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Buyer's Remorse?

Hi everyone,

Anybody with regrets past 4-6wks? It seems a ton people on here get buyers remorse in the beginning.

Can you please share your story if you regretted it in the beginning & now love it?

Anyone out there that has been sleeved for a while & just wished they never had the surgery?

Thanks all!

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I was sleeved on 2/19 and the only time I had any regret was when I didn't think I was losing fast enough. However, searching through the various forums I found I was not alone. My only regret is that I took so long to do it.

My surgery was 2/19 too. Definitely had buyer's remorse, and while I'm still not at the point where I can say I'm so glad I did this!! I'm slowly getting there.

I keep forgetting to mention I developed pneumonia 3 weeks out and I'm still not 100% and that probably has a lot to do with my outlook.

I had buyers remorse in the first 3 weeks. I had a complication though, so my recovery was a little worse than someone who sails right through it.

I'm 6 weeks now and since around week 3.5 I have never regretted it again.

Best decision ever.

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Thanks everyone for responding, I really appreciate it!

Now that I'm done, I wish that I had had the single incision surgery. My uppermost incision separated and is now basically a hole that I'm waiting to fill in. It's a little smaller than a dime and goes down 1/4" to the internal sutures. You can see the neat little stitches. When it's healed I'm going to have a horrible scar right in the middle, about 2" below my sternum.

But I just didn't have the extra $1000. Decided to buy chickens instead. At least you can eat them!

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Had my procedure 4/4/2012, one year ago. I have lost 67 lbs and my goal is 70 lbs. I'm extremely happy I had the procedure. The first 9-12 weeks I was so afraid I had done something I would regret, but not the case I'm so happy.

Had my procedure 4/4/2012, one year ago. I have lost 67 lbs and my goal is 70 lbs. I'm extremely happy I had the procedure. The first 9-12 weeks I was so afraid I had done something I would regret, but not the case I'm so happy.

Not one second EVER. I was like a kid going on vacation, it was an adventure, a journey. I was hyped from the time I woke up in recovery, I felt like "Ok, let the fun begin" and I've never looked back!!!!!

Now that I'm done, I wish that I had had the single incision surgery. My uppermost incision separated and is now basically a hole that I'm waiting to fill in. It's a little smaller than a dime and goes down 1/4" to the internal sutures. You can see the neat little stitches. When it's healed I'm going to have a horrible scar right in the middle, about 2" below my sternum.

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If it makes you feel any better, my mom (who just retired as an OR nurse doing robotic and laparoscopic procedures--mostly gyn) says that the single incision techniques don't give the surgeon equal visualization compared with the multi-incisional laparoscopic procedures. Honestly, I would rather have a few extra scars vs not having them able to see as well what's going on in there....

If it makes you feel any better, my mom (who just retired as an OR nurse doing robotic and laparoscopic procedures--mostly gyn) says that the single incision techniques don't give the surgeon equal visualization compared with the multi-incisional laparoscopic procedures. Honestly, I would rather have a few extra scars vs not having them able to see as well what's going on in there....

and the 'scars' are NOTHING. Three years later and nobody could tell unless a close examination was done. They disappeared within a year.

I can't see my scars either.

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