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DeLarla

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Psyche! I just want to see how many people click on an X-rated topic that claim they are offended by hot n' spicy posts. I'm ticked off after reading some Private Messages and E-mails with people reminding me to act like a lady and leave my sex topics in the bedroom. Funny, I bet you people are reading this right now.

I don't smoke pot, but I'd personally rather see bong and marijuana leaf avatars than crosses, loaves and fishes. I don't think LBT is a place for religion or politics because those subjects are simply too controversial. But that's just my opinion. For me, Jesus and praying is as personal as masturbation. I'm not saying I don't believe in my own brand of faith, but frankly, many people are offended by Jesus talk. And if you think that my mentioning Jesus and masturbation in the same sentence is blasphemous, then I guess Jesus really isn't the creator of all, considering he created the vibrator according to the bible. (Side note to Jesus, thank you very, very much for my nipples, clitoris and G-spot.)

Anyone that has a problem with offensive posts needs to put things in perspective before complaining about them. It's all relative. Maybe you don't like to read about sex, but others don't want to read prayers or political expressions. If you don't like a topic, click the "back" button and go to another thread. I don't think this is a place for kids, so keep kids out (again, just my opinion.)

Please don't read between the lines and start a war. I'm not asking moderators to censor religion or politics, I'm just pointing out some very grown-up sensibility. Let's work on it. Fair is fair. Practice what you preach, yada yada. I'll stop bringing sexuality to the boards if you stop bringing kids, religion and politics here. How's that for a bargain?

P.S. F.I.J., this has nothing to do with you, it's just a coincidental timing thing. Me & you are good :D

Don't e-mail me or PM me to hide, either. Say it loud, say it clear, say it here.

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VERY GOOD, I think my face blushed, and I turned around to see if anyone was watching. I was going to click off and go hide my head. BUT....... I read ahead and I'm glad I did. Good for you DeLara, It's not about judging others when they believe differently. I say a few things, like, how much God means to me, and this is my own Higher Power, and I don't force it on anyone. I also might make a side wards, stick it to them about the government. BUT..... I where really to say how I feel I think a lot of people might be offended, and might throw stones at me, so I am respectful. That does not mean I keep my mouth shut about SEX!!!! It's too important a subject to be set aside. I used to go to OA (meeting for fat people, using the 12 steps) and I swear I could make the whole room pucker right up by saying anything about sex, or sexual abuse. Believe me sex and food are very closely related.

I am a grown up and a mature male, who can think for himself, and knows what he wants, and what he doesn't want. If I read anything that goes against my grain, I just say to myself that person has the right to there own thoughts and ideas, no matter how wrong they are, JUST KIDDING...... Life is too short to take yourself or others too serious. As far as masturbation goes I vote yes, both for one self and for others. If this is a poll, then my vote is with DELARLA, thanks for the merry-go-round of feelings, it was great.

Namasta, Butch

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I have no problem with any discussion that comes up on the board, this is a adult forum. If I don't agree with something then I pass over it or go to another thread. We are all adults struggling along with our weight issues and our past emotional issues. Sex is gonna come up...because we are all human and that is a human component. My two cents.

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Ah ha ha ha ha! You kill me DeLarla! I can't think of a better way to get people to look other than say SEX!!!!

I too am one of the folks who feels uncomfortable when others freely flow with their religous views. I suppose that part of it is that I don't want to make other people un-comfortable when I talk about my views. And I know it makes some uncomfortable. I don't like it when people try to convert me or put down my views.

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Yup, you know I clicked right away :D.

I think that sex, religion, and politics get different people equally fired up. I'd rather be open and just avoid what I personally don't like, than know I'm missing out on stuff because it's censored though.

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I don't shy away from the whole Sex thing - I have been blessed by (insert your favorite Diety/Higher Power, here) to have a wonderful Husband who has been instrumental in my feelings of beauty & sexiness. Yup, I got no problems feeling good about my fat ol' self - but I try to follow a couple of rules when posting.

1) don't post anything that you wouldn't want to hear about yourself in the same circumstances.

2) don't post anything you would be terribly ashamed to see printed in the newspaper next to your picture.

I tend to be highly opinionated - but I respect the fact that it's a big world and it takes all kinds of folks to keep it spinning properly.

Love you guys, warts and all.

xo

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Bring it on!

I love this thread- free speech- I agree-

If you don't like the topic- don't read it- enough said.

Rock On DeLarla......

keep the free speech coming Lap Banders.

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Dammit DeLarla...While your post was important, and very well put, my "ears" perked up for some Triple X conversation.......Guess I will go make a cup of coffee instead~ ehehehe I agree with you girl~

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Sorry for teasing you, Doll. This one's for you:

When I look at my Rabbit Pearl, I see a pink toy with beads, some controls, and a cute bunny tickler. When my sister looks at it she sees a pink toy with beads, some controls, and a cute bunny tickler. If I posted a picture here you'd all see the same exact pink toy with the same beads and the same cute bunny. According to my training, both Glamour and Cosmo rated my Rabbit as the Number One female adult toy, which means that not only do we all see the same object, but we all feel the same object in the same amazing way.

Meanwhile, no two people alike see God in the same form. My toys are real and tangible as are my orgasms, which is why I believe in them with passion. God, however, is a complete myth. God is not real, we don't see him or hear him, we just "believe" he or she is there. I refuse to spend my current life worried about an afterlife that may or may not exist. We are only guaranteed one life. There's no guarantee that God will be waiting on the other side for you, but I have a written warranty that you'll have a Rabbit for life.

I'm a realist. I believe in what I can see, hear, smell, analyze and conclude. I believe that beliefs can be real, but beliefs can also be very unreal. I believed really hard that my Band would have me wearing size 14 today. I believed in the Tooth Fairy, too. Then reality set in.

I don't personally know George Bush, but I have to respect the guy for running the country when I was too lazy to run for presidency. I can't stand that people hate him. I'm mad at him, but I can't hate him. Not sure how that tied in, but had to say it.

And if this ended up on tonight's news I'd die a happy woman.

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You really brought up a good point. I was just thinking about it the other day.

Im a devout Roman Catholic...

your talk about dildo's and other battery operated items doesnt make me feel uncomfortable. So, hope my talk about recommending people to the Blessed Mother's wonderful intercession, or the power of the most Sacred Heart of Jesus does the same for you. :D Happy Day!

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DeLarla, I admire your ability to put your feelings and opinions out there so eloquently. I myself have views on God that skew towards yours, and there's this little corner in my head that has always been very ashamed of it, so to hear you talk so openly about it is refreshing.

As for your comparison of the belief in God and the effectiveness of the Rabbit... now that's just priceless... :D

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I personally have a strong faith in a higher power. NO that doesn't mean a larger battery. LOL!!! After looking at the picture of the Rabbit Pearl I don't think it is very pretty. Actually it kinda scares me. LOL!!!!

The wonderful thing here is that we all can express our own opinions without treading on someone's feelings. We all respect each other. Whether we agree with them or not.

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