I just did something stupid and ate a cauliflower soup before I knew I was ready. It had some chunks I chewed - but I am in a lot of discomfort now and feeling sick.

Don’t do it! I feel really stupid and hope everything will be ok now.

I feel so stupid. Has anyone else done anything like this?

Sleeved: 2/12/2017

SW: 209lbs/95kgs

You ate a pizza at one week post. All I said is I hope you get help before things are unrepairable I can't see what's rude about that. It's shocking to see someone in your situation. I won't respond you further. But I will respond to others on this thread. Good day.

She left the forum. Did she tell you that lol here is were no one can take you seriously. I called no one a lier. I told them to gain 20lbs eating 500 Cal's a day they need to seek medical attention. I honestly feel sorry for you .. if you are not trolling. Then I feel bad for you.

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She said that - or didn’t you bother to actually read what she wrote either??? She not the only one either. Wake up!


Sleeved: 2/12/2017

SW: 209lbs/95kgs

She said that - or didn’t you bother to actually read what she wrote either??? She not the only one either. Wake up!


Sleeved: 2/12/2017

SW: 209lbs/95kgs

You ate a pizza a week post and I'm the one that needs to wake up lol. Maybe you should be called dreaming. Lol bye

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You ate a pizza a week post and I'm the one that needs to wake up lol. Maybe you should be called dreaming. Lol bye

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It’s not just the pizza - like I’ve repeatedly said! It has been every single post big or small you come on aggressive, rude and condescending. You insinuated she was lying for only eating 500cals, other threads you’ve responded on - you are rude every single time when it’s completely unnecessary and rude. Maybe some like your ‘tough love’ I don’t see any love in it, and I know many don’t either. Good luck with that but truly, this forum is not worth dealing with someone like you.


Sleeved: 2/12/2017

SW: 209lbs/95kgs

It’s not just the pizza - like I’ve repeatedly said! It has been every single post big or small you come on aggressive, rude and condescending. You insinuated she was lying for only eating 500cals, other threads you’ve responded on - you are rude every single time when it’s completely unnecessary and rude. Maybe some like your ‘tough love’ I don’t see any love in it, and I know many don’t either. Good luck with that but truly, this forum is not worth dealing with someone like you.


Sleeved: 2/12/2017

SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Hmm every single post huh ? Who's being dramatic. If you search the post I've done over the last few days you can see the support I have been offering and has been appreciated nothing tough about it. But when someone is risking death. I have to be honest about it. I understand your new post op so over emotional but there is no need to tell lies. No one joins here to argue. I made my post. I left. I ignored your insult post towards me. And replied light to another poster. You are the only one who is angry. I have no time to be angry with strangers. Think logically. What is offensive about hoping you get therapy before it's to late. This is getting silly.

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It’s not just the pizza - like I’ve repeatedly said! It has been every single post big or small you come on aggressive, rude and condescending. You insinuated she was lying for only eating 500cals, other threads you’ve responded on - you are rude every single time when it’s completely unnecessary and rude. Maybe some like your ‘tough love’ I don’t see any love in it, and I know many don’t either. Good luck with that but truly, this forum is not worth dealing with someone like you.


Sleeved: 2/12/2017

SW: 209lbs/95kgs

I didn't insinuate anything . That is your negitive perception.

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Hmm every single post huh ? Who's being dramatic. If you search the post I've done over the last few days you can see the support I have been offering and has been appreciated nothing tough about it. But when someone is risking death. I have to be honest about it. I understand your new post op so over emotional but there is no need to tell lies. No one joins here to argue. I made my post. I left. I ignored your insult post towards me. And replied light to another poster. You are the only one who is angry. I have no time to be angry with strangers. Think logically. What is offensive about hoping you get therapy before it's to late. This is getting silly.

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Every single post I’ve seen you have been and upset people. But keep telling yourself whatever to feel better about you. Maybe you’ll be more aware of it now and you know what’s up. Someone had to tell you.


Sleeved: 2/12/2017

SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Every single post I’ve seen you have been and upset people. But keep telling yourself whatever to feel better about you. Maybe you’ll be more aware of it now and you know what’s up. Someone had to tell you.


Sleeved: 2/12/2017

SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Lol someone had to tell me ? Can you hear yourself lol. Someone needed to speak a voice in your ear not to try and kill yourself with piZZA.hope you don't have kids as that's so selfish to risk your life like this. Keep talking. Alot of people have given you a reality check on this post. Sure you think there wrong. Lol bye

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Hmm every single post huh ? Who's being dramatic. If you search the post I've done over the last few days you can see the support I have been offering and has been appreciated nothing tough about it. But when someone is risking death. I have to be honest about it. I understand your new post op so over emotional but there is no need to tell lies. No one joins here to argue. I made my post. I left. I ignored your insult post towards me. And replied light to another poster. You are the only one who is angry. I have no time to be angry with strangers. Think logically. What is offensive about hoping you get therapy before it's to late. This is getting silly.

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And yet AGAIN, you are ignoring what I have repeatedly said and obfuscating - it is frustrating. I have said so many times it’s not what is said it’s how you say it. My God, my four year old is able to communicate better.

This is pathetic. Goodbye.


Sleeved: 2/12/2017

SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Good lord..Y'all keep saying bye , but no one's leaving.

Lol someone had to tell me ? Can you hear yourself lol. Someone needed to speak a voice in your ear not to try and kill yourself with piZZA.hope you don't have kids as that's so selfish to risk your life like this. Keep talking. Alot of people have given you a reality check on this post. Sure you think there wrong. Lol bye

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Stop trying to some higher ground - you were morbidly obese and put yourself through this dangerous procedure to save your life - now you treat everyone on here with questions or make mistakes with contempt? What a hypocrite!!!


Get real. You’re no better than anyone on here and if you were perfect you would never have needed the surgery. Get lost fool.


Sleeved: 2/12/2017

SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Good lord..Y'all keep saying bye , but no one's leaving.

You miss understood. I'm not leaving. Rather trying to end a boring convo that's going round in circles. But enjoying the people on the thread :)3

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Good lord..Y'all keep saying bye , but no one's leaving.

Truth! I am done.


Sleeved: 2/12/2017

SW: 209lbs/95kgs

One of these days, we are going to have to create a thread with the most entertaining arguments. That way we can binge on them while in jury duty or in an airport with a layover, etc. We can just add the title so that it is searchable. I ought to be ashamed of loving to read these things. I can't help it though. I grew up watching Jerry Springer, Ricky Lake and Maury.

Good stuff!

Stop trying to some higher ground - you were morbidly obese and put yourself through this dangerous procedure to save your life - now you treat everyone on here with questions or make mistakes with contempt? What a hypocrite!!!


Get real. You’re no better than anyone on here and if you were perfect you would never have needed the surgery. Get lost fool.


Sleeved: 2/12/2017

SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Yummy....

I've been here for over four years. You've been here for less than four weeks. It takes all kinds to make a message board. If someone isn't your "kind" take what you like and leave the rest. Yes even on a post you started because these posts live long after we are gone and new people and old alike continue to read them for years and learn from them. The tough love works for some and not others. It works for me so I am glad it exists here.

Dreamingsmall rubs some people the wrong way, some of us appreciate her. You can't possibly have read every post of hers, so don't lose credibility exaggerating. Let's just move on and block her if she's not your style.

She doesn't claim to be "better" than anyone just perhaps more experienced than some. I think that those who are further out can have more to share and more credibility in some of our eyes. But that's not to say anyone's any better, just perhaps have more experience to share.

And keeping a level head often means you get listened to more than if you curse and lose your temper too.

I hear what you are saying, that it's not about the soup or pizza or even about you stepping off plan pre op. You are saying it's about Dreamingsmall's pattern and way of interacting. I just don't agree with you that she makes everyone mad every time, because I like and appreciate her.