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txgal1961

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    txgal1961 reacted to jsea in Is Unjury Worth the Cost?   
    I definitely think Unjury is worth the price. You have to be careful with a lot of the Protein Shakes out there on the market as they can be high in calories. I trust everything that is in the Unjury and that alone is worth the price to me
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    txgal1961 got a reaction from Bandista in Hiccups After Eating?   
    This is what happens to me when I eat: When I get toward the last couple spoonful's on my little plate I eat extremely slow and I can pretty much tell when it is going to happen. I love getting hiccups, it's my sign that I have had enough!!! Sometimes I can even put those last couple bites in the garbage. Listen to your body and you will do great!!!
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    txgal1961 reacted to Jean McMillan in 6 Myths About the Adjustable Gastric Band   
    The world of bariatric surgery is full of myths. Every time myths are repeated, they gain strength and credibility (deserved or not), so it’s important to look at them closely before accepting them as true.


    TIME TO THROW OUT SOME OLD MYTHS
    It’s time to throw out some old myths about the adjustable gastric band, but before we start flinging those myths around, let’s all agree on what a myth is.
    The traditional definition is that a myth is an ancient story of unverifiable, supposedly historical events. A myth expresses the world view of a people or explains a practice, belief, or natural phenomenon. For example, the Greek god Zeus had powers over lightning and storms, and could make a storm to show his anger.
    If you think myths are dry stuff found only in schoolbooks, think again. They surround just about every aspect of our lives, and travel much faster now, in the age of technology, than they did in the dusty old days of ancient Greece and Rome. They’re a way for us to make sense of a chaotic world, both past, present and future. They affect thoughts, beliefs, emotions and assumptions in our everyday lives, coming alive in our minds as we, and the people around us, seem to act them out.
    Some myths are helpful because they give us a shared sense of security and express our fundamental values and beliefs, but some myths are just plain wrong and can be harmful to us and to others. A good example is the myth that having weight loss surgery is taking the easy way out. Every time I hear that one repeated, I want to laugh and scream at the same time. If you’re a post-op, you know why. Weight loss is hard no matter how you do it (surgery, diet pills, prayer, magic cleanses, and so on). On the other hand, WLS is supposed to be easy, compared to the dozens or hundreds of weight loss attempts in our past. Why on earth would I put myself through a major surgery if it wasn’t going to help me lose weight and keep it off?
    Now that we’ve shared a little laugh (or scream) over a WLS myth we can all agree upon, let’s test out some band myths whose validity may not be as clear. This kind of examination can be uncomfortable, but believing in a falsehood is almost guaranteed to make your WLS journey bumpier than it needs to be.
    Let’s start with the myths that are easiest to digest and end with the ones that can be tougher for a bandster to swallow.
    #1 – THE BAND IS THE LEAST INVASIVE WLS PROCEDURE
    I believed this one at first, mainly because I knew little about the other WLS procedures back in 2007. It’s still a widely-circulated myth, one that even my surgeon’s well-intentioned dietitian endorses. So, what’s the truth according to Jean? Face it: any surgery done on an anesthetized patient, during which a surgeon cuts into the belly in several places, does some dissection (more cutting) and suturing (stitching) of the internal anatomy, and implants a medical device (the dreaded “foreign object”), is invasive. It is true that band placement generally involves less internal dissection and suturing than other weight loss surgeries, but neither is it on the same level medically as having your teeth cleaned. So while the invasiveness of a surgery is worth considering, you do yourself a disservice if you let that override other considerations. A bariatric surgery might last 45-60 minutes, with recovery lasting a week or so, but its effect on your health and lifestyle last a lifetime. Or I sure hope it does.
    Some people associate invasiveness with irreversibility. Although the band is meant to stay put once clamped to your stomach, it can indeed be removed if medically necessary. Gastric bypass (RNY) surgery can also be reversed, while the sleeve (VSG) cannot and only the “switch” (malabsorptive feature) of the duodenal switch (DS) can be reversed. Removal or reversal is not as easy as operating on a “virgin belly” (as my surgeon so colorfully puts it), so it’s important to weigh the benefits against the risks of reversal or revision surgery.
    #2 – BAND WEIGHT LOSS TAKES TOO MUCH WORK
    Aside from the desire for instant and effortless weight loss (which is a fairy tale if I ever heard one) that so many obese people share (me among them), this is a myth that often turns people away from the band and towards other WLS procedures. While this myth may be true in the first 12-18 months after surgery, eventually everyone ends up in the same boat, rowing hard against the powerful tide of obesity.
    Weight loss and weight maintenance is hard no matter how you achieve it. A dietitian who spoke at a band support group meeting I attended a few years ago said that while band patients must change their lifestyle immediately in order to succeed, every WLS patient must do that sooner or later. It’s a pay-me-now or pay-me-later deal. You can slice it, dice it, sauté it and serve it on your grandmother’s best china. However you serve it, weight loss and maintenance is a lifetime project because obesity is a chronic disease with no cure. No matter how successful we are as new post-ops, all of us must face the possibility of regain. That’s why I cringe when someone proudly crows, “XXX pounds gone forever!”
    #3 – THE BAND’S SLOWER WEIGHT LOSS PREVENTS SAGGING SKIN
    This is a fairy tale. According to several plastic surgeons I’ve heard speak on the subject. The effect of weight loss on skin depends mostly on your genetics and your age (because skin loses elasticity as we age). Other factors can be how obese you were, how long you were obese, how you carried your weight, and how much (and how) you exercise as you lose weight.
    I’ve heard women say that they’d rather be obese than have sagging or excess skin. To my mind, that’s a sad statement, because I’d rather have sagging or excess skin (as long as it didn’t interfere with my ambulation or activities) than excess weight. Don’t get me wrong: I loathe the excess flab on my midsection (whose nickname is “The Danish Pastry”) and I’m not thrilled about my batwings, throat wattles, or anything else that’s happened to my skin in the past few years (during which I’ve undergone the double-whammy of weight loss and the fast approach of my 60’s). On the other hand, I think I look pretty good for a woman my age, especially when I conceal my figure flaws in flattering clothing which, I might add, no longer needs to be purchased at Lane Giant.
    #4 – TO LOSE WEIGHT, YOU HAVE TO FIND YOUR SWEET SPOT
    I used to wonder how the Sweet Spot Myth could survive in the face of so much clinical evidence against it, but last year I heard the “you gotta find your sweet spot” claim uttered by a bariatric dietitian, so apparently this is a myth being validated by medical professionals who ought to know better.
    Instead of the sweet spot, Allergan (the first to introduce the band in the USA) uses a zone chart to illustrate band restriction, with not enough restriction in the yellow zone, good restriction in the green zone, and too much restriction in the red zone. In other words, restriction happens in a range of experience, not at a single static point. That experience changes over time as we lose weight, deal with ordinary processes such as hormonal fluctuations, hydration changes, stress, medications, time of day, and so on. It’s also affected by our food choices (solid vs soft/liquid food).
    In my banded days, I traveled through and around a sweet spot many times. It might last for 30 minutes, 3 days, 3 weeks, but it never stayed exactly the same, and yet I still lost weight! I don’t actually want to stay exactly the same for the rest of my life (throat wattles notwithstanding). As any Parkinson’s disease patient will tell you (if they’re able to speak), a body that gets stuck in time is a very big problem (and with my luck, I’d get stuck in the worst sinus infection or case of the flu of my life). Some people who are very sensitive to their band and its fills find sudden or unexpected changes in restriction to be very, very frustrating, and I wouldn’t wish that on anyone, either.
    To read more about the sweet spot, click here to go to an article, The Elusive Sweet Spot.
    http://www.lapbandtalk.com/page/index.html/_/support/post-op-support/the-elusive-sweet-spot-r59
    #5 – NO SIDE EFFECTS MEAN MY BAND ISN’T WORKING
    Equating side effects with a properly working band is very common, and potentially very harmful. The two most significant signs of the band’s proper functioning are (1) early satiety and (2) prolonged satiety. Those signs are rarely expressed in large, bold, uppercase letters, such as

    STOP EATING NOW!


    Those signs won’t be accompanied by clanging bells or flashing lights, either. In fact, the less noise and distraction (such as “Why don’t I have stuck episodes?”), the more likely you are to be able to recognize early and prolonged satiety.
    Before I tell you why the no side effects = broken band worry is a sign of mythical thinking, let’s make sure we agree on the definition of a side effect, and how that relates to complications. A side effect is an unintentional or unwanted effect of a medical treatment, and it’s usually exceeded (or at least balanced) by the benefits (the intentional, wanted effects) of that treatment. For example, antibiotics can cause diarrhea. That’s an unpleasant side effect, but an untreated infection can have far worse consequences for the patient. Side effects can often be managed by tweaking or changing the treatment, and they are rarely worse than the original condition.
    A complication, on the other hand, is a more acute, serious consequence of a medical treatment, and usually needs a more aggressive approach, including surgery to fix the problem. Now let’s go back to the antibiotic example. An allergic, anaphylactic reaction to the antibiotic can be fatal without prompt medical treatment. That’s a complication, and it’s far worse than the original condition.
    So in the context of all that, it seems strange to me when bandsters long for side effects like regurgitation (PB’s), stuck episodes, and sliming. Instead of looking for more subtle clues from their bodies (like early and prolonged satiety), they go looking for problems, and worse than that, they tend to “test” their band with foolish eating and/or overeating, hoping to provoke a side effect that will signal to them that they really do have a band in there. One of the many problems with that approach is that it can also provoke a complication. And that brings us to the final myth in today’s article:
    #6 – THE MORE FILL, THE BETTER
    I’ve heard bariatric surgeons comment that some band patients seem
    to be addicted to fills. I can identify with that because I had a good relationship with my band surgeon who not only administered my fills but gave me a lot of encouragement as well as answers to my many questions. I left each fill appointment with a renewed sense of commitment and hope. How can you not get hooked on something good like that?
    The problem with equating fills with weight loss success is that more fill is not always better. In fact, too much fill (which varies from one patient to the next, and also varies in a single patient as time goes on and the patient’s body keeps changing) can be downright dangerous. An overfilled band, and the side effects it causes (see #5 above), can lead to a complication like a band slip, esophageal dilation, or stomach dilation. While complications can come out of nowhere, most bariatric surgeons agree that too much saline in the band puts too much pressure on the stomach. Eventually something’s got to give. That’s often hastened by the patient’s efforts to eat around the problem, and it is absolutely not a guarantee of weight loss. I gained weight several times because of what’s called Soft Calorie Syndrome. My band was too tight and I was dealing with it by consuming mostly soft and liquid calories that offered little or no satiety.
    The human body is an incredible organism, capable of amazing feats of growth and healing that we take mostly for granted, but it’s not endlessly forgiving. Too much fill in your band, too many eating problems, too much inflammation and irritation in the upper GI tract, can compromise your body’s ability to recover from a complication like a band slip. Sometimes a complication can be treated conservatively, with an unfill and rest period, but sometimes it requires a surgical fix, including removal of the band. And after all you’ve gone through to get that band wrapped around your stomach, shouldn’t you be doing your utmost to treat it (and your body) with respect?
    Finally, the fill myth can cause us to overlook a very important guest at your WLS party….you. If you are going to succeed with your band, lose weight and keep it off and keep that band safe and sound inside you, sooner or later you will have to take personal responsibility for your success. Expecting your band alone to carry you to your goal weight is like expecting your car to safely deliver your child to school without anybody in the driver’s seat. And I sure hope that you are a very important person in your life!
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    txgal1961 reacted to grownazzkid in Although I hate taking selfies   
    I wanted to share this one with the board...
    I started 2013 at 300 lbs, today I am 232. Got some more work ahead of me but I am very excited at what I have accomplished.
    Also I finally broke down and bought new clothes... it was getting rediculous! Went from 54-56 pants to 46; 3x-4x shirts to XL.

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    txgal1961 reacted to lellow in Confusion   
    Sorry I'm confused. You say you can eat too much but you're having one small meal and Protein shakes. That doesn't sound like a lot. Are you saying you're hungry in between those things?
    #1, shakes go straight through the band. If you need it to get your Protein intake up, I understand, but the way your band works is you eat solid food and it keeps you satisfied (as in not hungry) for longer. Having a Protein shake as a meal defeats that purpose, so yes, you WILL feel hungry not long after a Protein Shake because you just bypassed the band altogether.
    #2, if you eat solid food and get hungry (and I mean real hunger as opposed to 'I'm not full') in a couple of hours then yes, you probably need more fill. The goal is to eat a cupful or so of hard protein first, veg and carbs if your dr isn't opposed to it, and have the band help you remain satisfied (as in no longer hungry as opposed to 'full') for 3-4 hours.
    #3 a lot of people keep filling the band thinking that it's only working if it stops them being able to eat. Not true. You still have to eat, everyone needs to be able to eat. With the band you SHOULD be able to eat whole, solid food because if you can only eat a little, you're better off eating proper food with nutritional value than eating a Protein Bar.
    I hope that made sense. I don't think whether you need a fill or not is relevant unless you are eating in a way that works with your band.
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    txgal1961 reacted to parisshel in my Secret place.....   
    This is the only site I put my weight and before and after pics on. 'Cause you are all my people!
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    txgal1961 reacted to BayougirlMrsS in my Secret place.....   
    Thought i would ask.... How many of you have LBT as your secret place? Meaning that you come here and talk to follow LB people and are able to speak your mind and not have to worry if someone you know will see.....
    I do... my hubby don't know about the site and i love it that way... i can come here and say what i want and not have to worry about what people that "know" me will think...
    Just curious Does your Husband/Wife know you come here...?
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    txgal1961 reacted to gigglypug in lapbanding vs weight watchers   
    Weight loss rates will all be around 1-2 lbs/week on the average, since your body is only able to burn so many calories a week. Initially, weight loss will be faster because your body burns glycogen instead of fat, which has lower energy density (it takes more grams glycogen to produce a given amount of energy than it would fat) and you lose a lot of Water in the process.
    Counting calories is crucial during the initial weeks/months of lap band until proper restriction is achieved. At that point, many people stop and rely on the band to do the work, others keep logging to keep overall control of their intake (most of us gained their weight by simply not paying attention). I usually log everything in Daily Plate, but dinners like yesterday's are impossible...two coworkers and I were at a Tapas restaurant and ordered 6 different small plates to share (if turned out too much food). All complex dishes with unknown ingredients and I had a bite of each....how to log?
    I've never done weight watchers, but from what I understand, the counting there never becomes optional.
    Lastly, there seem to be quite a few people who are afraid of being too tight (higher restriction levels often associated with long-term side effects) and intentionally or not stop before reaching the green zone. Some of them still have some restriction , but overall the weight loss is done by counting cals/carbs etc
    I say, do whatever works for you :-)
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    txgal1961 got a reaction from stept04 in How long should i wait?   
    I had to wait 6 weeks
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    txgal1961 reacted to KAATNS in Whatcha eatin'???   
    Buffalo chicken salad (no dressing). Yum!
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    txgal1961 reacted to ☠carolinagirl☠ in Whatcha eatin'???   
    i just finished my lunch
    2-3 oz of my chicken salad i make
    2 oz of fresh green Beans
    few bites of home made apple sauce
    STUFFED
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    txgal1961 reacted to KassieRose in My favorite NSV!   
    I love flying and riding roller coasters. Both of these things are hard for someone who is 160 pounds overweight.
    I flew to NYC in June (120 pounds down!) and didn't have to ask for a seatbelt extension!
    And today we are at Worlds of Fun and I can ride EVERY RIDE!
    I love weightloss!!
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    txgal1961 reacted to kazjim98 in Has anyone else felt this way?   
    The only way is to dig deep and do it...don't be too hard on yourself. I have a husband and 4 children to feed and temptation is always there, so I have to keep myself in check and keep my eye on the prize, a healthy me. Remember how good it felt to eat healthy, exercise and loose weight, you can get that back. Start over with Portion Control, count calories on myfitnesspal (I count every calorie I eat), lean Protein first and lots of water...cut yourself some slack but get back on track...you are so worth it...I hope you are getting some help for the depression too. Best Wishes
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    txgal1961 reacted to SolracSpree in Has anyone else felt this way?   
    I cant speak from experience because im only 13 days post op, but I read a lot of post on this site and something I see a lot from people who lost their way is to start over again. Back to liquids and go from their. The only way you can do that is "ok i made a mistake" take that and move on. If you hold on to the guilt you wont be able to make progress. Everyone is human. You can do it! Talk with the BF too, you have to have someone who is willing to support you when you need it the most!
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    txgal1961 got a reaction from kah1213 in 75+lbs gone and "normal" bmi   
    You look fantastic!!!! Your hard work sure paid off!!! Congrats to you
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    txgal1961 reacted to PrettyThick1 in The port...   
    I'll be 3 weeks out tomorrow and I am just now getting to the point that I don't feel anything - port or band. I can ALMOST sleep on my stomach, but after a few minutes it begins to bother me. At first I could hardly sleep on my sides, so I'm healing well.
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    txgal1961 got a reaction from PrettyThick1 in The port...   
    It took me 3 weeks after surgery before I could sleep comfortably on my stomach and now I have no problem at all.
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    txgal1961 reacted to Joy332 in Sorry about this gross question...   
    I had exactly the same pre-op diet and I did not have diarrhea but I did have the headache from hell on days 2-4--take tylenol. This is a tough diet. I would have a shake for Breakfast and lunch, one cup of fruit (an apple for example) mid afternoon, and then the Protein and veggie for dinner. Post-op: get lots of different Clear Liquids as some will make you gag after awhile (get diet juice, Water, broth, and bouillion, SF Jello, and SF popsicles). Also get gas-x, a heating pad, and a small firm pillow to hold against your incisions in the beginning, whenever needed (like coughing or in my case, merely breathing). Make sure your doc gives you pain meds and nausea meds. Good luck! We will be here when you are on the other side so we can help/commiserate with you then! You will do great!
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    txgal1961 reacted to parisshel in Very Depressed. Food is winning, I am losing this battle   
    Even with the band, your mental mindset is the most important tool in your weightloss toolkit. You've done 20% of it--the band. Now pay attention to the 80%--your mind. Everyone on this board will tell you that the band alone will not get you to goal (sadly!!!). Check out what your support resources are and use them to get your mind in gear. I use this board as I don't have any "live" weight loss support" group. I come here everyday and it keeps my mind in the weightloss groove. Surround yourself with like-minded people and don't hang out with people whose eating habits are not conducive to getting you to your goal.
    Sounds drastic? Perhaps. But I assume you want this badly (you had surgery, after all) so do what is necessary to give yourself the life you deserve.
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    txgal1961 reacted to JhonnieB in DOWN 77 LBS SINCE SEPT 2012 WOOOOOOOOW!!!   
    Thanks everyone, I feel wonderful.
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    txgal1961 reacted to MsGal in DOWN 77 LBS SINCE SEPT 2012 WOOOOOOOOW!!!   
    Congrats to you both...and all the losers! lol Lisa
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    txgal1961 reacted to 2muchfun in DOWN 77 LBS SINCE SEPT 2012 WOOOOOOOOW!!!   
    :wub: We love show-offs
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    txgal1961 reacted to JhonnieB in DOWN 77 LBS SINCE SEPT 2012 WOOOOOOOOW!!!   
    Will be posting pictures soon!! Just wanted to share how excited I am!!!
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    txgal1961 reacted to SueBee01 in Swimmers? Im nervous...   
    Six weeks.
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    txgal1961 reacted to MaggieMay702 in Swimmers? Im nervous...   
    That's good news! So to clarify, your doctor wants you only to be in the Water for relaxation and not exerting yourself cardio wise, right?

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