So I'm at work and this girl that weighs 90 pounds with wet clothes on says in a fatigued tone, "omg I was dancing all day at a concert in the park yesterday and I must have lost 10 pounds"....OH SHUT THE _____ UP. I gained 4 pounds since the end of may on a low calorie low carb diet! In addition to aerobics and strength training 3x/ week. UGH, granted I lost 31 pounds on my supervised diet but I can't stand gaining gaining gaining. I cannot wait to get sleeved. Everything in and waiting on approval from HIP. Just need to vent :-/

I don't agree w some of you just because there skinny don't think they dont worry about weight gain ... You all feel the need to think its something else you do have skinny ppl that worry just because the see fat ppl and that the reality but it's hard to put yourself in their shoes because some use aren't there yet but I've been called skinny I worry about my weight but a person that doesn't kno me would think other wise because I'm skinny I think we should be mindful of others we hate when stereo type us for being fat and we do it to skinny ppl for being skinny

Mind you I'm not taking it personal because I'm trapped in a skinny body but I have a far girl mind I lost 97 pounds in 6 months my mind have not gotten there

You all are funny and crazy talking about skinny Bs but we will get there someday with a little extra work. Can't wait cos I'm only 1 month post op. good luck all

I don't agree w some of you just because there skinny don't think they dont worry about weight gain ... You all feel the need to think its something else you do have skinny ppl that worry just because the see fat ppl and that the reality but it's hard to put yourself in their shoes because some use aren't there yet but I've been called skinny I worry about my weight but a person that doesn't kno me would think other wise because I'm skinny I think we should be mindful of others we hate when stereo type us for being fat and we do it to skinny ppl for being skinny

Skinny people definitely have insecurities and such too. Everyone does...it's the complaining about things they i have dubbed "non-issues". You know if you have a weight problem or not. My issue is...if you don't have a weight problem quit acting like you do!!

I definitely agree with the fishing for compliments statement because after the girl said what she had to say...everyone was all "oh not that you had 10 pounds to loose" "I wish I was like you" and "u look great stop complaining"... So maybe it's her need for reassurance that he's thin...hmm thought provoking lol

Skinny is not equal to happiness. I have a friend who struggles, really struggles, to gain any weight. She got sick and her weight dropped dangerously low. She is a type one insulin dependant diabetic so it isn't as simple as just eating some pies for her. Gaining weight is hard work, losing any is frightening, and I have learnt to have some compassion for her rather than being envious of her pants size.

Sometimes we can be so focused on our own troubles and struggles that we forget that skinny on its own is not a sole indicator of good health or happiness.

Just as people look at me and think I am lazy and unhealthy - I know that I look at thin people with envy, and I bet a lot of them are lazy and unhealthy too. But still - the ex-daughter in law who kept a perfect house and grazed on bad food all day - I can't help but be a little hatee on her - she reminds me of the perfect Stepford Moms at my kids school!!

Non issue to heavier ppl because this person complain about weight problems but. In her eye might just feel that way .. Fishing for compliments while as women we all do that nothing wrong w it .. Just because wewould trade places with a smaller person because we are bigger doesn't not make her issue valid just because we see her in duck a way doesn't mean she does so just think about that ..

I apologize if I offended anyone with my post. Please take it in the spirit it was meant.

I apologize if I offended anyone with my post. Please take it in the spirit it was meant.

I am hoping everyone is keeping it light hearted! We all know that skinny people have issues too. Lawd...I think the original poster meant this to be lighthearted. I know I did. No need to get preachy about how skinny people have issues too. No matter what someone says....if you have been or are a fat girl...you know you have made a skinny beotch comment. Just saying!

I hope to be one of those skinny beotches that gets cold when its 80 degrees instead of sweating like a roasting pig!

I for real...LOLOLOLOLOL'D A LOT!!! BC I'm not sleeved yet, nd yet, I'm always cold. It's 86 outside right now and I'm under my cover watchn tv, lol. I hope when im sleeved I don't freeze to death!

I am hoping everyone is keeping it light hearted! We all know that skinny people have issues too. Lawd...I think the original poster meant this to be lighthearted. I know I did. No need to get preachy about how skinny people have issues too. No matter what someone says....if you have been or are a fat girl...you know you have made a skinny beotch comment. Just saying!

Girl plz .. Opinion is different from preaching

I am hoping everyone is keeping it light hearted! We all know that skinny people have issues too. Lawd...I think the original poster meant this to be lighthearted. I know I did. No need to get preachy about how skinny people have issues too. No matter what someone says....if you have been or are a fat girl...you know you have made a skinny beotch comment. Just saying!

Girl plz .. Opinion is different from preaching

Girl plz .. Opinion is different from preaching

Hahaha...."girl plz" is funny. Yes it is...opinion is very different than preachin...and I used the term correctly in my opinion...

I don't have a weight problem anymore..160 pounds down since my sleeve 15 months ago. I'm a skinny b***h that is terrified to gain weight...but in my eyes I still see myself as that other person. My body lost the weight quicker than my mind could keep up. When you have your sleeve give it a few months and you will understand

Don't get a draws in a bunch gals lol. I swear sometimes all the cattiness on this forum makes me wanna eat. Everyone on this forum has a weight problem. If you didn't you wouldn't be getting or have gotten sleeved. Just because you lose weight doesn't mean you don't have a weight problem, just means that you're not a heavy as before. I would stick my neck out on a chopping block that if anyone that's post-op eats unhealthy like some naturally genetically skinny people that they'd gain all the weight back plus some.

In addition I would like to say, I started this thread as a light hearted place to vent about societies nuances or skinny people's non-issues! If you don't have anything sweet or salty to add to the pot, there's like a cazillion other threads here, keep the sourness to yourself.

Obviously....no one hates all skinny people, that'll take a lot of energy and in the words on sweet brown "AIN'T NOBODY GOT TIME FOR THAT" so lets just all unbundle our panties and carry on please. Thanks in advance.