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Here's some things I'm looking forward to after surgery. Please add yours too!

  • Buying clothes that don't have an X or W in the size
  • Not stressing about seatbelts on airplanes
  • Crossing my legs!!
  • Buying cute bras and matching panties
  • Not struggling to get socks and undies on
  • Working out at gym like i used to
  • Participating in 5K (or more) again
  • Not huffing and puffing from car to work
  • Seeing my neck again
  • Painting my own toenails (well I do like a good pedi but to have the option to do it myself would be nice)
  • No longer unintentionally knocking things off the table, etc. with my butt
  • Feeling good!

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All of the above plus...

Not having to worry about fitting in booths

Being able to have a laptop on my lap

Being able to comfortably move down aisles in an airplane

Weighing less than my husband!

Getting rid of some of my joint pain

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those are two very good lists

i will add to those

hold my grandchildren on my lap (you know the one that doesn't see, to be there right now)

carry my youngest grandchild more than a couple of feet without having to put him down.

taking a nice long walk and enjoying it

have motivation to paint again

accept more invitations to things instead of being such a homebody.

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Rollar coaster.

Water park rides.

tights or nylons NOT from Lane Giant.

anything BUT fragrances from Victoria Secret.

boots.

a belt.

i dream of a columbia jacket size “L"

wearing my husbands sweatshirt and having it too big

wearing a pair of stilettos and not looking like a beer keg on stilts.

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"Lane Giant"

I love it! LOL

All of the above ladies, plus the not getting overlooked at an interview even though I have better credentials.

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Whoohoooo. I did not really comprehend how far I've come until I realized I have or can do almost everything on the above lists, except cute bras and panties and the 5 K run! Wow. I remember posting on what I wanted on a post just like this, wondering at the time if it would ever happen! Here it is 5 months later and just wow! I should go find they list and see how I'm doing.

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I look forward to being able to carry my daughter without my ankles giving out. She has CP and cannot walk. I have fallen with her in my arms 3 times due to my ankles or a knee giving out. Thankfully she has never been hurt. She is only 34lbs and I worry about what I will do when she gets older and heavier.

And all of the above that everyone else wrote.

Oh and not looking weird in lingerie with thigh high hose!!!

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"Oh and not looking weird in lingerie with thigh high hose!!! "

for the record - even the tiny girls look like sausages stuffed into thigh highs - the secret is getting a large enough size - they sell those at Torrid and I’ve been known to put a size 6 in a 2x torrid thigh high.

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I still need to do it standing up. Buy cute bra. Everything else thanks god I manage to do.

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Here's some things I'm looking forward to after surgery. Please add yours too!

[*]Buying clothes that don't have an X or W in the size

[*]Not stressing about seatbelts on airplanes

[*]Crossing my legs!!

[*]Buying cute bras and matching panties

[*]Not struggling to get socks and undies on

[*]Working out at gym like i used to

[*]Participating in 5K (or more) again

[*]Not huffing and puffing from car to work

[*]Seeing my neck again

[*]Painting my own toenails (well I do like a good pedi but to have the option to do it myself would be nice)

[*]No longer unintentionally knocking things off the table' date=' etc. with my butt

[*']Feeling good!

I am there with you can't wait to accomplish all of these things!!!!!

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I agree but I got a big booty naturally so that won't change. I wanna add getting on roller coasters..... and I just don't like having huge arms and a big belly.

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ooooo i keep thinking of more -

a thong - and not the kind that you wonder why the hell did that girl just wear a triangle in the front....

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