I see this arena doesn't have much activity but I will use the RI forum for my own diary as I work through this process.

Today I see Dr. Roye for my preliminary consult with him. I had the seminar this past week and am looking forward to it. Wondering what to expect if anyone is out there. Mixed reviews from the site were it seems some aren't able or willing to make the behavioral adjustments. Trying to represent little RI. Look forward to hearing from anyone.

People with food addictions or dependency are like most other addicts. It's hard to quit and for many a lifetime of over-indulgent habits die hard and some never do. A properly adjusted band won't allow us to eat as we once did. We can't drink and eat, we can't force a swallow with another forkload of food, we can't evade chewing, and some foods just don't agree with the band.

So, some banders learn how to "eat around" their bands by consuming ice cream, pop, Cookies, candy, chips etc. A lifetime of eating taco bell, McDonalds and KFC can be impossible for some to leave behind, so they don't.

Serious people who understand the serious nature of their lifestyles understand they must change and consume healthy foods or suffer the consequences. Success rests entirely on the patients willingness and/or strength to leave the old lifestyle behind.

tmf

Hi there, I am in New Hampshire -- cold here this morning, that's for sure! I started my process last June and am happy to have stumbled on this forum. I've learned more from the people here than from any of the materials provided by the hospital. It's different for every one, it seems, but I went to a mandatory information session then met with a program coordinator, had a psych eval and nutritionist meeting (same day) then at last met with the surgeon and got my date. I was banded November 5th. It's going very well and I am very happy with my decision. Good luck to you and keep us posted on how you're doing -- and fire away with any questions you might have. Every one will answer as best they can. I have found most people here to be very knowledgeable and compassionate. And successful.

As said, you'll find with any addiction, one of the hallmarks that many experience is failing and restarting. We've all been there with our many diets. But to beat it, you really have to want it and be willing to follow the rules. There are alot of people that set expectations that are unreasonable and then when they don't reach their goals, they feel like the band failed them whereas in all actuality, they set themselves up for failure in fthe first place. You can do this and this board is a big help. Don't let the voice of some folks determine your destination.