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And to add to my above post, when I have something important to me and it has to be correct I send it to Lauren to edit and fine tune first. Matter of fact she just did it for me yesterday.

Spelling and grammar are not my forte, I just don't remember the rules anymore. No excuse, I just don't.

LOL! I may have never learned some of the grammar rules at all! and the rest I don't remember...no win situation for me..

DOes Lauren charge for editing? well, I mean does she charge us? since we are bandters, maybe I can get a freebie...

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LOL! I may have never learned some of the grammar rules at all! and the rest I don't remember...no win situation for me..

DOes Lauren charge for editing? well, I mean does she charge us? since we are bandters, maybe I can get a freebie...

Nope, all free!

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I think you are holding your own just fine.

The topic will drift to something new in a few anyway so no worries. :Banane30:

I'm 45, educated, experienced in debate and I had to ask Lauren, a 24 y/o student the difference between belief and faith! I think we are in the same boat! HA!

Well, I still think you are cruising on the Royal Caribbean and I'm sitting here in a little raft....not the same boat, I can tell you are big time, extremely knowledgeable and educated....me...not so much....lol but I sure take the encouragement!

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And you Lauren... gee, how have you gotten so smart and know so much at the tender age of 24..? Kuddos to you! SHout out to you!

However, you must still behave missy, I can be your mother now! you must respect the elderly!

ok, ok, I'm just teasing you.........

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Some people are afraid of losing loved ones, and religion brings them the comfort of "life after death" or "reuniting with your friends and family." For the people who cannot, or opt not to, consider life and existence is the most generic term as finite, religion works for them.

Some people choose specific religions based on the religion's leniency or tolerance. They find that it alleviates a sense of personal responsibility, because I can always just "confess" or "pray" or "do penance" and be forgiven. For these people looking for ways to avoid personal responsibility for their action, religion works.

For people wanting to make money, religion can be very profitable. Religion works for them.

Just a few examples.

My beliefs are my own, so I won't go into that, but I have to share this....

Years ago I worked with this older guy, and someone asked him if he believed in God. Without hesitation he said, "Sure I do!". He was asked how he could be so sure that there was a God. He responded, "Well, I look at it like this. If I believe in God, and when I die I find out that there is no God, what do I lose? But if I don't believe in God, and when I die I am facing him for my eternal judgment.......woooo doggie! I just ain't gonna take that chance!"

Most honest answer I ever heard.

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And you Lauren... gee, how are you so smart at the tender age of 24..?

Kuddos to you! SHout out to you!

However, you must still behave missy, I can be your mother now! you must respect the elderly!

ok, ok, I'm just teasing you...

Yes'm. :nervous

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My beliefs are my own, so I won't go into that, but I have to share this....

Years ago I worked with this older guy, and someone asked him if he believed in God. Without hesitation he said, "Sure I do!". He was asked how he could be so sure that there was a God. He responded, "Well, I look at it like this. If I believe in God, and when I die I find out that there is no God, what do I lose? But if I don't believe in God, and when I die I am facing him for my eternal judgment.......woooo doggie! I just ain't gonna take that chance!"

Most honest answer I ever heard.

No offense, but I despise that reasoning. It reeks of cowardice, to me.

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No offense, but I despise that reasoning. It reeks of cowardice, to me.

Why would I take offense? It's not my reasoning. It cracked me up at the time because that country boy was dead serious, and he didn't try to justify anything to anybody. It was what it was.

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Sarcasm +truth=denial.

You are not funny at all.

Passer pour un idiot aux yeux d'un imbécile est une volupté de fin gourmet.

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Passer pour un idiot aux yeux d'un imbécile est une volupté de fin gourmet.

Oh my god! :madgrin: I just snorted chili. Damn you, Derick! :Banane30:

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Passer pour un idiot aux yeux d'un imbécile est une volupté de fin gourmet.

My french is rusty... Who's eating the idiot's eyes?

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My beliefs are my own, so I won't go into that, but I have to share this....

Years ago I worked with this older guy, and someone asked him if he believed in God. Without hesitation he said, "Sure I do!". He was asked how he could be so sure that there was a God. He responded, "Well, I look at it like this. If I believe in God, and when I die I find out that there is no God, what do I lose? But if I don't believe in God, and when I die I am facing him for my eternal judgment.......woooo doggie! I just ain't gonna take that chance!"

Most honest answer I ever heard.

I didn't ask you to share your beliefs (just clarifying since your response to my quote started the way it did), but the example you provided is another one we see all the time. "I don't believe concretely, but I'm afraid of what might happen if I don't, so I will." A perfect example of someone being feared into religion.

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