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What are BEST side effects of WLS for you besides the WL?

Hello friends!

I am about halfway through my weight management program and am looking forward to (fingers crossed!) being approved for RNY in late June.

My question for you all: I read these boards daily and I read a lot about the struggles and challenges after surgery (let’s say first six months) - I’m trying to keep a positive mindset about the first few months and was curious if you’d share besides weight loss what have the BEST side effects been for you? What can us newbies look forward to in those first six months outside of weight loss? I know a lot of this is going to be a mental process so appreciate you sharing! ❤️

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  • One of many...medical professionals speak to me much more kindly and respectfully. Instead of dismissing everything with "You need to lose weight", they actually assess and evaluate my symptoms.

  • Creekimp13
    Creekimp13

    This one is kinda messed up and I have mixed feelings about it. Strangers treat you better. Isn't that sad? But it's true. Men hold the door, say hello, run over to help you do things

  • ecugsplgrl
    ecugsplgrl

    more energy and sorry if TMI, better intimate relations. it just feels different.

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31 minutes ago, OAGBPal said:

I agree with everything above. And I'd like to add: god I missed having casual sex. :D

What?! I'm European! I'm supposed to!

NAILED IT!!

21 minutes ago, bufbills said:

I'm becoming more and more comfortable in my skin

I can bend over and tie my shoes.

My reflection in a mirror isn't shocking in a bad way anymore.

Clothes are fitting better and better.

Pecker is back.

I'm lifting weights again

I fit my motorcycle better.

I feel pretty damn good.

I miss seeing junior without looking in the mirror. .. Be glad to lose this belly!

Being less than 1/3 the man I used to be.

Not feeling guilty about food choices. Not feeling judged for food choices. Not dieting.

Having to convince restaurants that their food was great even though I ate so little.

Not knowing my weight for a completely new reason.

Being able to do things most people take for granted.

Running 5 marathons.

5 minutes ago, The Greater Fool said:

Being less than 1/3 the man I used to be.

Not feeling guilty about food choices. Not feeling judged for food choices. Not dieting.

Having to convince restaurants that their food was great even though I ate so little.

Not knowing my weight for a completely new reason.

Being able to do things most people take for granted.

Running 5 marathons.

Dang, Congrats on 5 mrathons dude! Impressive!

5 minutes ago, The Greater Fool said:

Being less than 1/3 the man I used to be.

Not feeling guilty about food choices. Not feeling judged for food choices. Not dieting.

Having to convince restaurants that their food was great even though I ate so little.

Not knowing my weight for a completely new reason.

Being able to do things most people take for granted.

Running 5 marathons.

Congrats on 5 marathons dude! Impressive!

Confidence!! I feel so much more like myself. Before I felt insecure and I realize I had become a different version of myself when I was bigger. It’s shocking how different people treat you. I was invisible before and now I get all kinds of looks, smiles, nods, doors opened.. it’s wild! People just strike up conversation with me in grocery stores, at Doctor offices and that NEVER happened before. Also my husband asks me for date night weekly now. It’s not a dig on him, because he still took me out diligently once a month and his love hasn’t changed. But man, it’s like I’m dating my husband all over again and that is worth everything to me. I love his extra attention!
5 hours ago, Tim C said:

I miss seeing junior without looking in the mirror. .. Be glad to lose this belly!

All kidding aside, it's quite horrible, what fat can do down there. Terrible feeling.

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3 minutes ago, Luna805 said:

Confidence!! I feel so much more like myself. Before I felt insecure and I realize I had become a different version of myself when I was bigger. It’s shocking how different people treat you. I was invisible before and now I get all kinds of looks, smiles, nods, doors opened.. it’s wild! People just strike up conversation with me in grocery stores, at Doctor offices and that NEVER happened before. Also my husband asks me for date night weekly now. It’s not a dig on him, because he still took me out diligently once a month and his love hasn’t changed. But man, it’s like I’m dating my husband all over again and that is worth everything to me. I love his extra attention!

Good for you! I am looking forward to getting some more pounds off and some magic!

3 minutes ago, bufbills said:

All kidding aside, it's quite horrible, what fat can do down there. Terrible feeling.

Not sure I aam following you BB. What is going on down there? I need a periscope!

2 minutes ago, Tim C said:

Not sure I aam following you BB. What is going on down there? I need a periscope!

Let's just say, no more turtle. And that's all I have to say about that. Lol

6 minutes ago, bufbills said:

Let's just say, no more turtle. And that's all I have to say about that. Lol

AHHHH The old scared turtle look...Not a good look. :)

7 minutes ago, bufbills said:

Let's just say, no more turtle. And that's all I have to say about that. Lol

7 minutes ago, bufbills said:

Let's just say, no more turtle. And that's all I have to say about that. Lol

Hey BB...Where do you live in NC?

4 hours ago, bufbills said:

Let's just say, no more turtle. And that's all I have to say about that. Lol

Since you opened the door, Bufbills: That was indeed a surprising (and welcome) side effect of surgery!

Can’t believe no one has mentioned this yet... my fiancé and I often pack together in one suitcase. She would complain because I took so many clothes. “You’re taking up all the room!!” I realize now I wasn’t taking more clothes, my clothes were just so much bigger. My small-body clothes allow me to pack even more and take up less room!

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