I'm an office manager at a RE/MAX office. I sit at the front desk and everyone notices what I do, what I eat, etc. The agents ask me where I'm going, or why I had to go to the doctor, etc.

I recently had to have a conversation with my boss about some breast issues I've been having, so that he would understand why I had so many doctor appointments.

I need some suggestions as to how to tell my boss I need off for 3 days in November. If I tell him it's for a personal medical reason, he'll wonder why I can't tell him (since I just told him every detail about my breast issues last week).

I have to find coverage from our other office, so the girl I ask to cover me will want to know why.

I know I don't legally have to disclose anything, but these people are accustomed to me telling them more than they need to know.

Any suggestions? Anyone out there have a similiar experience? Not only will it be hard to get off work for the surgery, but also to explain the liquid and mush phases.

Help?

Going to see a dietician is a good excuse, and will account for weight loss also. If you don't want them to know (and I don't understand banding being so personal) but perhaps it is to many people, then just tell them you need the time to meet with a dietician and their staff and need a couple days. Sounds pretty valid; not lying; and right upfront. You could also tell them you have having sleep apnea tests. There are plenty of things to say without coming up with blatent lies, and don't feel the least bit guilty about it. Good luck