 years so I won't be off them more than a day if that. Be safe .

You have to keep up meds. Idk what ur taking but I have flintstone chewables complete...just pop and chew. I take all vit at night so to rest while they get in my system and the next morning feel great. Now tomorrow I get banded so taking everything might be off kilter but I've been taking at least 20-30 pills a day for 30 years so I won't be off them more than a day if that. Be safe .

My doc told me that I needed chewable or liquid multivitamins because tablet ones are too big too swallow, but my other prescription ones would be ok ( I have two). I was very nervous the first time I had to take one but it was fine

My doc told me that I needed chewable or liquid multivitamins because tablet ones are too big too swallow' date=' but my other prescription ones would be ok ( I have two). I was very nervous the first time I had to take one but it was fine [/quote']

I take the flintstones and dissolving b12.

On my way to hospital. Say a prayer for me. I didn't cheat but only lost 10 lbs in two wks preop.....medications!! I'll soon join most of you as a bander. Ya rah!

Hi everyone, I'm Amy. I start my 3 day clear liquids diet today and will have surgery on Monday. It's been really helpful to read everyone's experiences so far.

Hi everyone' date=' I'm Amy. I start my 3 day clear liquids diet today and will have surgery on Monday. It's been really helpful to read everyone's experiences so far.[/quote']

Welcome Amy! This is a pretty great group you can share your good you bad and your success what works for you etc welcome to the bandster club