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By Kaila312, in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums

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4MRB4PHOTO    3,900

4MRB4PHOTO
Posted

Haha! Some people crack me up.

So defensive and indignant.

"I know I'm eating like sh*t and grazing, but it's my SLEEVE!!"

Comedy gold.

People can shift their not taking responsibility and blame it on me. I have strong shoulders.

(Gaining Weight By Over Eating High Caloric Foods/Not Exercising): "It's 4MRB4PHOTO's fault!".

(Feeling Lousy/Poor Blood Chemistry Because You Don't Take Your Recommended Supplements): "It's 4MRB4PHOTO's fault!".

(Become Dehydrated Because You Only Drink A Quart Or Less Of liquids Every Day): "It's 4MRB4PHOTO's fault!".

(The Toilet Lid Wasn't Lowered And Your Wife Complained): "It's 4MRB4PHOTO's fault!"; Well actually, I'll take the blame on that one in my home.

:)

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HushxPuppyx    20

HushxPuppyx
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Haha! Some people crack me up.

So defensive and indignant.

"I know I'm eating like sh*t and grazing, but it's my SLEEVE!!"

Comedy gold.

YOU'RE A F*CKING TROLL...GET ON SOMEWHERE...YOU MUST HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ELSE TO DO BESIDES STAY ON THIS FORUM ALL F×CKING DAY LONG...WHAT A LIFE.

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HushxPuppyx    20

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Haha! Some people crack me up.

So defensive and indignant.

"I know I'm eating like sh*t and grazing, but it's my SLEEVE!!"

Comedy gold.

People can shift their not taking responsibility and blame it on me. I have strong shoulders.

(Gaining Weight By Over Eating High Caloric Foods/Not Exercising): "It's 4MRB4PHOTO's fault!".

(Feeling Lousy/Poor Blood Chemistry Because You Don't Take Your Recommended Supplements): "It's 4MRB4PHOTO's fault!".

(Become Dehydrated Because You Only Drink A Quart Or Less Of Liquids Every Day): "It's 4MRB4PHOTO's fault!".

(The Toilet Lid Wasn't Lowered And Your Wife Complained): "It's 4MRB4PHOTO's fault!"; Well actually, I'll take the blame on that one in my home.

:)

Shuttt up...you actually took the time to type this...LMAO!

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4MRB4PHOTO    3,900

4MRB4PHOTO
Posted

Haha! Some people crack me up.

So defensive and indignant.

"I know I'm eating like sh*t and grazing, but it's my SLEEVE!!"

Comedy gold.

People can shift their not taking responsibility and blame it on me. I have strong shoulders.

(Gaining Weight By Over Eating High Caloric Foods/Not Exercising): "It's 4MRB4PHOTO's fault!".

(Feeling Lousy/Poor Blood Chemistry Because You Don't Take Your Recommended Supplements): "It's 4MRB4PHOTO's fault!".

(Become Dehydrated Because You Only Drink A Quart Or Less Of Liquids Every Day): "It's 4MRB4PHOTO's fault!".

(The Toilet Lid Wasn't Lowered And Your Wife Complained): "It's 4MRB4PHOTO's fault!"; Well actually, I'll take the blame on that one in my home.

:)

Shuttt up...you actually took the time to type this...LMAO!

You "LMAO?"

Yeahhhhhhhh (clapping my hands). Good for you! Hurray!

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HushxPuppyx    20

HushxPuppyx
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Yayyyy! Now shut the f up :)

Yayyyy!! Now shut the f up

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4MRB4PHOTO    3,900

4MRB4PHOTO
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Yayyyy! Now shut the f up :)

Yayyyy!! Now shut the f up

Baaaaad Puppy. You are suppose to go on the paper when you do that. :)

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HushxPuppyx    20

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Yayyyy! Now shut the f up :)

Yayyyy!! Now shut the f up

Baaaaad Puppy. You are suppose to go on the paper when you do that. :)

LAME. BUT NICE TRY.

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readyforthislifechange    82

readyforthislifechange
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Oh man I'm sorry you're going through this. I have been pushed away by the same people that are on your thread screaming they're the bariatric police. Geez can't believe they are still on here telling others how to do things right. Very sad. Obviously you are well aware of your issues. The purpose of this site is to help those when they're down and empower them to do better or sometimes even understand where their possible issue could be.

Believe it or not people, some individuals are different from yourself, so maybe, just maybe we can allow them to be human and help them overcome their fear and not make them feel guilty. Obesity is a recognized disease and if it was easily cured then we all wouldn't be on here.

Some of you have to step outside yourselves and really see that were all here to help others and ourselves, not to judge and make them feel better. I went to my bariatric support group today where several people mentioned having left this site because of this sort of response.

HushxPuppyx I hope you will get back on track. The mental part of this journey is much harder than the physical part and I agree with Bellabloom. Maybe trying to reset your cravings and pouch might help. Or if you are able to incorporate exercise on a more vigorous level to where you'd need a few more calories but even then try to keep them primarily Protein. I wish you the best or luck and ignore the bariatric police, these group of hags are too perfect to be on such a humanly site lol

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OutsideMatchInside    10,166

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@@JamieLogical

I feel like it is so helpful it should be required for everyone. There is so much knowledge in those few minutes.

You can see your sleeve and you know it happened even if you can't feel it. You can see how it works. Most importantly you know exactly where your stomach is, which is up much farther than most people think. When people talking about all those noises their stomach is making it is really their intestines.

Edited to add...

Well while I was distracted with work, this thread certainly took a turn, lol.

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sleevenv    483

sleevenv
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Haha! Some people crack me up.

So defensive and indignant.

"I know I'm eating like sh*t and grazing, but it's my SLEEVE!!"

Comedy gold.

Haha! Some people crack me up.

So defensive and indignant.

"I know I'm eating like sh*t and grazing, but it's my SLEEVE!!"

Comedy gold.

I love you Babbs. Some people just don't get it!

Edited by sleevenv

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VSGAnn2014    12,992

VSGAnn2014
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I forgive everyone in this thread who has butthurt me.

(See how easy that was?)

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Babbs    14,681

Babbs
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I wish you the best or luck and ignore the bariatric police, these group of hags are too perfect to be on such a humanly site lol

Hey! That's QUEEN hag to you!

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VDLT    244

VDLT
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its a shame that a good thread can go south so quickly. There is no need for name calling specially when people are trying to be helpful.

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JamieLogical    8,727

JamieLogical
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I'm sad about the turn this thread has taken. The OP's story is very interesting to me and I am sure to others as well.

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4MRB4PHOTO    3,900

4MRB4PHOTO
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I wish you the best or luck and ignore the bariatric police, these group of hags are too perfect to be on such a humanly site lol

Hey! That's QUEEN hag to you!

I am humbled to make your acquaintance, your Majesty.

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