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[Carrie_C 9]

My husband LOVES to do it too. But I have to admit that he gives a lot more than he receives. I guess I need to try to change that.

[hopefulchurch 0]

Cattoy, I have a question for you that I am curious about. I have a good marriage of 18 years with 4 children who so far indicate they will be upstanding contributing members of society : ) My question is, How common is it for women to think about/fantasize about being with another female? I haven't so much as held hands with another human for the past 18 years, but find I am very curious about what it would be like to experience the touch and feel of another woman. I just wonder if that fantasy is very common and how many women actually act on that desire. Thanks for you willingness to answers these questions for us. If anyone else wants to contribute, please feel free!

Edited December 18, 2008 by hopefulchurch

[cattoy71 0]

Hopeful thanks for the question!

Yes, it is very very common for women to fantasize about other women....what's not to like really, we are soft, sensual, smell good, and pretty damn hot!

As you can probably tell, I have a very healthy appetite and fantasize about women often. It doesn't help matters that I give expert oral sex (have even given workshops to gay men in San Francisco, lol) and think I would totally go to town on a hot female!

I have also been very happily married for 13 years and been with my husband a total of 17 years. He isn't quite as into my sapphic fantasies as I am, and that is alright.

In reality, she would probably have to be one amazing and hot women for me to get weak in the knees :huh2: I am still totally open to that happening one day, and my husband and I will just have to talk it through if that day ever comes. I'm sure the guys reading this are getting pretty excited about now, lol!

So relax and totally enjoy one of the most commom female fantasies!!

[hopefulchurch 0]

Cattoy,

Thanks for the response! I can relax now that I know I'm not a perv!!! :huh2: I don't know if age has anything to do with it, but I have noticed more of an openness and awareness to sensuality in general in myself as I have reached and passed the 40 y/o mark. Hormones may have something to do with that. Who knows for sure, but like I said in an earlier post, I wouldn't want to go back!

Edited December 18, 2008 by hopefulchurch

[bethm 0]

I got one! Is the eroscillator worth the money? :huh2:

[plain 12]

If anyone else wants to contribute, please feel free!

I'll contribute with this very profound quote:

Yee-Haw!!

I forget who said it...perhaps Ghandi, or Buddha.

I'm sure the guys reading this are getting pretty excited about now, lol!

Hey, don't mind me...I'm just the creepy dude hanging out in the corner with an awkward erection. Carry on, ladies.

[cattoy71 0]

Hey Beth!

Although I haven't personally tried it, I did a little research and it comes highly recommended!!!

It's not penetrative, so if you need a little clitoral boost, it looks like a good bet. Enjoy, and let me know how it goes.....I might have to get one myself :huh2:

[Oregondaisy 2,020]

What are you talking about? I could use a boost.

[cattoy71 0]

What are you talking about? I could use a boost.

Lol, of now I'm confused.

I was providing an answer to Beth's sex toy question.

The toy is not meant to be penetrative, but rather you use it directly on your clit. Many women find it difficult to orgasm while having sex without direct clitoral stimulation. This toy looks like a good bet that you can use during sex or while going solo. :laugh:

[rodriguezequal 3]

It is also like the only sex toy endorsed and approved by Dr. Ruth,...can't go wrong there! :laugh:

[Oregondaisy 2,020]

Which one?

[bambam31 168]

Are there any Mirena users out there? My wife had it implanted and it has these little string things in there. Well I HATE IT! It feels like dental floss friction against your penis.

Brad

[accountess 0]

I just found this thread and I think it's great! For those still "spelunking" (I cracked up at that one), there is one thing that just pushes me over the edge that might help. I have 2 bullets. I put one deep inside me and one on my clit. The penis goes inside and pushes the bullet deeper and onto the g-spot and then turn the bullets on. I just can't do this when kids home because I absolutely scream. I also put down several layers of towels because it really causes me to squirt.

Hope this helped!

[rodriguezequal 3]

Are there any Mirena users out there? My wife had it implanted and it has these little string things in there. Well I HATE IT! It feels like dental floss friction against your penis.

Brad

I didn't have the mirena, but I did have the Paragard and we had the same problem. I told my doctor about it and he trimmed the strings so that they were pretty short and that solved the problem! Give it a shot :laugh: good luck

[bambam31 168]

I didn't have the mirena, but I did have the Paragard and we had the same problem. I told my doctor about it and he trimmed the strings so that they were pretty short and that solved the problem! Give it a shot :tongue_smilie: good luck

Thanks! She was going to call her OB/GYN on Monday anyway so I'll suggest that.

Brad