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I had 4 weeks off, I didn't realise how tired I would be. I went back on week 5 and it nearly wiped me out. By week 6 all was well. It just depends on the person and the type of job they do.

You look so beautiful and love the long dress!!

I wish I had been awake when I read your question !! lol

I started on Tuesday, just shakes and water! So this is my day 3. Its been easier than I thought it would be but I have had a blinding headache I am doing 4 days... Will report in at the end

I had my first shower 2 days after the surgery and stood with the Water more on to my back than my front. How long? Depends on how you feel. I was quite tired so once I had washed my hair and 'bits' I was out. Enjoy!

It’s normal to be nervous before the surgery, I think we all go through the questioning in our heads. Is this right for me? Will it be painful? How am I going to cope with so little food in the first few months? And on and on. However we all get through it and I can honestly say that it’s been one of the best decisions I have ever made in my life. Believe in yourself and your inner strength, you CAN do it. As for things to take to the hospital I would advise (For one night): Loose clothes to go home in. Something to read (such as magazines, which you can just pick up and put down in between walking, sipping, sleeping, walking sipping) Gas-x strips Soap, toothpaste and toothbrush. Nightwear/underwear I stayed 3 nights and 4 days and so in addition I took and found helpful: Kindle Face wipes Lip Balm Phone and charger Shampoo and body wash 3 x nightwear I spent most of the time in between the walking etc either in bed sleeping or watching tv/reading or being checked over by the health professionals, especially in the first day. My husband brought a pillow to put over my tummy so the seat belt didn't dig in for the drive home. Otherwise the hospital provided everything else I wanted. Best of luck for the surgery and for a very speedy recovery!!

I am a side sleeper but had to wait until about week 3 before feeling comfortable to sleep on my side. First night was BLISS

I know a lot of people write down how many pounds each week or month but I have never done that. I can't even remember what I lost in the first month as it didn't matter as long as I was losing, either lbs or inches. I used to weigh every day but don't do that now. I think I will go back to that once maintaining so I can keep an eye on it and nip it in the bud if I need to. Everyone loses at a different rate so as others have said don't pin your hopes on what others have achieved. As for 2lbs, I am sure you will do that! Good luck for the surgery and a speedy recovery

Truth is good, its just how its put over at times. You know the saying, "it's not what you say, it's how you say it" thing.

@@perforce good plan although it wouldn't be faked complaint. The whole point is your plan is good, as its the truth. @@itstimealready Just keep it to the bare minimum, don't elaborate and good luck!!

How far out are you?

I use a 24oz bottle and start the day with a 24oz Protein latte. I refill it with Water mid morning.. In the afternoon and evening. I used to drink a lot of water before vsg and I am lucky that I still can. Carry a bottle where ever you are and drink all day. Good luck!

I used to drink tea all day every day and now I can't stand it. I never liked coffee before and now I love it. Go figure

Not long now... heading to your new life!! Congratulations

@@Elode You ROCK!! You should be very proud of yourself, for what you have achieved and the person that you are!

You really need to get in touch with your team. I hope you feel better soon!!

A lesson learnt is a powerful thing! Our tastes change such a lot in a short time don't they Have you any idea when you are having surgery?

Jane I have always found your posts very thoughtful and typed with tact.. what ever you have said. You have made me smile and look to you for always having the sense to read between the lines in an question. I admire you a lot. Irrelevant? Not to me.

I am in but starting tomorrow *Friday*... I can do the extra day at the end !!

I had my surgery a day after my 54th birthday. Best decision ever :-)

I take Centrum Chewables twice daily. They taste nice and my bloods are perfect. I did try the capsules but they made me throw up, so went back to the chewables and have been fine since.

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Thanks for sharing, especially just before the holidays!

If you didnt feel a need to make a thread about this why didn't you take your own advice, ignore it and move on! Oh, can you smell the irony?!? I can!! Have you got something stuck on the bottom of your shoe?

Having the strength to make this decision makes me feel you will get through this and come out sronger on the other side. I wish you all the very best in your recovery. I think you are an amazing woman.