Just got my surgery date! So excited!! I got a call from the nurse yesterday and she said since my BP has been dangerously high at the last couple visits & at the exercise physiologists visit, their going to try to move the surgery date to October if any spot comes open! Yaay!

So how is everyone doing, pre op and post ops, come on November buddies let's hear an update. Mine is my time changed and I am down 43 lbs YAY.
HW 293
CW 250
GW 140/ 150

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Congratulations [emoji324][emoji323][emoji898] 43lbs is amazing!!!

UPDATE: Hi guys...I’m doing great! This past week was a little touch and go I had that abdominal pain creep back up on me but i find that as long as a wear some sort of supportive undergarments I’m fine. It takes some getting used to and a little uncomfortable at times but I’m just gonna go ahead and put it out there, support garments are a must!!! Thank me later lol

Still on purée phase. Haven’t been eating much. Mainly, my protein drinks, sugar free Puddin, applesauce and of course plenty of water and crystal light (try warming it up like hot tea, its so satisfying).

Thanksgiving was lovely! My family seems to be putting everything behind us and we’re all moving forward. [emoji7]

This weekend was great as i got to spend some time with my daughters and my BF in the mountains. We rented a cabin and the girls went zip lining. Although, i finally meet the weight requirement [emoji23] it’s still too soon, doc said i should stay away from vigorous activity for at least another three weeks. I CANT WAIT TO GET BACK IN THE GYM!! [emoji30].

Haven’t weighed myself since my post op appointment; I was 275 then. Going to weigh myself tomorrow morning *fingers crossed* I’m down another five.

Looking to return to work tomorrow...finally things are starting to get back to normal!

I’m so happy for ya.. and sadly I won’t have the undergarment on time .. surgery is tomorrow. I’m glad to see you are doing great with some complications but “that shall pass” I wish you keep doing well. And best of luck with the loss!


“There will be obstacles. There will be doubters. There will be mistakes. But with hard work, there are no limits.” —Michael Phelps

I’m so happy for ya.. and sadly I won’t have the undergarment on time .. surgery is tomorrow. I’m glad to see you are doing great with some complications but “that shall pass” I wish you keep doing well. And best of luck with the loss!


“There will be obstacles. There will be doubters. There will be mistakes. But with hard work, there are no limits.” —Michael Phelps

May God be with you today! I pray you have minimal pain and a speedy recovery. Please update us as soon as you can.

May God be with you today! I pray you have minimal pain and a speedy recovery. Please update us as soon as you can.

Thank you!!! Surgery is after 11 am! I’ll let Cha know as soon as possible !

Just had my one month follow up with my nutritionist. She was very happy with me. I’m down 42 pounds! After three weeks I finally started to feel better [emoji846]

Just had my one month follow up with my nutritionist. She was very happy with me. I’m down 42 pounds! After three weeks I finally started to feel better [emoji846]

Congrats ! You doing amazing!

14 hours ago, vanwest83 said:

Just had my one month follow up with my nutritionist. She was very happy with me. I’m down 42 pounds! After three weeks I finally started to feel better [emoji846]

That's awesome...congratulations!

Can I just confess to y'all?

I'm so thrilled for each one of you and proud of your losses and how you're healing!!! ((hugs))

Every time someone announces they are approved or have a date, I get this knot in my throat/chest as I'm happy for them. I also am a little green with envy. This was also supposed to be MY time. You know? Now I'm in limbo again for the next 3 months wondering if my insurance is going to find a way to exclude me from surgery. So instead of the holidays being laid back and easy...I'm sad and stressed. I know time is what we make of it. I'm just having trouble the last couple of weeks processing the disappointment and choosing to have a positive outlook. I know I'll get there...it just sucks while you're processing.

There...they say confession is good for the soul?

Can I just confess to y'all?
I'm so thrilled for each one of you and proud of your losses and how you're healing!!! ((hugs))
Every time someone announces they are approved or have a date, I get this knot in my throat/chest as I'm happy for them. I also am a little green with envy. This was also supposed to be MY time. You know? Now I'm in limbo again for the next 3 months wondering if my insurance is going to find a way to exclude me from surgery. So instead of the holidays being laid back and easy...I'm sad and stressed. I know time is what we make of it. I'm just having trouble the last couple of weeks processing the disappointment and choosing to have a positive outlook. I know I'll get there...it just sucks while you're processing.
There...they say confession is good for the soul?

Right now...it is ok for you to feel like you are. You had a date and you were ready to go. It is so sad that someone else's mistake can make such an impact on someone else's life. I do not have any miracle words to give you for encouragement (I wish knew what could make a difference and make you feel instantly better). Just know we are here to listen and try the best you can to enjoy the holiday's with family and friends. ((hugs))

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Hello FluffyChix, I know first hand what you are going through because I also had many delays and hospitalizations and then have to wait for stabilization and then for an appointment and for the operating room to be available. All this while I was sitting on edge wondering, WHEN! I made myself think that there could be some unknown danger which I was avoiding because God knows all things. So I decided to relax and have faith that it would happen when it's supposed to happen. And then it did. It's not easy but you've done your part so try to enjoy the holidays but don't go overboard and then regret it. Before you know it you'll get your call. Good luck! [emoji319][emoji319][emoji319][emoji319]

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Can I just confess to y'all?
I'm so thrilled for each one of you and proud of your losses and how you're healing!!! ((hugs))
Every time someone announces they are approved or have a date, I get this knot in my throat/chest as I'm happy for them. I also am a little green with envy. This was also supposed to be MY time. You know? Now I'm in limbo again for the next 3 months wondering if my insurance is going to find a way to exclude me from surgery. So instead of the holidays being laid back and easy...I'm sad and stressed. I know time is what we make of it. I'm just having trouble the last couple of weeks processing the disappointment and choosing to have a positive outlook. I know I'll get there...it just sucks while you're processing.
There...they say confession is good for the soul?

I know it can be very discouraging and depressing and i pray that everything goes well so you’re not delayed anymore! But can i just say that i for one love having you here!!! You’re so positive, upbeat, encouraging and kind to everyone, and i just can’t wait until it’s your turn and we can return the favor. Please keep your head up and hang in there! [emoji8]

Fluffy,

It is totally understandable that all the updates will leave you feeling conflicted. You were with us, right there, up until the last minute. Of course you are disappointed. I agree with everyone else, you are such a positive influence on us, and always know the exact right thing to say. Please stay with us, we will be there for you when your day comes, and it will be sooner than you think.

Hugs to you/

1 hour ago, Wanda A said:

Fluffy,

It is totally understandable that all the updates will leave you feeling conflicted. You were with us, right there, up until the last minute. Of course you are disappointed. I agree with everyone else, you are such a positive influence on us, and always know the exact right thing to say. Please stay with us, we will be there for you when your day comes, and it will be sooner than you think.

Hugs to you/

Thank you and God bless you, @Wanda A. You know, being upbeat and supportive towards friends like y'all is very easy. Like, throw me in that briar patch!

Can I just confess to y'all?
I'm so thrilled for each one of you and proud of your losses and how you're healing!!! ((hugs))
Every time someone announces they are approved or have a date, I get this knot in my throat/chest as I'm happy for them. I also am a little green with envy. This was also supposed to be MY time. You know? Now I'm in limbo again for the next 3 months wondering if my insurance is going to find a way to exclude me from surgery. So instead of the holidays being laid back and easy...I'm sad and stressed. I know time is what we make of it. I'm just having trouble the last couple of weeks processing the disappointment and choosing to have a positive outlook. I know I'll get there...it just sucks while you're processing.
There...they say confession is good for the soul?

You have all your rights to feel that way.. i would and even worse. Is not easy to be told not now .. but later .. after all plans. To me you are very strong, cuz I would’ve left this site and anything that would set my heart in pain. Just know when your turn comes we will be here with you too. To congratulate and tell you that “this and that” is normal.

@Luisajfc ((hugs!)) I'm blessed by ya'lls friendships!!! (I'm askeered the grammar po-po are gonna come ****** me bald headed and since my hair is falling out everywhere, I don't have far to go!) hehehehe

How are you feeling this week?