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If you only can have a few bites? How many pieces of sushi can you actually eat?

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I usually always share a meal with my family. Other than that it is not usually worth it to go out.

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If you only can have a few bites? How many pieces of sushi can you actually eat?

I can get about 3 to 4 pieces down depending on size

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When I eat out at a sushi restaurant, I order sashimi I can eat about 3 pieces and then maybe 1 piece of someone else's roll..

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Why eat out? Because it is a fun, social thing to do.

Sushi with rice will need to be avoided for awhile as rice is one of those nutritionally irrelevant foods that occupies WAY too much space. It is also a food that will expand more once it gets into your stomach. If you are still in the window where leaks could happen, this could potentially be dangerous.

When I went out early on, I would get Soups and ask the waitress to have them pureed. No problem. As I progressed, so did my selections. When I am out with my wife or family, we split. We still have doggy bags, too!

So ... why wouldn't you eat out?

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How long after surgery will you able to have that piece of cake? Or few bites of it?

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I have not yet had sushi because I have not consumed rice or bread yet so I can't really speak to how much sushi. I'm 5 1/2 months out. I know I can but not going to till at least the end of the year before any rice or bread pass my lips.

However, as far as eating out, it's a part of living normally. You will never eat as much as before but you can share, doggie bag, order a starter. It an important part of our social life with friends and family.

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I love eating out. One meal turns into 3-4 meals. I am 7 months out

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We don't go out much. My hubby likes my cooking. But like TapSnap writes it is 3-4 meals. Great leftovers for work.

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How long after surgery will you able to have that piece of cake? Or few bites of it?

I avoided flour things until about the 6 month mark. I could have probably had some sooner, but you really need to take advantage of the first 12 months as that is your best window to lose weight. Don't jeopardize it by feeding your taste buds only.

If you are getting the surgery and wondering when you will be able to eat cake, you may want to take a closer look at your relationship with food.

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Just order something al a carte, or tell the waiter you need the senior menu, or get some Soup. If someone else is ordering an entree, depending on where you go they have multiple sides they can choose at a lesser amount than al a carte, ask to order that way.

You could just chop up some fruit and take with. I do that alot.

I eat sushi all the time. A competent chef will be able to deviate away from rice. I get rolls without rice and they wrap them in a thinly sliced cucumber sheet. or order roe on slices of cucumber wrapped in seaweed.

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I've been enjoying the occasional restaurant meal since 6 weeks out and I'm now 5 months out. I can eat more than a few bites... more like nearly a cup of food and I enjoy every bite immensely.... also as much as I do enjoy cooking I also enjoy a night off once in a while and I definitely enjoy a break from the dishes/clean up.

As for sushi, I'm not a fan so I wouldn't choose to eat sushi... but I do LOVE the ginger chicken at the Vietnamese place up the street.. and I even eat a few bites of the rice noodles with my chicken. My boyfriend and I share an entree. The waiter happily brings me an extra plate and I portion off around 2/3 cup of chicken and a few tablespoons of rice noodles and we enjoy our meal and evening out.

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I eat out two or three times a week - I am four months out - and I do it because it is an important part of my life. It's the social aspect of doing it that matters to me nowadays, spending time with friends and family and having fun.

In the past, it was all about the food. I still enjoy the little I eat but I always get my own plate - I can't do the eating off other people's plate thing, lol. I make better choices since my sleeve, I don't see a meal out as a reward any more or an excuse just to eat and eat until I am stuffed.

OP, please don't give up on going out just because of the amount you can eat. It is still enjoyable just different!

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I love for my hubby to take me n the kids out to eat. I never order a plate. I always eat from his and he loves it. But when me n him go out alone he lets me order my own. He like for me to feel good. I take it home and it last for like about 3 more days. I enjoy the time we spend as a family even though there is always food involved. I make my own choices on what to eat and what not to eat.

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Just order something al a carte, or tell the waiter you need the senior menu, or get some Soup. If someone else is ordering an entree, depending on where you go they have multiple sides they can choose at a lesser amount than al a carte, ask to order that way.

You could just chop up some fruit and take with. I do that alot.

I eat sushi all the time. A competent chef will be able to deviate away from rice. I get rolls without rice and they wrap them in a thinly sliced cucumber sheet. or order roe on slices of cucumber wrapped in seaweed.

I love sushi but haven't eaten it because of the rice. Can most restaurants makes sushi without rice?

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

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