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How do you deal? It's so hard..

How do you deal with those close around you still eating the way you used to? My husband was frying up some meatballs and I was in tears contemplating actually trying to eat one (and I am just 3 days post-op). I ended up freaking out on him for even making them - brought up the 10 hotdogs he ate next to me the past two days and 4 sandwiches he had as a snack while we were in bed last night.. I mean, I am just so upset with him. I wanted him to be supportive and he just thought that meant he should run for me..

How do you deal?

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I am scared about that. I am on my pre-op diet and last night I got a little hangry while my husband cooked dinner for my son. He agreed to do the liquids diet with me but I was actually hangry over food for my child. I excused myself and drank a protein shake but it reminded me of my food addiction.

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