The way things are progressing with the lovely Miss Noel, my time on Match.com will hopefully be coming to an end soon. But I don't know why I didn't think about this earlier...There has been discussion about creating a dating site for WLS people, well why not just share a link to your dating site profile here.

Mine is: http://www.match.com/Profile/Display/About/?lid=450&uid=VF5xK49Gklufqiad26V30w==

At least by looking at others you might get an idea on how to improve your own.

Not sure if that worked

Edited October 13, 201510 yr by scubav85

Not sure if that worked

it worked for me...thanks

http://www.match.com/Profile/Display/About/?lid=450&uid=mC7/ufusmX5vYglQvmQGtw==

I need to update mine. As @@CowgirlJane said, the men in the over 50 range are something else. I do keep getting men in their late 20's and early 30's contacting me. So not feelin it!

@@FinallyFit50s - thanks for sharing, you look very young and trendy in the last picture, that may be attracting the "boys"

Thanks @OKCPirate. After looking at your profile I need to change up some things, including pictures. I'm currently rocking a totally Angela Davis 1960's look. It's funny how when I was young I fought to wear makeup and now, I could care less most days. Going to a wedding this weekend. Should get some fun pics from that. Being versatile, I'm all about it!

I want one!!!! I would have the best profile ever!!! I'd probably be 130 and a "undercover millionaire" that hikes through the jungles of Africa (in case I hate the guy I can be gone without being contacted) what else would I do since I'm done working for the CIA? Man, my husband is a profile kill though!

@@Elode - Yep the being married thing is a buzz kill on most dating sites, but if you ever long for unwanted attention, put one on Ashley Madison. It will give your ego an inflation like nothing else will. You will be overwhelmed.

@@OKCPirate ummm No thank you I just watched the movie "Temptation the confessions of a marriage counselor" by Tyler Perry. Women who cheat on their husbands get AIDS and die lonely! I'm not going out like that! Ha!

What am I doing in here?!! Geez! It's so much more interesting than what's going on out there!

I am considering signing up on Match when I get serious about dating in a year or 2. How many men in their 40s with no kids are there?

@@OutsideMatchInside - Match will let you search without paying. So create an account, poke around. If you are in a major metro area and want lots of males, go to Tinder, way more guys.

tinder only works in my area for hookers...gotta love Vegas. lol

@@Daveo - great safety tip

@@Daveo LOL

@@OKCPirate

Yeah I know there are more guys on stuff like Tinder but I want a mature man looking for something long term casual, not just casual. I know, confusing.

Edited October 15, 201510 yr by OutsideMatchInside

From what I hear, eharmony is for the most long-term success, match is next best, while tinder and PoF are for short-term. I could be wrong as I've only really tried Match.com and PoF (both unsuccessfully but also significantly heavier than I am now).

Am I correct in this? I know that when I begin online dating, I'll probably try eharmony first as a lot of my friends have used it very successfully.