I had my band surgery in May 2010. I started at 289 till dropped down to 198 after 2 slips and set backs. The last slip was May 2015 since then I've gained back 30lbs. I am now at 243. I am so off track and discouraged it's crazy. Work, having teenagers and premenopausal (only 38 yrs old but mom had the same issue) symptoms is a extra challenge. I recently joined a larger gym. I've not done hot yoga which I love for a year now. Any encouragement or following is greatly appreciated. Looking at pictures is awful. I am getting back to that ugly fat person I don't love as much and that is bringing me down. Signed failed band Patient

I had my band surgery in May 2010. I started at 289 till dropped down to 198 after 2 slips and set backs. The last slip was May 2015 since then I've gained back 30lbs. I am now at 243. I am so off track and discouraged it's crazy. Work, having teenagers and premenopausal (only 38 yrs old but mom had the same issue) symptoms is a extra challenge. I recently joined a larger gym. I've not done hot yoga which I love for a year now. Any encouragement or following is greatly appreciated. Looking at pictures is awful. I am getting back to that ugly fat person I don't love as much and that is bringing me down. Signed failed band Patient

Hi Crystal. I was banded in January of 2013. I'm doing fine but posts like this worry me as I can't help but wonder if this is my future. I have no advice as I haven't experienced what you are going through but my first thought is what does your doctor say? Why have you had multiple slips? Why do you say you are a failed band patient? It sounds to me like you are trying to get back on track and not trying to eat around or cheat the band.

I'm hoping you can get the help and support you need. Please keep us posted on your progress.

Hi I've unfortunately had a couple different docs due to the requirements of insurance. Am I the perfect bandster since my 2nd slip in May not I am not. After gaining weight back for a 2nd time it's hard.

Hi I've unfortunately had a couple different docs due to the requirements of insurance. Am I the perfect bandster since my 2nd slip in May not I am not. After gaining weight back for a 2nd time it's hard.

I don't think it's about being perfect...I think it's about having the band do its job and help you/us to be successful. I would still look to the medical professionals to help with this so your band can work the way it's supposed to. Sorry if I sound like a numbskull but I would look to my doctor(s) for help and not feel as if I was a failure...because you're not.

Never give up on yourself! Get your team to help you make a plan and see them regularly. Best wishes.