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Well, I had my RNY surgery on Monday, 4/29/13. I did my research and was ready to go. I had no idea how poorly I would feel afterwards. Five days in the hospital. Had RNY, hiatal hernia repair, inguinal hernia repair, bowel resection, and GB removal. Needless to say, everything other than the RNY was a surprise to me. The five days in the hospital were very hard due to pain and lack of sleep to to constant interruptions. So glad to be home and in my own bed. Slept 5 hours last night, awoke to a lot of pain which was quickly controlled with Tylenol with codeine. It took 4 days for the barium swallow to go through, so I've only been sipping liquids since Thursday. Very limited intake...told to sip one ounce every 15 mins. I am hoping that I will start to feel functional soon. I was anticipating returning to work after 2 weeks, but I can't imagine doing that at this time. Will take it one day at a time.

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Wow Janice, you really got more than you bargained for! I hope things are going better now that you are home and can rest. Take it easy and give your body the time it needs to heal, it's been through a lot. When you are able, walking helped a lot but don't over do it. I wish you a speedy recovery!!

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Thanks alc for your encouragement. I've only been home 24 hours, but I am sick to death of Clear Liquids. I have another week of that to go. Dr. said I may have to go an additional week of clear liquids while everything is healing. It is so strange to eat nothing, while the family sits around eating and snacking. I know this is what I signed up for, but I didn't think I'd be so sick. I hope that each day will show improvement. So far I'm up one pound, but I knew to expect that because of all the IV fluids they gave me in the hospital. I will need to lean on this site, because although my family is supportive, they don't seem to "get it". :unsure:

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Janice,

I go in the other room when someone is eating or get a pop sickle. Crunch factor helps. Head hunger is horrible thing.

Ecery commerical is about food. Even food channels.

But we have an addiction and as much as we want these things we can some in smaller quanaties SOMEDAY soon.

Healing comes first.....

NOTHING TASTES AS GOOD AS SKINNY FEELS.

You got this!

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I'm glad your home now. I wish you a speedy recovery.

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Thanks alc for your encouragement. I've only been home 24 hours' date=' but I am sick to death of clear liquids. I have another week of that to go. Dr. said I may have to go an additional week of clear liquids while everything is healing. It is so strange to eat nothing, while the family sits around eating and snacking. I know this is what I signed up for, but I didn't think I'd be so sick. I hope that each day will show improvement. So far I'm up one pound, but I knew to expect that because of all the IV fluids they gave me in the hospital. I will need to lean on this site, because although my family is supportive, they don't seem to "get it". :unsure:[/quote']

Just remember, this is the beginning of the rest of your life! You can do it! We all can do it! We are here for you when you need someone who understands what you are going through! Stay strong and may God bless you!!

HW: 320 CW: 287 GW: 175 WLS: 4/30/13

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Dearest Janice

I am so thinking of you. I also had complications, although different from yours. It feels shit! And one feels emotional as well!

I am 3 weeks post op and I am still struggling. But it does get better.

Just take it one step at a time.

I hate exercise but I have to tell you - the thing that worked the best when I felt like shite, was to walk a bit.

Really really really just trust me on this.

I think it is because of the moving so your plumbing kicks into gear. Also the endorphins that are released makes you feel so good about yourself and you honestly feel better. And the outside air really does wonders.

So whenever I feel terrible I drag myself out of bed and walk around the block - an immediate pick me up! Try it, it really helps!

We will get there, soon.

xxx

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Thanks alc for your encouragement. I've only been home 24 hours, but I am sick to death of clear liquids. I have another week of that to go. Dr. said I may have to go an additional week of clear liquids while everything is healing. It is so strange to eat nothing, while the family sits around eating and snacking. I know this is what I signed up for, but I didn't think I'd be so sick. I hope that each day will show improvement. So far I'm up one pound, but I knew to expect that because of all the IV fluids they gave me in the hospital. I will need to lean on this site, because although my family is supportive, they don't seem to "get it". :unsure:

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How are you doing?

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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