So at the beginning of this whole journey the only person who has always been behind me is my husband. No he is acting like I can not do anything, cook, wash clothes, wash dishes. If I try to walk to long in his eyes he is telling me to lay down. Of that's not enough now I have my mother who questioned the way, made little remarks about my weight now wanting to come take care of me. Not only does she want to come stay with me she wants to bring my two youngest nicece too. Which are 3 and 5. It's not some vacation from work for a family get together, I'm recovering over here.

Just find it funny now that I am accomplishing what I set out to do now everyone is all of a sudden on mine and husband side.

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Hang in there.

I'm not sure but I think that says your husband loves ? you. I don't know what I would do without my daughter helping me. I've had a hard time recovering and help is a blessing.

I hope it all works out for you and you get the support you need.

Best wishes!

Edited March 25, 20197 yr by gabybab

He does love me. Don't know what I would do without him.

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He sounds so sweet! You might think about reminding him that you need to exercise to help your recovery. You could tell your Mom that you and your husband need to figure out your "new normal" on your own, and reassure her that your husband is taking good care of you. (And you'd love to see her after you've healed so that you can do more things together.)

He sounds so sweet! You might think about reminding him that you need to exercise to help your recovery. You could tell your Mom that you and your husband need to figure out your "new normal" on your own, and reassure her that your husband is taking good care of you. (And you'd love to see her after you've healed so that you can do more things together.)

Thanks. Will try that. Fingers crossed.

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First, how wonderful that the tides have turned and everyone wants to support you!

However, if you need space, just say so.

Best wishes.