OKAY I am totally venting here....I have been doing great out of surgery, feeling better, back to work, back to the gym, etc...So today I decided to post a personal ad on a dating site....People are supposed to respond if they are interested right? Well this guy emails me saying that I should be ashamed and disgusted of my weight...I have a beautiful face and smile but I am so unhealthy it is disgusting...I am not his type (who the hell asked him?)...I should hang out with people that diet and excercise...I am truly beside myself....No wonder why I am fucking insecure, sorry about the language...Why are people so mean I just dont get it....

wow the nerve of that guy. If i were you i would email him back and say something nasty about his apperance, lets see how he likes it! It's very childish i know but so was what he did to you. I am so sorry about that.

He was an arrogant ass so you are better off. In a few months, imagine what his shallow arrogant ass will be missing out on. The old saying Beauty is skin deep is so true. Sorry that you got dumped on!!!

He had it all wrong, he is the disgusting one! You keep your add up and I would keep his name around so in a year or so when you are at his standard you can rub it in his nasty face. I hope he doesn't get you too down, I know it must hurt. Little does he know, you have taken control of your life and making the necessary changes for your health already. Joke is on him. You can lose weight, but there is nothing he can do about being ugly! Inside or out.

He just saved you a lot of time and trouble, with values like that you wouldn't want him anyway.

What a jerk. As if to say you would have been interested in him. Go figure.

Honey - Some guys just don't feel like a man unless they are making somebody else feel like shit.

Pay him no mind. Someone out there will see your worth. Keep that ad posted.

No wonder he's hanging out at an online dating site.

i totally agree with sweethot143 on this... save that message for motivation and a year from now email him back and tell him exactly what a shallow peice of cow dung he is and that you wouldnt give him the time of day - unbelievable!! none of us may be perfect on the outside but at least our insides are beautiful... whats going to happen to his shallow self when he gets old and wrinklely?? i hope some beautiful hot chick tells him to buy an iron!! what a pathetic excuse of a man. he should have just passed your picture on by and said nothing. Again use that message for motivation - i know it helps motivate me just reading about it.

Oh chalk it up to a arse for sure! I met my DH online, heavy, and he of normal weight. Remember, you have to kiss lots of toads before you find prince charming. At least you didn't have to bother wasting a kiss on this guy!

Don't let anyone lower your self esteem. Some get kicks out of making others feel bad so they can feel good about themselves.

Keep your ad and ignore idiots like that who respond!

What a tiny little man! All I can do is laugh, since complete jerks like that will never get it.

Pay him no mind! You deserve better, but you already know that. Some people are just so ill mannered that it makes me wonder where their mammas are. Put the toad on "ignore" and find that prince.

apinksoprano,

tell him to suck your dick and keep on moving, girlfriend. If he was so great, he'd have a girlfriend right now. Don't internalize his hatred. You have as much to be there as anyone else. And don't let anyone else make you believe otherwise.

Just my $0.02.

Nathalie

Please, don't even give it a second thought. He's probably some old, grotesque looking creature sitting behind his computer stuffing his face with cheetos and oreos and has nothing better to do than troll on-line dating sites and insult people. Ignore him. He won't be the last email you'll receive like that either. There are a lot of jerks out there, LOTS! Hope you find a nice guy, I know you will. Good luck.

Wow.....what a CATCH! Could you imagine the type of woman he will end up with....because who would be accepting of that type of personality. He'll either meet his match and live in agony for the rest of his life or he'll grow to be a very lonely old man.....serves him right.

It always hurts when you are attacked like that and it may not be the last time you will have to suffer something like this....just remember....you are better than this so get over it and move on!

Carol

thanks you guys I totally had to vent that earlier...Ughh he killed me...But I will use this as a motivator...He can kiss my ass!!!

Hey Wheetsin....I am hanging out at an online dating site and I am a great person......