My boyfriend wants to try new positions...namely me on top. I'm really scared and I'm not sure why. I know before surgery any time he asked I couldn't do it and would sometimes end up in tears because of it. Nothing to do wit him, just my insecurity because I was so big. Now that I've lost 100 pounds he is asking again. You would think I'd be all about trying it, but I get the same insecurity and tears as before. I feel like a damn fool. Logically I know I weigh 100 lbs less than before and I weigh less than him now, so I don't know why the insecurity over this hasn't gone away.

Go for it padlrd

You only live once and life is too short go for it girl

OMG

What Hot Miami' date=' I don't believe it! How you doing? when is you surgery? How are things with the hubby? Peace chica[/quote']

I didn't notice there was a question for me. I'm doing fine but since I'm thinking of leaving in a year give or take I hate sex. My surgery was 5/30/12 I'm almost 15 months post up. Hubby & I are keeping the peace for the kids but its actually over between us & I'm ok with that.

That's bad but these kids don't care you the go with there dong groups and more and really don't now what there getting there selfs into

That's true. Then they get AIDS & you see them sad but that's life.

I did it! It was a little awkward, I have to learn what I'm doing. Only done it a couple times before. But I'm glad I did it. And the bf was very happy!

Congrats!!!!!

Sorry' date=' just had to look it up and share! LOL

1. italian chandelier

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This is the real definition... It's a sexual position. The woman pushes her back and butt completly off the ground using her arm and legs, kind of like crab-walking or like when you do the bridge in gymnastics. The guy does the same thing, but facing down when they make love.

I heard the Italians love it because it burns a lot of calories.

The Italian Chandelier Position is great for burning calories.

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Wow def wanna try this one!!!

Ha!

Drink a lil wine it give you liquid courage