Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Saying.... Thanks



Recommended Posts

Well I don't know what you're reading but I personally went to the other site it's confusing as hell and if you don't agree with the mediators they simply just delete your comments without a reason.

What comic relief are you talking about I don't see anything funny on this site right now that would deserve being called comic relief. This is the site for people who want to come here and ask questions and hopefully get answers without being ridiculed. I guess I'm just one of the people who didn't drink the Kool-Aid and follow the so-called leaders I'm glad that I can think for myself and make my own choices

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Well I don't know what you're reading but I personally went to the other site it's confusing as hell

They definitely need a "view new posts" function.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Summer.... I'm a creature of habit. And a believer in ..... if it's not broke don't fix it

I'm going to stay right here

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Glad to see a group of core vets stick around. I feel like we certainly are available for specific questions.

I've been here for years and chose not to participate in sniping....or sexual innuendo... just not me.

Happy to come here to read supportive posts... I count on it!

It is a major help to me almost daily.

I hope others feel that way. And use this site selectively for their information.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Summer.... I'm a creature of habit. And a believer in ..... if it's not broke don't fix it

I'm going to stay right here

You got me wrong. I didn't suggest that you should start posting at OH as well. I don't like the boards because I hate the format and a "view new posts" function would increase usability a whole lot.

Edited by summerset

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Oh ok. I got ya now. Lol

Thanks for sticking around summer and Julie


Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Well, I am so glad I missed all of that stuff!! I'm glad we still have decent peeps here. I'm not going any where.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Just because someone is "new" doesn't mean they give bad advice or know nothing.

Just because someone is a "vet" doesn't mean they know everything and give the right advice.

There are so many different reasons why people are successful or why they lost weight and kept it off. One size does not fit all.

For example, many eat low carb and are doing great. While others eat carbs and are successful too.

My Dr recommends tons of vegetables after the first few months in addition to nuts, seeds, and Beans with no artificial sweeteners and limited dairy (which is a staple for most of us post op)

For some that would be unheard of.

Every Dr and every person have different needs and programs.

While I'm sure many appreciate and welcome successful people's opinions, the world is not coming to an end and there will be others with good, sound advice.

Give people a chance. Let it go.

There are still some great vets with great advice around. There are even newbies with great advice!

Yes there are many that give good and bad advice. Just like many Drs have drastically different plans and advice.

Just be kind. You never know what that person is going thru.

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thank you vets for sticking around. I looked at the other site and prefer this one. Also I really don't care for drama.

Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G890A using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Well said ssze. And you are correct just because a person has been around a long time doesn't mean they have all the answers. And I welcome a fresh view point

Paradise thanks for staying

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Just because someone is "new" doesn't mean they give bad advice or know nothing.

Just because someone is a "vet" doesn't mean they know everything and give the right advice.

There are so many different reasons why people are successful or why they lost weight and kept it off. One size does not fit all.

For example, many eat low carb and are doing great. While others eat carbs and are successful too.

My Dr recommends tons of vegetables after the first few months in addition to nuts, seeds, and Beans with no artificial sweeteners and limited dairy (which is a staple for most of us post op)

For some that would be unheard of.

Every Dr and every person have different needs and programs.

While I'm sure many appreciate and welcome successful people's opinions, the world is not coming to an end and there will be others with good, sound advice.

Give people a chance. Let it go.

There are still some great vets with great advice around. There are even newbies with great advice!

Yes there are many that give good and bad advice. Just like many Drs have drastically different plans and advice.

Just be kind. You never know what that person is going thru.

Deserves a full quote. ^_^

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I for one am happy here. Sure, I may joke around a little when responding to posts but it is never meant to be cruel or mean. It is supposed to help lighten the mood. Yes WLS is a very serious issue, but if you are serious 100% of the time it is no fun. This is a new life style for all of us. And just because somebody has had the surgery a long time ago doesn't mean that they know everything. I appreciate their input however if my surgeon or nutritionist tells me to do it one way I shouldn't be belittled about it.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

The other site is confusing...I checked it out also. I personally love this site. Everyone has their on opinions and suggestions. I have been one to hold back on here in fear of being ridiculed and drug under a bus for asking a "stupid" question.

Well I don't know what you're reading but I personally went to the other site it's confusing as hell and if you don't agree with the mediators they simply just delete your comments without a reason.
What comic relief are you talking about I don't see anything funny on this site right now that would deserve being called comic relief. This is the site for people who want to come here and ask questions and hopefully get answers without being ridiculed. I guess I'm just one of the people who didn't drink the Kool-Aid and follow the so-called leaders I'm glad that I can think for myself and make my own choices


Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

The other site is confusing...I checked it out also. I personally love this site. Everyone has their on opinions and suggestions. I have been one to hold back on here in fear of being ridiculed and drug under a bus for asking a "stupid" question.

Well I don't know what you're reading but I personally went to the other site it's confusing as hell and if you don't agree with the mediators they simply just delete your comments without a reason.

What comic relief are you talking about I don't see anything funny on this site right now that would deserve being called comic relief. This is the site for people who want to come here and ask questions and hopefully get answers without being ridiculed. I guess I'm just one of the people who didn't drink the Kool-Aid and follow the so-called leaders I'm glad that I can think for myself and make my own choices

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

The only stupid question is the one that isn't asked.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

absolutly @@Redmaxx I do the same, joke around and have fun. We use to have a lot of fun here. And rarely did any one get truly upset.

I for one own when I miss speak or even think i may have hurt someone's feeling. I will be the first to say Sorry and lets agree to disagree.

And all WLS patients should listen to their doctor.... Now if something just doesn't sit well with me... i will of course come here and ask and see what people have to say. But the most important thing is that i listen to MY body.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • KimBaxleyWilson

      Three months and four days ago... I was in Costa Rica having a life changing surgery! Yesterday we had a followup visit with Dr. Esmeral via video chat and this morning my middle number changed.  I'm down 47lbs and two pants sizes. I can wear a Large tshirt for the first time in like... 14 years! Woot!! Everything is going great. I have zero regrets. I went down to the riverwalk with a friend and walked 2 miles on Monday without even getting fatigued. And no more snoring or chugging pickle juice for crazy leg cramps! I need to go to the gym more... I'm making new shirts next week so that will motivate me. LOL But I'm also just not as TIRED all the time! I have a LONG way to go...but seeing the progress on the scales and in the mirror is a huge motivator!! Thank you all for cheering me on and supporting me!!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • bellaamey

      https://alluniqueguide.com/java-burn-coffee-reviews/
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×