Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Recommended Posts

Anyone having trouble with depression. And having trouble with the weight they are losing?

I am in counseling .but even with it. I am struggling with nightmares since I had my surgery in june. And I am still learning what my body can, and cant not handle. I feel like I am out of control. And what give up.

Edited by wolfmom71

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I don't know what to say about the depression that could help, except that I am sorry you're struggling. As far as the weight loss, I had my surgery in June also, and you have lost a lot more than I have, so it's not that slow.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

wolfmom71,

Hello from a fellow Michigander who grew up in Michigan and is now a transplant to Texas.

PLEASE do not wait to get help from your primary care doctor or counselor for depression.

I went through a bout of severe depression when I was several months out from surgery. I had to have prescription help and counseling to get me through it along with exercise.

Slow weight loss is most importantly a loss. This isn't a sprint it's a marathon.

Good luck to you,

Blessings,

Kathleen

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

The meds they give out for depression . I cant take. I try to stay active and excerise. My counsleor said that should try to see if others are going what I am. But people just look at me lik e I am crazy. I know depression is common .and I know that dealing with changes that comes after doing the sleeve. I just didn't think I struggle so hard. Or force my shelf to keep going.

My dreams are making worried.

Thank you for what said. Anything helps

Edited by wolfmom71

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

What are you dreaming about?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I dream that I go down to about size 10 them I start hruting and some inside my stomach explode. (My doctors dont know why i was in pain ) I die

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Well, that's not good! I'm sorry.

I know they're out of style, but we all could use a few fairy godmothers to POOF bad dreams and evil spells away. I'm also in counseling regarding my own health maintenance issues, and he's not buying the fairy godmother concept.

I promise I'm not teasing you -- I'm just trying to lighten your load. (( @@wolfmom71 ))

I'm very glad you're in counseling, and I hope this does resolve for you.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Remember that a dream is just a dream that sometimes reflects our inner fears. They don't come true. Also depression can cause dreams that are moribund. I am sorry you cannot use the SSRIs, but exercise is a potent antidepressant. It gets the good hormones going.

I experience depression and it is no fun and everything feels like a big deal to do. Hang in and it will remit.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Wolfmom71

I just wanted to share that I see a psychiatrist and counselor for major depressive disorder. I am on three daily medications to just feel okay each day.

My son was murdered 3 years ago in a senseless robbery and I spiraled out of control. But I have been stable for about the past year. As a result my dreams manifest my anxiety and really distress me. I have the same dreams over and over with a few variations but the anxiety is horrid.

I do talk about it in counseling. And it's sad I have to have sessions about my life awake and my life asleep.

I've had some bad days since my sleeve where I just felt I couldn't drink another shake, eat another food or survive another bout of throwing up.

I get the blues and I feel overwhelmed so if you need some support, I can at least empathize on every level.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • ChunkCat

      Thank you everyone for your well wishes! I totally forgot I wrote an update here... I'm one week post op today. I gained 15 lbs in water weight overnight because they had to give me tons of fluids to bring my BP up after surgery! I stayed one night in the hospital. Everything has been fine except I seem to have picked up a bug while I was there and I've been running a low grade fever, coughing, and a sore throat. So I've been hydrating well and sleeping a ton. So far the Covid tests are negative.
      I haven't been able to advance my diet past purees. Everything I eat other than tofu makes me choke and feels like trying to swallow rocks. They warned me it would get worse before it gets better, so lets hope this is all normal. I have my follow up on Monday so we'll see. Living on shakes and soup again is not fun. I had enough of them the first time!! LOL 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • BeanitoDiego

      Still purging all of the larger clothing. This morning, a shirt that I ADORED wearing ended up on top. Hard to let it go, but it was also hard to let go of those habits that also no longer serve my highest good. Onward and upward!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Onedayatatime365

      Looking to connect with others who are also on the journey of better health. Post-Op Gastric Sleeve (4/11/24).
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • jparadigm

      Happy Wednesday!
       
      I hope everyone is having a lovely week so far! 
      It's been a bit of a struggle this last week...I'm hungry ALL the time.
      · 1 reply
      1. BlondePatriotInCDA

        Have a great Wednesday too! Sorry you're hungry all the time, I'm pretty much the same..and I'm sick of eating the same food all the time.

    • ChunkCat

      Well, tomorrow I go in for an impromptu hiatal hernia repair after ending up in the ER over the weekend because I couldn't get food down and water was moving at a trickle... I've been having these symptoms on and off for a few weeks but Sunday was the worst by far and came with chest pain and trouble breathing. The ER PA thinks it is just esophagitis and that the surgeon and radiologist are wrong. But the bariatric surgeon swears it is a hernia, possibly a sliding one based on my symptoms. So he fit me into his schedule this week to repair it! I hope he's right and this sorts it out. He's going to do a scope afterwards to be sure there is nothing wrong with the esophagus. Here's hoping it all goes well!!
      · 4 replies
      1. AmberFL

        omgsh!! Hope all goes well!! Keeping you in my thoughts!

      2. gracesmommy2

        Hope you’re doing well!

      3. NickelChip

        I hope it goes well! Sending positive thoughts for a speedy recovery!

      4. AmberFL

        How are you doing? any update?!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×