PAINFUL ORGASM..still in pain

[dreamingsmall 1,125]

Kill me now with this embarrasing question.

I see my surgeon wednesday and i dont think i can bring myself to ask, i have googled everywhere and nothing.

5 weeks post vsg erm was having some private time on my own as an adult whos single may do. and my stomach at the bottom started hurting, and now the day after it still hurts so bad ive not been able to eat anything much it just hurts lower down.

Did i break something?? i feel so sore lower stomach almost in my overies too lol what a nightmare.

i emailed my nurse to say my lower tummy hurts but did not give info.

soo embarrased dont say this thing iev done might cause a leak can you imagine, ive followed the plan no one ever mentioned about sexual activity as maybe because im singl i dont know but i didnt think i had to wait for that. i felt fine before this.

[Sosewsue61 3,185]

Go to the ER. Don't be embarassed by your body or sexual activity - we are human. Tell them exactly how you feel and where, believe me the ER has heard things my imagination could not dream up.

[dreamingsmall 1,125]

30 minutes ago, Sosewsue61 said:

Go to the ER. Don't be embarassed by your body or sexual activity - we are human. Tell them exactly how you feel and where, believe me the ER has heard things my imagination could not dream up.

The ER oh no! " Hi I need emergency help i orgasmed and then smething contracted and i broke something lol.

wednesday is not far away but what could have happened? and its 1.29pm and still my lower tummy hurts, and i have felt perfect before now.

and your right we are human but im pretty shy about this stuff.

did your dr say how long without sexual activity? i wonder why my surgeon mentioned nothing about it . i feel so horrible but no surery was done with my lower stomach so i just am confused.

thanks for replying just wondered if anyone else experianced this

Edited August 7, 2017 by dreamingsmall

[hmills653 365]

This is way below where your surgery was, so my guess is they're unrelated. I was active at 5 weeks and just had to do positions that avoided my belly bc of tenderness. Does it feel like sore lower abdominal muscles? I really don't think you could go through that end and give yourself a leak. Don't go to the ER unless it's an emergency and for that don't go to your closest most frequented ER. Trust me on that as a nurse. Tell your surgeon. You don't have to say specifics just say you had engaged in sexual activity and now this is what you're feeling and aren't sure if the two are related.

[dreamingsmall 1,125]

6 minutes ago, hmills653 said:

This is way below where your surgery was, so my guess is they're unrelated. I was active at 5 weeks and just had to do positions that avoided my belly bc of tenderness. Does it feel like sore lower abdominal muscles? I really don't think you could go through that end and give yourself a leak. Don't go to the ER unless it's an emergency and for that don't go to your closest most frequented ER. Trust me on that as a nurse. Tell your surgeon. You don't have to say specifics just say you had engaged in sexual activity and now this is what you're feeling and aren't sure if the two are related.

Thanks for the reply, say if you ate the wrong food and youd get a horrible pain in your lower stomach, and feeling sick. when it happened my lower stomach contracted and just has not stopped hurting, and will see what they say wednesday i cant eat as feel so sick. i feel really exausted and sore .

[hmills653 365]

Wow. Sorry. Let us know what the surgeon says. I'm curious to know.

[FluffyChix 17,410]

Mmmmm. Can't say about the tummy, but re: "self-molestation..." I'd say you're only a few hours away from going blind...Just sayin'...

[jess9395 5,448]

I had no restrictions on sexual activity and engaged at maybe 10 days, so it's not contraindicated. Don't worry about that part of it.

And you don't need to say what kind of sexual activity you engaged in! Just tell them an orgasm caused a cramp/spasm/pull. My guess is it's just that, a muscle cramp/tear/pull... which can be totally painful and hang around for weeks. But it's not likely related to surgery.

[dreamingsmall 1,125]

Thank you thank you everyone! i AM SO GREATFULL for your responces! Never had this issue before so perhaps things are sensitive in there lol i should have stopped when it first started hurting but .. i had a destinationto reach! lol

thanks everyone will mention it on wednesday in a roundabout way!

[dreamingsmall 1,125]

28 minutes ago, FluffyChix said:

Mmmmm. Can't say about the tummy, but re: "self-molestation..." I'd say you're only a few hours away from going blind...Just sayin'...

Hahahah so funny im going to lay off for some time lol as i want to save my vision