Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Nov 2020 Bypass Peeps?



Recommended Posts

1 hour ago, valentinedwv said:

Joining late... gastric sleeve surgery was nov 30th... day 15, aka purée
Had a little plateau on week two/three... know
It was due to shifts to full liquid then on to purée

Now restarted the down as I’m no longer in starvation mode, and just started hitting calorie goals.

Decided I should calling puree, the Pate phase... blending up chicken, tuna into well, pate.

Down about 50 since the start of the liquid diet.< br />

You’re doing amazing! Is that 50 since liquid pre or post op? Not that it matters, just curious 😉! Congratulations either way!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I found a Facebook group you all may like too. Or you might already be there? It’s Baritastic Social. There’s a lot of questions, pics and support. Check it out if you’re on Facebook. I’m Lola Hardy on Facebook, say hi!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

50 lbs 10 weeks. Couple weeks before liquid, 5 weeks pre-op, and 3 since.. they wanted 5/week pre-op they got it.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

2 minutes ago, valentinedwv said:

50 lbs 10 weeks. Couple weeks before liquid, 5 weeks pre-op, and 3 since.. they wanted 5/week pre-op they got it.

That’s still fast for 8 weeks! Wow!! So awesome 🤩

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

4 hours ago, Lanie Hardy said:

It will / already has!! I can do dishes without excruciating back pain already! I also have slept on my back some... the problem is I have permanent nerve damage. Part of the reason I got Bariatric surgery was so I can have another surgery where they implant into my back a nerve blocker. I had to do this 1st because they imbed it into the fat in my back. They knew I was on the path for Bariatric surgery and wanted my fat on my back to be stable otherwise I would need another surgery to reposition the nerve blocker after I lost weight... so it’s a process and I’m praying if I lose enough the nerve pain will be bearable and I won’t have to have that surgery!!

I’ve also had nerve blocks in my back. I was hoping when I lost weight that it wouldn’t hurt so much but it has gotten worse going down my leg and below my knee. So on Dec. 30 I am having nerve burning on both sides of my back, and that is SUPPOSED TO LAST LONGER than the steroid shots. I had been getting them for years. I hope and pray it works.
And I hope yours works for you as well.it’s called Ablation if you want to ask your dr about it.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

4 hours ago, Lanie Hardy said:

I’m always thinking this is normal. It will pass. I’m just being whiney. Thank you for reminding me pain is not normal!! I’m going to call them today!

Great!!! Hope you got the answers you needed and HOPE and start feeling better REALLY SOON!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Just now, Grammie2 said:

I’ve also had nerve blocks in my back. I was hoping when I lost weight that it wouldn’t hurt so much but it has gotten worse going down my leg and below my knee. So on Dec. 30 I am having nerve burning on both sides of my back, and that is SUPPOSED TO LAST LONGER than the steroid shots. I had been getting them for years. I hope and pray it works.
And I hope yours works for you as well.it’s called Ablation if you want to ask your dr about it.

I’m so sorry it’s so bad! I will pray for you that this takes and works quickly! I’m sorry you have to get another procedure so soon!! Hang in there! Thanks for the tip! They don’t think that will work for me. I can’t remember what’s it’s called off the top of my head, but it’s an actual implant to stop the nerve message from making it to the brain. Mine is so bad I often can’t lift my foot off the floor. It is going to pass I keep telling myself.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

14 hours ago, TrueNorth1 said:

Hush you!! You are doing FANTASTIC!!

How are you feeling? Cold, flu, co-vid?

I'm feeling fine... it was just like a 48 hour cold

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

On 12/16/2020 at 4:25 PM, Lanie Hardy said:

It will / already has!! I can do dishes without excruciating back pain already! I also have slept on my back some... the problem is I have permanent nerve damage. Part of the reason I got Bariatric surgery was so I can have another surgery where they implant into my back a nerve blocker. I had to do this 1st because they imbed it into the fat in my back. They knew I was on the path for Bariatric surgery and wanted my fat on my back to be stable otherwise I would need another surgery to reposition the nerve blocker after I lost weight... so it’s a process and I’m praying if I lose enough the nerve pain will be bearable and I won’t have to have that surgery!!

That is so good that the surgery is helping with your back!! It sounds like you are at the start of a new journey of pain free life. It will be better everyday.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

On 12/16/2020 at 9:09 PM, Grammie2 said:

I’ve also had nerve blocks in my back. I was hoping when I lost weight that it wouldn’t hurt so much but it has gotten worse going down my leg and below my knee. So on Dec. 30 I am having nerve burning on both sides of my back, and that is SUPPOSED TO LAST LONGER than the steroid shots. I had been getting them for years. I hope and pray it works.
And I hope yours works for you as well.it’s called Ablation if you want to ask your dr about it.

I am sorry you are in pain. That’s awful. And having no another surgery. Let’s hope this does the trick and a speedy recovery.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

13 minutes ago, TrueNorth1 said:

That is so good that the surgery is helping with your back!! It sounds like you are at the start of a new journey of pain free life. It will be better everyday.

Yes!! Exactly😀

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hi all,

I’m now 5.5 weeks RNY post op. I have only lost 17 lbs post-op ☹️ Has anyone else experienced this?


I was/am following all diet orders and restrictions I have recently moved to all foods stage.

I am getting all of my Protein and Fluid requirements (and more) in

I am exercising every day

I was told from my surgeon that the first three to four months are the “honeymoon” phase, where the weight comes off with little effort. Week 1 was good, the rest have been averaging 2.5 pounds. Now it seems to be slowing down - last week’s loss was 1.8. What happens when the honeymoon is over?!?

I’ve read the other posts about this issue, but I’m doing all of the recommended actions already.


I don’t even think this is a stall, loss has been slow period.

Is it because I’m older - 50’s?

My nurse and dietitian just said that some people don’t lose as much as others

Sorry to whine. I know there are no guarantees. After seeing the loss for nearly everyone else, I was just hoping for more.

thank you!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

20 minutes ago, ImSweetJane said:

Hi all,

I’m now 5.5 weeks RNY post op. I have only lost 17 lbs post-op ☹️ Has anyone else experienced this?


I was/am following all diet orders and restrictions I have recently moved to all foods stage.

I am getting all of my Protein and Fluid requirements (and more) in

I am exercising every day

I was told from my surgeon that the first three to four months are the “honeymoon” phase, where the weight comes off with little effort. Week 1 was good, the rest have been averaging 2.5 pounds. Now it seems to be slowing down - last week’s loss was 1.8. What happens when the honeymoon is over?!?

I’ve read the other posts about this issue, but I’m doing all of the recommended actions already.


I don’t even think this is a stall, loss has been slow period.

Is it because I’m older - 50’s?

My nurse and dietitian just said that some people don’t lose as much as others

Sorry to whine. I know there are no guarantees. After seeing the loss for nearly everyone else, I was just hoping for more.

thank you!

HI Sweet Jane,

If you look at the previous posts, it is pretty normal. You don't have stats on your page so hard to see what you are starting at.

I'm slow although I have been following, do 12,000 - 17,000 steps a day, consume 500 - 600 calories. I lost 9 pounds in the first 2 weeks. Then I stalled. Now its coming off again. I was 4 weeks on Thursday and I hit 12 pounds. Today I am at 13. I see a difference and feel a difference e so I am ok with my slower results.

There are others that are double and triple my results. I had thoughts and expectations that I would be down 60 pounds in 3 months! Not great to put expectations on things because we feel we failed or are doing something wrong. Our bodies will adjust and do what it needs. I now know it will probably take me 6 - 9 months to get to where I would like to be. And maybe that will even change as I get closer. I don't know why, but we will all get there, as long as we are putting our effort in! That is al we can do:)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

39 minutes ago, ImSweetJane said:

Hi all,

I’m now 5.5 weeks RNY post op. I have only lost 17 lbs post-op ☹️ Has anyone else experienced this?


I was/am following all diet orders and restrictions I have recently moved to all foods stage.

I am getting all of my Protein and Fluid requirements (and more) in

I am exercising every day

I was told from my surgeon that the first three to four months are the “honeymoon” phase, where the weight comes off with little effort. Week 1 was good, the rest have been averaging 2.5 pounds. Now it seems to be slowing down - last week’s loss was 1.8. What happens when the honeymoon is over?!?

I’ve read the other posts about this issue, but I’m doing all of the recommended actions already.


I don’t even think this is a stall, loss has been slow period.

Is it because I’m older - 50’s?

My nurse and dietitian just said that some people don’t lose as much as others

Sorry to whine. I know there are no guarantees. After seeing the loss for nearly everyone else, I was just hoping for more.

thank you!

I am 7 weeks RNY ...My weightloss has definitely slowed down the last 3 weeks. 1 lb. each week for the last 3 weeks. I have not been so fortunate to get all my requirements in. I try, but it’s just too much for me, but I still aim at the goals. Just fall short..... I also think these stalls are common from what I’m hearing. Depending on how much exercising you’re doing, maybe ease up a bit. But I don’t know what your weight was to start. I know mine was less than a lot of others who had a lot more to lose, so I’m thinking the closer to the goal the harder it is to come off. I was 209, I’m 68, and I lead a fairly sedentary lifestyle, some because of knee and back problems. I know another thing that hinders weightloss is depression and pain meds and blood pressure meds too. There’s a lot that can affect it besides food. Talk to your family dr about your meds, if this may be your case. Don’t go off anything without checking with them first.
But I’m on the losing side still, so I’m counting my blessings! Keep up your good food goals! You’re doing much better than me, there. It will work out.

I just looked at your stats - you were 20 lbs. less than me, so I imagine you will not lose an amazing amount so quickly. You don’t have as much body fat. But again, medicines can play a big role, so talk to your family dr if you’re on any of those. You’re doing all the right things, so keep up the great work!

Edited by Grammie2
Just thought of something to add.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LeighaTR

      Four days post surgery. I am sipping as fast as I can and getting NO WHERE near the goal of 60 - 80 grams of protein or the 64 oz of liquids. I just feel FULL. I don't know if it can still be the gas build up (I would think by now that would be gone) but it is a struggle to drink. And so far I have not had the nausea or spasms and don't want to wander into that territory by pushing too hard with liquids. I about passed out today as it was my most "strenuous" day. Went from second story to basement for shower and I was sure I was going to pass out. Looking back on my last few days I have had a total of less than 1000 calories. Am I just not getting enough nourishment in me? Once again a friday where I can't get ahold of the doc until Monday rolls back around so I am hoping maybe someone here has some experience on how to keep energy going. I do have fibromyalgia too and that may be where some added fatigue comes into play. How did you all fair with the goals the week after surgery?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
      · 3 replies
      1. Phil Penn

        Good Luck this procedure is well worth it I am down to 249.6 lb please continue with the process..

      2. Selina333

        I'm in Houston so kind of near you and had the sleeve in Dec. Down 61 lbs. Feeling better. Was definitely worth it. I hope the everything is going well for you. Update us when you can!

      3. Doughgurl

        I am back home after my bypass surgery in Tiajuana. I'm post op day 4. Everything went great! I guess I'm one of the lucky ones who have not encountered much pain at all, no nausea thus far and I'm having no problem keeping down broths and water. Thank you for your well wishes. I cant wait to keep up this journey and have a chance at better health and simply better quality of life. I know there will be bumps in the road ahead, and everything won't be peaches and cream, but at least I have a great start so far. 😍

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×