I was sleeved on Election Day at 322 lbs. Just weighed in at 276. I've rediscovered the wonderful world of S E X after many years of just "going through the motions". My how things have changed! It was brought to my attention that it is preferred by most women to have a 'clean' shaven man. Really? Why? I just don't get it. Unless there's a true purpose behind doing it, I just can't see myself doing that.

I always knew there was a reason I liked people from India - not just because they are good software engineers

(I am from the land of Microsoft so lots of Indian SW engineers around here). hahaha

I only knew about shaving down there when I come to the US. In my country only the prostitutes shave and we can guess why ( with all the traffic) but when I got here I started doing it, end up with bumps, cuts, a mess. I dated an Indian and he was not into shaving at all so I got lucky , now back to my culture, no shaving at all. He even wants the armpits so I draw the line, these gotta go but if I need something special like a car, a vaca paid for, hello armpits hair, check in my hands!!!! Now you go back to my country, shaving is a trends for some.

to the person who said that ladies all like men to be clean shaven - NOT true. I don't because I dont like being stabbed with sharp hairs and I don't consider body hair a turn off anyway. To me, at least some body hair is a masculine trait and I just think it is normal/expected in an adult.

Update on my experiment - my shaving wasn't nice. Even with the conditioner, I got a few bumps. However, it has grown out nice and soft - I don't really have that much hair and it grows slow - I am just going to trim unti I get the nerve to try waxing. I want to wax legs first and see if I die from the pain or not...lol

I must say that this and a couple of other threads are what keep me coming back to vst even though I am over a year out from surgery. Maybe this is how we keep more veterans posting on the site...LOL

Jane, welcome to my world and believe me when i say they are petite but boy they can throw down . Don't let their size fool you.