Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

March Bandsters: MASTER THREAD



Recommended Posts

Hi everyone!

Long time no chat!

Life has been very busy lately and I have barely had time to check my email. It took me a while to read all the posts since I last was here!

TheWriteGirl - I so know what you mean! I have 6 cc in a 10 cc band with very little restriction. I have never had a PB (which is good). Occasionally I won't chew well and I get that pain in my shoulder and back. I have lost a mere 12 pounds since surgery. It is kind of frustrating! I have gone back to the "food plan" that my 1st dietician gave me. That is the one that helped me lose the 13 pounds or so prior to surgery. I figure it can't hurt.

hair loss - so far so good. It is so aweful for those of you that are encountering this problem. I hope the hair grows back soon.

OMG - that hoola hoop video was too funny. All, we need is good music and you have a Cameron Diaz type dance from Charlies' Angels. While I don't have a wii, I'm not sure I'd work out in my underwear.

Well, I'm hoping the scale starts to move. My doc doesn't want to see me again until the end of July. I guess I could push it. We will see!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

From the videogame site Kotaku.com comes this news:

Jillian Michaels Going After Wii's Biggest Losers

If you're finding Wii Fit to a less strenuous workout than the one required to help you shed your flab, perhaps the prospect of training with fitness guru Jillian Michaels will help. Majesco is publishing Jillian Michaels' Fitness Ultimatum 2009 which—surprise!—uses the Wii Balance Board to integrate "a tiered fitness regimen, expert advice and exercise techniques from the charismatic Jillian Michaels, the game delivers a focused workout that will help players reach their own personal fitness goals."

We expect to see nothing but six-pack abs and ripped shoulders in close proximity to Wiis by this time next year.

Sounds great! I'd do it!

Especially if they promise 6-pack abs and ripped shoulders close to the Wii.... does it come with a hot personal trainer or something? :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Charity, just think how much you have already lost and this time it's gone forever! The numbers will keep going down. I know it's frustrating that it's not a pound a day loss instead of a pound a week.

I have lost 20 lbs since surgery....17 in the pre-op time. Let's see, that's 17lbs in about a month before surgery and 20 lbs in the 2.5 months since surgery. I just keep telling myself that since I'm doing it slowly, I have no hanging skin, and the earlier pounds are the easiest to lose.

You will get better restriction and your band will work for you. In the mean time, keep up the great work you are doing!

Chrsitine

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I don't know if I'd call it a "stall", but my weight has plateau'd.

The reason I wont' call it a stall is because I KNOW why it's plateau'd - I've been eating too much this weak, and I've been too busy or too hot to exercise. SO, remedial exercise today, and dieting again...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

While I think six pack abs are an admirable goal, I think that for most of us they're unreachable without superhuman effort: it's not just about the amount of muscle in the abdomen, it's more about the total percent of body fat, which has to be EXTREMELY low for the muscular development to be visible.

Coincidentally, a couple weeks back I discovered that my best friend, a woman in her mid-40's, has washboard abs. I was terribly impressed! But she spanks naughty men for a living, so she spends three hours a day in the gym keeping herself in good shape. Plus she has a physically demanding job, and is burning calories all day what with various floggings and whatnot. And lives on horrible spirulina Protein drinks and the like.

So she looks great, but at what cost?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

While I think six pack abs are an admirable goal, I think that for most of us they're unreachable without superhuman effort: it's not just about the amount of muscle in the abdomen, it's more about the total percent of body fat, which has to be EXTREMELY low for the muscular development to be visible.

Coincidentally, a couple weeks back I discovered that my best friend, a woman in her mid-40's, has washboard abs. I was terribly impressed! But she spanks naughty men for a living, so she spends three hours a day in the gym keeping herself in good shape. Plus she has a physically demanding job, and is burning calories all day what with various floggings and whatnot. And lives on horrible spirulina Protein drinks and the like.

So she looks great, but at what cost?

True true. I don't think I will ever have a six pack of abs (they're harder for women than for men as we tend to naturally carry more abdomen fat in order to maintain a regular "cycle") but it's nice to dream.

She spanks naughty men for a living. For reals?? :biggrin:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Yes, for reals.

As it turns out, NYC is filled with lawyers crying out for chastisement.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Also, A-Dub, I can't help but point out that I have just as many friends as you do...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Fenton-- I know you have a goal of waiting to be banded but the increased eating could be a sign that you need a fill. It started for me with an increased appetite and then it got worse. I don't think I even realized how quickly my appetite had increased until this board really got me to reflect on it.

Also---I meant to ask you earlier about taking the low dose aspirin that you mentioned a several pages back. My post-op instructions say no aspirin for the rest of my life. Did anyone else here get those instructions? it may well be that their are different views on this and it could also be a different need depending on individual medical conditions -- but I just want to mention it so people will remember to check with their MDs before using aspirin.

Fenton -- I tip my hat to your friend! More---errr---power to her (sos to speak)! It's at times like this that I wonder if I wasted money on an education.

She probably makes more than I do and ---quite frankly---it sounds like she has a lot of fun.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

It's not my appetite - partly it's been social obligations, partly it's been because I'm in love with the Chinese-spiced duck currently on offer at my favourite restaurant (a mere two blocks from my loft, but expensive enough that it's a once a week treat, unless someone else is buyin'). Hunger isn't my problem - I've not had anything today, and I'm really not hungry.

ALSO! Yesterday it was my old friend boredom. I was too lethargic to make plans and so ended up hanging around at home, not getting any exercise, playing video games and intermittently nibbling. I probably broke 2000 calories, but they were all fairly healthy.

I'm not TOO worried about days with large numbers of calories, although I don't like that it interferes with my zippy weight loss goals.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

As far as the aspirin goes, my docs are very aggressive on insisting that everyone get back on their aspirin regimen the day after surgery. At least, I'm pretty sure it was the day after surgery - although it may have been later. IN medicine, things tend to get politicized quickly - some fields are as sectarian as any religion - but my guys are real believers in that.

And personally, I think the aspirin does me more good than it creates risk of stomach ulcers. I'm careful to take the "safer" enteric coated aspirin, and I take it after a meal, but I acknowledge the risk.

I think a lot depends upon the individual doctors' experience. Your guy might have had problems with bleeding ulcers, I believe that at my place in their 20,000 or so case experience, they've had two deaths, one from a heart attack, another from a clot developing on the leg; since both heart attacks and leg clots are potentially less likely in someone taking aspirin, I think its likely that that would explain their enthusiasm for getting people back on blood-thinners ASAP.

But I agree: the best thing to do is to consult your own physician, absolutely.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My friend the Stern Mistress of Pain is a wonderful, wonderful person, honestly the sweetest and kindest person I've ever known. Her job is lucrative and exotic - she's frequently flown around the world to punish rich neerdowells - but, at the end of the day, I wish she weren't in that line of work. She enjoys her work, and its proceeds, but I think it eats away at her self-esteem. And who has enough of THAT?

Edited by Fenton

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Wow! I was at the lake all weekend and expected to find myself pages behind on here. There were only 9 posts all weekend! I guess everyone was out getting active!!!

I had sort of an NSV this weekend... I WAS out getting active, and kayaked 7.5 miles of beautiful river near my house.. But that's not the NSV..

For my birthday my Mom bought me a new bathing suit that I had fallen in love with. I haven't been comfortable in a bathing suit in years, but once I tried this particular suit on, I knew it was "the one". I have always worn a t-shirt and shorts over my bathing suit, but still felt like crawling under a rock in public.. I decided it was time to change that. Since this time last year, I am down 51lbs, and I am determined to change my ways.

So- This weekend while out with my peeps kayaking, I decided to leave the t-shirt and shorts behind. And I wore JUST my new suit... confidently! I felt totally empowered by this! I also wanted to share a couple of pics.. Hope you enjoy!

~Kerri

Me:

25a2on7.jpg

The crystal clear water:)

2mp048z.jpg

Some of the peeps:

24yvjm1.jpg

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I want to try kayaking. Not quite yet, but eventually!

I bet it gives you a pretty good work-out...?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×