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So THIS happened the other day. Me and my big mouth.



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That person sounds so stupid she probably doesn't even know how offensive that statement was. I don't use the stupid term much but I really can't think of any other term for her.

I also think she probably didn't even understand your comeback. Probably went right over her head.

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Call me nieve, but I am always shocked that someone could say something so mean as that woman. I would have stood there, my mouth gaping, and probably said, "Really?...you really just said that?" Then walked off.

Reminds me of that movie Mean Girls and my high school experience, Shame on her.

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How much you want to bet that while she was vocal with her thoughts, plenty of other people think just like her but know enough to keep it to themselves.

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This just made my day.

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How much you want to bet that while she was vocal with her thoughts, plenty of other people think just like her but know enough to keep it to themselves.

No, I don't agree. At least not the people I associate with. I prefer to think better of people, personally. :D

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A case of Karate-Mouth -- Chop, chop! Good for you.

The other day some one commented on great I look "now" and I said, "Oh, I know -- a lot of people like me so much better now." It wasn't very nice of me but it's the way it went down. And sadly, I think it's true. Not for my real friends, of course, or any one I want in my life, but for those peripheral contacts out in the world. Is it because I'm shiny and happy, not hiding under my overweight anymore? Or is it just that I am more acceptable. Interesting things to ponder!

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People are stupid.

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Dying........... You have got to be kidding me ........... fairly certain that she'll think twice before she opens her mouth and says something so stupid and insensitive ! What is WRONG with people that they dont think before they speak ? Good for you for biting back !! You go girl !! (P.S., and I thought I was quick to respond ! You've got me beat ! Love the sarcasm !)

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Wow. Just wow.

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You really did show great restraint.....What a shallow B***H!

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Ooohhhh no she didn't....I'm sorry you went through this

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:lol::lol::lol: awesome comeback!!!

People never cease to amaze me! Ignorance at its best! You can think whatever you want but some thoughts need to be kept to yourself. Some people need to adhere to the #STFU rule! Smh

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