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6 days post op, and very frustrated

Well as you know my boyfriend wrote a post awhile ago and told you all i had questions.....he didnt relay your answers to me, but i read them and thank you. Also i had my surgery on TUESDAY March 13th, NOT MONDAY....wow he pays attention doesnt he? Besides the fact, that he was here from the saturday before my surgery, until yesterday, and didnt life a effing finger to help me at all while im recovering, things are going alright. I would sit and cough and choke and ask for Water, and he would just sit there and stare at me, he didnt do one damn thing. Yet he made sure he came on here, and posted and preached about how he would help me and be there for me, and do this and that for me. Besides not doing a damn thing for me he has eaten, chocolate, mcdonalds, little ceasars, kentucky fried chicken, among a bunch of other stuff, INFRONT OF ME. And i mean right infront of me. Which if you go look at his posts, is exactly what he sid he wouldnt do. So it is safe to say, that i am extremely, extremely pissed at him. Also notice how one day he will call me his girlfriend, and the next day his fiance. God only knows what i am. Enough about that lazy you know what. I do have a bit of a cough, its getting better though. Got a pesky little period, because my body and as well as me, are in shock. I did have extremely bad nausea for about 3 days, which was from taking Extra Strength Vicodin on an empty stomach, since all i can have is liquids. That wasnt pretty. Not to mention they gave me the BIG huge pills, and said they were safe to swallow that way, WRONG, even cutting them in half was too big, so i had to result to 4ths. Lots and Lots and Lots of gas. My main problem now is that when i stand up its really hard to breathe, not when sitting down, but standing up and trying to breathe is a bit difficult and hurts a little. My mom says to go back to the hospital, but that is the LAST thing i want to do. Gotta work on getting my Protein in now, its been hard the last 6 days, as i dont feel like drinking anything. Well it is VERY uncomfortable in this chair, so im going to go for now, I will post more later. Thank you all for your help....and finally i am in BANDLAND!!!!! Wooooooooooo hooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!

~Hotpink~

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I agree, I came here and posted what i posted for SUPPORT from other LBTers, Not for him to come on here, and basically make a complete fool out of himself. Correct me if im wrong all, but isnt a boyfriend suppose to be one to take out your pain on....arent they suppose to be there to listen.....Anyways. The relationship is over its ended its done. He will be reported. Im here for SUPPORT, not to discuss my relationship with everyone and their brother. Thanks all for your support its greatly appreciated.

~Hotpink~

Say all you want, i could care less.

Report me? Wow.. so scared.

Thanks for almost 2 years of heartache and depression. Now you wont have me there to hold you back. And truthfully, this was something i've been thinking about for a LONG time, i only stayed with you becausei didnt want tohurt you. But now, that feeling is gone.

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Thats good, I will do what i please. 2 years of heartache and depressionl....need i bring up the fact that you stole my virginity, gave me an STD, stole my parents car, among other things. You need help. And i knew all along you never loved me. Im not stupid thank you. Go ahead say that. When you come crawling back, i will just spit in your big fat ugly face. Have a nice life, you f*cked up piece of shit.

Also.. a side note.. I have more "sensitive" information about you, and im contimplating using it. I hope you dont like going on your computer much :mad:

I wonder how many posts i can get before im banned...

50?

100?

Where are all the mods and admins for this board...

Well its not like im causing any REAL trouble..i could post some personal information about Casey, or maybe some personal pictures...

Its not like its going to take the Mods/Admins alot of time to just trash this post...

Hmm up to 30 posts... thats no good.. Well..why exactly am i doing this... i could be doing something else.. like talking to my friend in the PM, she's been messaging me alot.. and the window is flashing..maybe i'll go talk to her instead..

Oh for goodness sakes! You are both not only too young, but too immature to worry about being in a committed relationship right now.

I wish you BOTH the best of luck, and I hope things go well for BOTH of you. Take some time off, cool down, call it a good learning experience, walk away, and please stop bringing your break-up in here. We are here to support each other, but this is taking it a bit far...

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