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For some of you that knew my mom was having all kinds of colon problems just wanted you to know that she is clear of cancer threats.

Her colonoscopy showed NO SIGNS OF CANCER which was a huge fear for me. They think for now it is the diverticulitis and all her polyps that are causing her pains and bleeding along with her AVM sites. But nothing is conclusive just yet.

Just talked to Mom. She sounds great. Tired but good. Her colonoscopy went well. They were able to get all the way through and she was NOT AWAKE during the procedure so there was NO PAIN for her. Thank GOD. They said NO cancer was evident. WHEW! I was afraid of that. She said she won't know much else till she goes back for her follow up and I don't remember when she said that was.

We talked for almost an hour on the phone. She is doing really good so far.

We are both looking forward to Christmas.

We discussed the craziness with Tonya, my sister, these days. SIGH!! Not sure what is gonna happen with her in the future, but can't dwell on that right now or at all. My sister had a really bad car wreck about a year ago that left her with some degree of brain injury. The extent we are not sure because Tonya will not give us a straight answer. She is overly medicated as well and is in denial about that. So Mom and I wait for that dreaded phone call that she has either been in fatal car wreck or has OD'd on her medication. I visited her in Sept or Oct can't remember now and it was bad. She was slurring her words and falling over things. She had also gained about 50 lbs and my sister was always the skinny one. IT was a shock. There is way more to this story but not enough time to go into it. She also has a diagnosis of Manic/Depressive and I also think Paranoid Schiz as well. Lots going on with her. SIGH!!

But MOM is well and doing better. Thank YOU LORD!!

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Penni,

Glad to hear that they have ruled out Cancer that must be a big relief for you both. I pray that your Mom will be better in the days to come your sister as well.

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Penni - I'm glad to hear that your Mother is cancer free. What a relief that must be for you. I will say a prayer for both your Mom and your Sister.

Hugs!

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What a great gift for Christmas Penni! I am so glad that you got some happy news!

Sorry to hear about your sister... my brother had a major head injury with a motorcycle accident and has never been quite the same but it sounds like your sis has a lot of other problems going on as well... must be especially tough on your Mom. *sigh* (((hugs)))

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Thanks for letting us know and yes I was wondering how she was. I’m glad they ruled out Cancer but I hope they took a biopsy as well to confirm that. Diverticulitis is small pockets in the wall of the colon. Bacteria, waste … can harbor in these pockets. Have her avoid seeds and nuts. Also a high Fiber diet is usually recommended. I don’t know much, but have plenty of Colon knowledge even though I don’t have one any more. I hope she doesn’t have too much pain or bleeding, any colon related problem could be very painful.

Do give her a big Hug at Christmas and let her know my thoughts are with her. :Bunny

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Penni, I'm so sorry about your sister. Hope she can get better.

I'm so glad that your mother's test was clear! Did they remove the polyps when they did the scope? There are meds for the diverticulitis. They will probably want to rerun that test regularly now - to keep an eye on her. Benefiber powder is a great source of fiber and doesn't "gunk up" like Metamucil.

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Thanks for the update, Penni. I hope your mom will continue to do well. I understand about the sister too :D. I have one I have to 'turn over' to God often.

I understand the worry about your mom. I'm sure you can breathe a bit easier now. Merry Christmas! :)

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Great News! I am so glad to hear :D it Penni!!!!

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Penni,

Glad to hear your mom is doing fine. My mom had lots of colon problems -- not cancer but problems with the colon becoming twisted. This was the result of my moms demise.

I hope all will be well with your sister too. That's really sad. Take care and know prayers are with your

Tanya

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hi, penni

i really don't know you well. but, i hope i'm not out of place in , saying, that,my heart goes out to you and your family, with all the health problems, they are having, i'm so glad like the rest that is not cancer, and your ok yourself . at times when our family's are having health related problems, we suffer , very much, cause, we feel so helpless,

and is nice to know, that , their are friends to share these times with, even as hard as they are, take care of yourself , cause , your mother is in very good hands, but, your in a fragile state, rest,and eat well, at times, we forget.even that ,because of the worries,

best of health to you and your mother,sister...

margie,

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I know how relieved you must be, Penni, that your mom is cancer-free and I am so happy for both of you.

I am very sorry about your sister, though. But despite her trials, she is blessed to have a sister like you. Take care.

Nancy

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