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Thanks guys... He is taking it slow. In some pain but they just gave pain meds. Day 1 of new beginnings!

Congrats to your husband.

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Prayers for a speedy recovery!

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Thanks! This has been pretty tough. It brings me to tears to see him in pain cause he is so strong. I told him I wish I could take ur pain and put it on me...he said no... I won't let u. Then he told me he felt so blessed to hav a good and beautiful wife to be with him thru this...so blessed! Wow my hubby is so sweet!! I'm the truly blessed one. Can't wait to joke with him....snoooorrreee....ice! Ice chips!!...snnnoooorree...ice!!! Icechips!!! Lol

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Thanks! This has been pretty tough. It brings me to tears to see him in pain cause he is so strong. I told him I wish I could take ur pain and put it on me...he said no... I won't let u. Then he told me he felt so blessed to hav a good and beautiful wife to be with him thru this...so blessed! Wow my hubby is so sweet!! I'm the truly blessed one. Can't wait to joke with him....snoooorrreee....ice! Ice chips!!...snnnoooorree...ice!!! Icechips!!! Lol

Awwww its a beautiful feeling when we know we have that special one :)

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Thanks yo, and kiwi I'm already on it. Restaurant down street has a big bag just like that. He should get broth or sum today like he is living on ice chips. Ready for him to have something.

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Glad to hear he is doing well. Thanks god i have a freezer that makes ice.

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Thanks! This has been pretty tough. It brings me to tears to see him in pain cause he is so strong. I told him I wish I could take ur pain and put it on me...he said no... I won't let u. Then he told me he felt so blessed to hav a good and beautiful wife to be with him thru this...so blessed! Wow my hubby is so sweet!! I'm the truly blessed one. Can't wait to joke with him....snoooorrreee....ice! Ice chips!!...snnnoooorree...ice!!! Icechips!!! Lol

Glad he's doing well!!! And Lol about the ice chips...... I swear ice has become my BEST FRIEND after surgery!! Warm drinks make me gag, they HAVE to be super cold!!!

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Congrats to your hubby and glad to hear he's doing well!

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Thanks y'all r just darling! He is doing very good he practically ran around the unit! His Lil sis calle him road runner. I had to tell him slow down. He is having the burps and like phlegm came up a couple of times. I'm gettin menu together so we are very prepared. His mom makes some delish tuna so I'm gonna make that (altered low sugar), Jello, chicken salad, chicken broth, Protein Shakes, and smoothies, also I'm gonna make the no noodle lasagna I know that will be tasty. Do u all actually put everything in food processor or do u just make sure u chew a lot?

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

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